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post 1569031451 12-19-2018, 08:39 AM
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Incel’s and no friends: why aren’t you in a dance class?

Serious question?
It’s the number one best way to meet people
Number one best social skill to have
You can use it at any occasion wedding birthday date or party
Good exercise
Feels good
Fights depression

I have minimal skills from partying with friends but am confident enough to just do whatever and I always meet people
I’m kind of dad bod fat and ok face not a chad
Anyone can do it

Most of you not in nyc can find a dance class for $15
1-2 times a week for 3 months is enough to make you decent enough to look like a good dancer
Men don’t dance, you will stand out
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because they are autistic ?
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Originally Posted By atjoblin⏩
lol okay the fat neck beards are going to jump on this.
I’m kinda fat bro no shame in my game
Serious question
It’s like minimal effort to improve your life experience
People keep complaining that they can’t meet women etc but pretty sure they aren’t dancing

I killed it at a party yesterday
Funny thing was I was getting social anxiety because everyone knew each other and was talking to each other and I was all alone
Had some drinks and a woman asked me to dance with her and her friend and get the dance party started and we danced a little then like 15 minutes later everyone joined us and the party got lit af
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cuz i'm not gay, bro
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Still gotta shower, put on nice clothes and have at least a shred of confidence to ask a girl to dance.

If those weren't a huge problem for incels then sure dance classes would be perfect. I actually have taken a lot of dance classes in my life and its easy mode meeting nice girls but you gotta have those 3 things down first.
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post 1569032461 12-19-2018, 08:51 AM
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Solid advice is solid. But incels are the kind of guys to have coco pops stuck in their beard. Not sure they'll have much luck regardless.
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My wife always talks about being a dancer but all she does is twerk when I ask her..... hm...


Anyhow, took a dance class with her before our wedding and the gay instructor kept cutting in to show her how to do it right.

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Originally Posted By RudeKong⏩
Still gotta shower, put on nice clothes and have at least a shred of confidence to ask a girl to dance.

If those weren't a huge problem for incels then sure dance classes would be perfect. I actually have taken a lot of dance classes in my life and its easy mode meeting nice girls but you gotta have those 3 things down first.
I disagree
Most dance classes aren’t with a partner
A basic hip hop class you dance by yourself
Don’t have to approach anyone or ask to dance ever
You can just dance by yourself at a party and if you are good people will dance around you
You can learn like 1 minute of choreography and jump in a dance circle do it and jump right back out
Is fun
One woman jumped in and did a bad robot dance and jumped out

What classes have you taken?
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I have learned that it is not worth it to change yourself to try to get women. Because it isn't who you are. After you get the girl, you will stop doing those things, and she will hate you, cheat on you, and leave you.

That's why lifting for girls, taking dance classes, etc is dumb af. In the end, you are either lovable or you aren't. If you aren't, pretending to be might snag you some hole for a while, but it won't make them love you. I am starting to realize that my thirst clouded my judgment in women.

Taking dance classes will get you to meet outgoing women who like to dance. These types of women are probably sloots. They also probably aren't your type if you are a basement dwelling incel.
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Ok forget women
It’s fun to dance with your bro’s too
Plus dance is enjoyable
I can’t see a person learning to dance and thinking “this isn’t me”
It’s fun af
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Because I'm fat and ugly. And lol at dancing with bros, tf I'm gonna dance with bros for


Not srs. I want to take up Salsa that way I can take girls dancing on 1st date or hit up some Spanish chicks at salsa clubs. I imagine they're way better than typical clubs because everyone is in formal attire and the music isn't some retarded head bang trash.
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Ok forget women

It’s fun to dance with your bro’s too
Plus dance is enjoyable
I can’t see a person learning to dance and thinking “this isn’t me”
It’s fun af
post 1569033841 12-19-2018, 09:11 AM
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Guess I got my answers
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I have learned that it is not worth it to change yourself to try to get women. Because it isn't who you are. After you get the girl, you will stop doing those things, and she will hate you, cheat on you, and leave you.

That's why lifting for girls, taking dance classes, etc is dumb af. In the end, you are either lovable or you aren't. If you aren't, pretending to be might snag you some hole for a while, but it won't make them love you. I am starting to realize that my thirst clouded my judgment in women.

