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post 1560039951 08-29-2018, 10:51 PM
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Casual sex is stupid

Alright, a lot of you guys hype up sex with randoms and sleeping with many women. I thought I wanted the same thing during my 2.5 year relationship with my ex who broke up with me in May. Since we broke up I've slept with 6 girls, just slept with the 6th one less than an hour ago. And I've come to the conclusion that casual sex is the dumbest sht ever. It is so fcking pointless man. There is absolutely nothing to it. Like so what if you can pull girls? Who gives a fck? I just want a nice attractive girl who is into me, clean, loyal, faithful and just an overall great girl. I had that and I lost it. Next time I get it I'm making sure I don't lose it. God that sht is fcking stupid. I've been seriously considering going celibate until I find a girl I really like and one that likes me. Everytime I sleep with a new girl, I get closer to actually making the decision of being celibate. I think I'm just going to focus more on school, getting a great career and hopefully creating my own business one day, and forget about women, the right one will come along when the time is right, I could run into her anywhere. And before I forget, focusing more in the gym and finally hitting 200lb
post 1560039991 08-29-2018, 10:53 PM
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post 1560040361 08-29-2018, 11:00 PM
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^I agree with OP. IMO having a lot of casual sex is a kind of cope, at least it was for me anyway. I know I could get up in some honey walls if I wanted. It used to be a HHUUGGEE drive in me to do that because in my head it was like "yes, if I can do this I'm a real man, I need to be able to pull more poon than this guy or that guy so show I'm better than them and this chick will think I'm the best ever", but once it became apparent that I could without problem, and the making chicks finish was easy, the desire dwindled. TBQH I also kind of have a hard time not developing feelings for someone I sleep with.
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post 1560040681 08-29-2018, 11:05 PM
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I agree OP. Its only fun for me in the moment, usually I'm drunk and end up feeling kinda ****ty the next day.
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post 1560040821 08-29-2018, 11:07 PM
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post 1560040991 08-29-2018, 11:11 PM
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post 1560041531 08-29-2018, 11:25 PM
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I feel the same way but only because girls only fuk once and then ghost me.
If I had time to learn what she liked and gained some chemistry or had a fuk buddy for once, it would be nice.. but it does feel kind of weird when you are in bed and you want to cuddle but you dont truly love her. hmm
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post 1560042151 08-29-2018, 11:41 PM
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post 1560042361 08-29-2018, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Coolman468⏩
Alright, a lot of you guys hype up sex with randoms and sleeping with many women. I thought I wanted the same thing during my 2.5 year relationship with my ex who broke up with me in May. Since we broke up I've slept with 6 girls, just slept with the 6th one less than an hour ago. And I've come to the conclusion that casual sex is the dumbest sht ever. It is so fcking pointless man. There is absolutely nothing to it. Like so what if you can pull girls? Who gives a fck? I just want a nice attractive girl who is into me, clean, loyal, faithful and just an overall great girl. I had that and I lost it. Next time I get it I'm making sure I don't lose it. God that sht is fcking stupid. I've been seriously considering going celibate until I find a girl I really like and one that likes me. Everytime I sleep with a new girl, I get closer to actually making the decision of being celibate. I think I'm just going to focus more on school, getting a great career and hopefully creating my own business one day, and forget about women, the right one will come along when the time is right, I could run into her anywhere. And before I forget, focusing more in the gym and finally hitting 200lb
Did you know you can do all of that, and still bang the occasional hot random slut?
post 1560042381 08-29-2018, 11:47 PM
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post 1560042451 08-29-2018, 11:49 PM
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I think it's an ego thing more than anything OP. If you're FA/incel, it sounds incredible, but once you know you can pull women for sex, the desire is gone (at least for me). It's easier (and sometimes more enjoyable vs. a condom) to just use a fleshlight.
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post 1560042501 08-29-2018, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think it's an ego thing more than anything OP. If you're FA/incel, it sounds incredible, but once you know you can pull women for sex, the desire is gone (at least for me). It's easier (and sometimes more enjoyable vs. a condom) to just use a fleshlight.
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post 1560042591 08-29-2018, 11:55 PM
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Sounds to me like you aren't comfortable in your own skin my man
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post 1560042761 08-30-2018, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
I feel the same way but only because girls only fuk once and then ghost me.
If I had time to learn what she liked and gained some chemistry or had a fuk buddy for once, it would be nice.. but it does feel kind of weird when you are in bed and you want to cuddle but you dont truly love her. hmm
Have you ever triedaskingone of them why you might be getting ghosted? What could you lose? After a year of it you'd think a logical person would try to determine why.
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post 1560042781 08-30-2018, 12:02 AM
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Gotta agree, but I can’t stop doing it. Especially if I have a few drinks in me. Always feel lonely and empty the next day after, I think that’s because I lower my standards on these ONS missions
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post 1560043021 08-30-2018, 12:12 AM
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post 1560043131 08-30-2018, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion⏩
That sounds like a fukin terrible idea
Usually, yes. But one of them might actually be honest.
It's not like what he's doing now is doing him any favours.

