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post 1576598321 03-25-2019, 10:51 AM
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My boss is being a petty/disrespectful *******. (SRS)

my supervisor and I created this power point deck that will be presented to the general manager. On one of the slides that he made, it has this image (as shown below) illustrating our team. I have long hair and he thought it would be funny to make my "avatar" or whatever you want to call it, look like a girl. I told him I feel disrespected and asked him to change it 3 times to look like the others, and his response was "i have more critical things to do right now." (he's full of ****, he doesnt do anything). He already sent this to his boss for review, and now it will be shown to the general manager.

I already get **** for having long hair from management even though it is not against company policy and I do not want this adding more fuel to the fire. I do not want this being shown to the general manager how it is now. Do i go to HR or do i go to my bosses boss if he does not oblige? Will rep for srs advice. I cant stand this ****ing guy. can sense his insecurities from 100 miles away.

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post 1576598521 03-25-2019, 10:53 AM
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Cant you just go in and change it?
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post 1576598531 03-25-2019, 10:53 AM
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Actually lol'd thats hilarious, would rep him
post 1576598551 03-25-2019, 10:54 AM
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lmao

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post 1576598651 03-25-2019, 10:55 AM
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the sign said "Long-haired freaky people need not apply"
post 1576598671 03-25-2019, 10:55 AM
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Lold hard

Complain to HR that he is assuming your gender
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post 1576598691 03-25-2019, 10:55 AM
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Lmao. What a jerk. Dink his car brah.
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post 1576598761 03-25-2019, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
Cant you just go in and change it?
he already sent it to his boss as the final deck.. I wont be in this meeting because what is being discussed is not my role, its the other guy on our teams role.
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post 1576599381 03-25-2019, 11:02 AM
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Location: United States

just lol @ living in a country where misgendering isn't a felony
They got little baby legs that stand so low
you got to pick 'em up just to say hello.
post 1576599421 03-25-2019, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
I think your next step is to send an email so it's documented that you've asked for the deck to reflect your accurate gender. You can keep it super casual, "Following up here, I still see that my role in the deck is represented as a female, which isn't how I identify. I know it might not seem like a big deal to you, but it is to me. This is important - can you let me know when this is resolved? Thanks."
will give him til the end of the day to make sure it's changed. It's being presented on Thursday.
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post 1576599441 03-25-2019, 11:02 AM
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Long hair dude here too, have mixed feelings about this, on one side I've never been put in a situation like this, well yeah, when I was younger I would be called a girl and I would get pissed off, but now..it's like at the end of the day, I'm a dude and I like chicks and nothing that they say or do will ever be able to change that, so it's no big deal if someone makes fun of me, just tell them to piss off.
post 1576599481 03-25-2019, 11:03 AM
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keep it cool, laugh it off, tell him you'll get him back, play it off, send a simple email to fix the avatar to reflect your real gender.


now its time for revenge, anything goes. personally i'd laxative his drink
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post 1576599691 03-25-2019, 11:05 AM
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Really Lol'ed srs cheeky kent that is
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post 1576599801 03-25-2019, 11:07 AM
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So I tucked my hair up under my hat and I went in to ask him why
He said "You look like a fine upstanding young man, I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat, I said "Imagine that. Huh! Me workin' for you”
post 1576599911 03-25-2019, 11:08 AM
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Just email and let him know it's to be fixed. If it's too late for him to fix it, then it's definitely complaint time.

It sucks that you can't just wail on him with a length of conduit to re-establish your place in the social hierarchy, but that's the cucked world we're living in in [current year] because of liberals.

Not srs.

(Semi-srs.)
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1576599921 03-25-2019, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Coachbombay
Location: United States

just lol @ living in a country where misgendering isn't a felony
Location: Canada

just lol @ living in a country where "misgendering" is a felony
post 1576599941 03-25-2019, 11:09 AM
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did anyone else fukin LOL at op?
post 1576600011 03-25-2019, 11:09 AM
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Take a dump on his desk to assert dominance. Srs.

I promise you, if you drop a log on his workspace he won't pull that chit again.
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post 1576600151 03-25-2019, 11:11 AM
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Is thisreallya srs thread?
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post 1576600391 03-25-2019, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
Is thisreallya srs thread?
dead srs. im pissed. im not asking for much.
To be a rock, and not to roll

Hey, I believe in God, man. I've seen him, I've felt his power. He plays drums for Led Zeppelin and his name is John Bonham, baby!
post 1576600411 03-25-2019, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperGuitarDude
Location: Canada

just lol @ living in a country where "misgendering" is a felony
They got little baby legs that stand so low
you got to pick 'em up just to say hello.
post 1576600811 03-25-2019, 11:19 AM
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fuking lol!!!!

master troll! haven't belly laughed like that in a minute
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post 1576600981 03-25-2019, 11:21 AM
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What if they kept the long hair avatar but got rid of the v-neck? Win-win?
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post 1576601211 03-25-2019, 11:25 AM
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Cut your hair real short to assert dominance and make him look foolish
post 1576601491 03-25-2019, 11:28 AM
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Who even cares? You have long hair, that's the image you put out to the world. So what if it's reflected in an organization chart? It doesn't even look that female, it looks like a guy with long hair. You probably do look as feminine in real life as that picture, and further more the fact your boss pokes fun at you and teases you a little bit shows he regards you as tough enough and close enough to rip on.

Seriously, if the people you work with and hang out with don't rip on you and make fun of you it's because they don't like you or aren't comfortable with you. In my experience 100% of the time, when people like you and respect you they will rip on you. Stop being such a little bitch srs. Go to any group of guys working with each other and its the ones who like each other who make fun of one another, and it's the guys who they don't like that they just talk business with. Imagine any Seth Rogan film where the guys all make fun of one another for how they look and riff of one another. Now imagine if the guy being made fun of got defensive and said he was going to go home because they are being disrespectful and didn't like it and then told their girlfriends that they hurt his feelings. That is literally you right now. Now imagine that guy posting on reddit asking "what do?" Pretty much also you right now. You are so bitch it's not even funny. Bitch made.
post 1576601661 03-25-2019, 11:31 AM
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Ummmm. Get a haircut?
post 1576601691 03-25-2019, 11:31 AM
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Cut your damn hair
post 1576602011 03-25-2019, 11:37 AM
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Because I just got negged by someone with 1.7 million reps for my post I'll say this again out of spite:

You a bish and a *******. LMAO.
post 1576602071 03-25-2019, 11:37 AM
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Would buy your boss a beer.
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he cant make cheeky powerpoints with broken arms
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