Taking dance classes will get you to meet outgoing women who like to dance. These types of women are probably sloots. They also probably aren't your type if you are a basement dwelling incel.
I applaud you for saying things I'm simply too lazy to type. Although not all are sloots, some just like the workout. I had an ex super into dancing but she just did it alone for cardio and fun.
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Guess I got my answers
Nah I really want to try just haven't had the chance. I'll put in in my New Year's resolution schedule. Will try some out in February when everything dies down.
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I agree that it’s a great way to meet people, girls especially like to go and are often encouraged to go as a way to meet men to date. my cousins went all the time when they were still single, my mom’s encouraged me to go, maybe one day if i could actually want to leave the house
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Nah I really want to try just haven't had the chance. I'll put in in my New Year's resolution schedule. Will try some out in February when everything dies down.
What style are you thinking?
Salsa is hard af and I took one class and never went back
Took a couple hip hop classes and they were more fun

I’ve spent years on martial arts that I never use and should have just did dance class
Samba and bachata look fun and sexy af

If you are married try taking the wife to ball room class
It will def spice up your sex life
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
What style are you thinking?
Salsa is hard af and I took one class and never went back
Took a couple hip hop classes and they were more fun

I’ve spent years onmartial arts that I never useand should have just did dance class
Samba and bachata look fun and sexy af

If you are married try taking the wife to ball room class
It will def spice up your sex life
Well that's just a bad way to see it. MA is good for so much even if it's not 'used' but the confidence knowing you can handle most people who can't fight is a good feeling.
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which one do you go to OP? I'm in NYC as well. I've considered trying to improve my dancing and the social aspect of it is nice too
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
I disagree
Most dance classes aren’t with a partner
A basic hip hop class you dance by yourself
Don’t have to approach anyone or ask to dance ever
You can just dance by yourself at a party and if you are good people will dance around you
You can learn like 1 minute of choreography and jump in a dance circle do it and jump right back out
Is fun
One woman jumped in and did a bad robot dance and jumped out

What classes have you taken?
Found that video of you OP



Also pretty much name it and I've taken it. Swing and Salsa are my favorites but Tango was probably the one with the most sloots. We got a place in my town that you register through the university and you get 9 lessons for $40.
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Dancing is cringe thats why

I mean how many men are just going to bust a move sober in some weird class lol
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
What style are you thinking?
Salsa is hard af and I took one class and never went back
Took a couple hip hop classes and they were more fun

I’ve spent years on martial arts that I never use and should have just did dance class
Samba and bachata look fun and sexy af

If you are married try taking the wife to ball room class
It will def spice up your sex life
Im a FA lol.

I'm thinking Bachata, it does look sexy. I imagine it'd make me more comfortable and confident in my own skin too. Still lifting weights to lose 90lbs though
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fukin lol @ incels having the courage to talk to another person, much less dance in front of 50 other strangers.

I agree though, but can't decide what style I want to pick up.
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Originally Posted By RudeKong⏩
Found that video of you OP



Also pretty much name it and I've taken it. Swing and Salsa are my favorites but Tango was probably the one with the most sloots. We got a place in my town that you register through the university and you get 9 lessons for $40.
That dude is ahead of his time going for some prime hot poos (legal for him no Chris Hansen)
She’s hot af and he went for it
If he keeps it up he may not get the 10/10 like the one in the video but will probably get sucked and phucked by some uggos
By the time he gets to college he will be a slayer

As for the fat stuff, I’ve seen some fat people with serious moves

Edit: he probably smashed the red head at 1:00
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Originally Posted By EvanAlmighty⏩
which one do you go to OP? I'm in NYC as well. I've considered trying to improve my dancing and the social aspect of it is nice too
I haven’t been to a dance class for years but let’s go
I’m thinking Alvin Ailey or broadway dance for beginner hip hop
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
That dude is ahead of his time going for some prime hot poos (legal for him no Chris Hansen)
She’s hot af and he went for it
If he keeps it up he may not get the 10/10 like the one in the video but will probably get sucked and phucked by some uggos
By the time he gets to college he will be a slayer

As for the fat stuff, I’ve seen some fat people with serious moves

Edit: he probably smashed the red head at 1:00
...lol

i fukn DIED when all the girls were like WTF LMAO
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- have a mental image that dancing is seriously homo for males (don't know why always been like this)
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You honestly think an anti-social, heavily inhibited piece of chit like yours truly is going to suddenly do a complete 180 and join a dance club?

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