If I were getting ghosted that would be one way to find out any kind of information, instead he does nothing except bring it up on the misc and then hope the next girl doesn't do the same. There has to be something that can be told to him, maybe he was too clingy, it was a crap lay, the body is there (curiosity) but the personality is not (No further interest after "unwrapping") - there's something wrong if every girl he sleeps with doesn't contact him again and speculation has only gotten him so far.

Fortunately the only girls I've never seen again after sex was a single-mother and a whale. The former clearly just wanted a ONS and the other, well I was not up for seconds. All the other girls saw me as BF material, so I must be doing something better than him.

Think about it dude:

-Don't bring up that you're looking for something serious but mysteriously all girls are ghosting
-Find out zero information
-Get ghosted because of underlying issues

-Bring it up
-Perhaps get some information
-Get ghosted because of topic

Either way he gets ghosted. But at least in one he could potentially have something to work on. Big emphasis on potentially, because for all we know he could just get "no chemistry" x 1000. But maybe one girl will tell him that there's something legitimately off-putting that he does in the bedroom.
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post 1560043461 08-30-2018, 12:27 AM
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Not reading that phuking wall of text boyo.

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post 1560043631 08-30-2018, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion⏩
On that small peen time?
I hope not.
but any girls that randomly commented on the size said it was big or huge so idk.
Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Have you ever triedaskingone of them why you might be getting ghosted? What could you lose? After a year of it you'd think a logical person would try to determine why.
of course ive tried. I ask if I get upset about ghosting in general. Not just after sexual experiences. Never get an answer so thats cool.

actually.. a girl I fukd saturday and said she would be up for it again suddenly says she is too old for me.. yet she was sucking me and riding me saturday. riiight
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Since I lost my virginity I had always been in long term relationships, I was always a guy girls wanted to date but not one that girls wanted to ONS. Even through university I dated 2 girls for almost all of it. Eventually I broke off the biggest one and Tinder had been out for about a year, I went hard at it trying to get as much as possible. My limit in a month would be 2-3 before I just felt too dead inside and empty. The feeling of not wanting them around me the second dat nut was busted was the worst, I'd question what I was doing etc..

Just ended up longing for someone who understood what I'm about, who I am, my history, why I am the way I am, clicked perfectly with my sense of humor and knew what it took to get me where I needed to be.

Comparing that to the disappointment when you have a ONS and the sex isn't good, taking a girl doggy and her angus smells, or a random having a sweaty unventilated or unwashed coochie... They really don't compare to someone who gets you and also that you know has good sexing skills and good hygiene etc.

As soon as I'm in a long term relationship for a while though.. I start thinking about what another set of different sized tits would feel like, or a diff poosy would be like. Guess I just can't be happy.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
of course ive tried. I ask if I get upset about ghosting in general. Not just after sexual experiences. Never get an answer so thats cool.

actually.. a girl I fukd saturday and said she would be up for it again suddenly says she is too old for me.. yet she was sucking me and riding me saturday. riiight
Sounds like you're just sleeping with flaky women then. Sorry I accused you of not being proactive about it.

Are you still on Tinder matches only? How's your confidence compared to a year ago?
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Maybe you should try pulling some attractive girls instead?
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Originally Posted By JeremyCH⏩
Working on a rebound after getting dumped by my ex almost 40 days ago. Things are looking up to say the least
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
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All those things are true lol. A lot can change in a year and a half when you hit the weights and stop acting 100% autistic and shift it down to 83.33% instead.
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Originally Posted By JeremyCH⏩
All those things are true lol. A lot can change in a year and a half when you hit the weights and stop acting 100% autistic and shift it down to 83.33% instead.
Das it mane, that last 16.67% of autism is definitely the real killer
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
Das it mane, that last 16.67% of autism is definitely the real killer
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Originally Posted By JeremyCH⏩
On spread with the 6'4" crew no homo
Lol, 6'4", lives in the US and can't get laid. Bad news for you boyo... don't look half bad from what I can tell in avi, either.
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