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Gf legit makes me feel terrible
04-16-2019, 05:25 PM
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Gf legit makes me feel terrible
It's a fuking rollercoaster with her,
She was sweet like an hour ago I got her a birthday card wrote sweet stuff ect, says that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done. Then 2 hours later I'm like we should meet tomorrow she says "idk I'm done work at 6pm" I took that as her saying it's not a good time, so I tell her "ok no problem maybe another time"
She took this as me rejecting her and then rips me apart on text for the past hour. Says I'm this I'm that, I dont kiss her enough dont love her; dont meet her blah blah.
And the cycle repeats the next day.
She was sweet like an hour ago I got her a birthday card wrote sweet stuff ect, says that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done. Then 2 hours later I'm like we should meet tomorrow she says "idk I'm done work at 6pm" I took that as her saying it's not a good time, so I tell her "ok no problem maybe another time"
She took this as me rejecting her and then rips me apart on text for the past hour. Says I'm this I'm that, I dont kiss her enough dont love her; dont meet her blah blah.
And the cycle repeats the next day.
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04-16-2019, 05:27 PM
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Stop dating teenagers
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so you declined to pound her ass after work because after 6 is too late and it's your miscing time?
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04-16-2019, 05:30 PM
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Sounds like a kunt. Break up with her.
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lol. female logic 101. You have to say "ok, lets meet up at 7". If she says no to that, then you give your response, and she doesn't have anything to freak out about. They always send these ambiguous messages so when you give a response like you did, she can blow up. Basically, she wants you to step up and not be so passive and lovey. She can get that from anyone anywhere any time.
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
Bro tell me how tf this was my fault ? We were having a nice convo back and forth until she uses one 2 sentences she doesnt like and then boom she blows up and starts bchingStop dating teenagers
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Originally Posted By Better
Nah I basically asked her, should I come at 6? I offered to meet her tomorrow. Then she goes idk I'm done work after 6, i took this as she being busy so I tell her no problem we'll meet another time. She then assumes I've rejected her lolso you declined to pound her ass after work because after 6 is too late and it's your miscing time?
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Tell me how it isn't your fault that you put up with bull****?Bro tell me how tf this was my fault ? We were having a nice convo back and forth until she uses one 2 sentences she doesnt like and then boom she blows up and starts bching
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Originally Posted By Coal
Like seriously how does she think I feel? I was happy af now feel so low because she misinterpreted one sentence i said. Rips me apart saying i dont love her enough dont kiss her enough. It makes me feel chitShe toxic as fuk. It's not gonna last. Deep down you already know this. Start detaching process.
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the problem is that you're treating her like she's a man who's capable of being rational. you assume then when she says retarded things, that's what she actually means and that she's not just saying them because she's an emotional woman. it sounds like you're actually arguing with her, trying to defend yourself and use logic to say that she's wrong, but that's not going to get you anywhere. if you just tell her that she's being a dumb bitch, she will like you a lot better.
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Stay with her and see how bad it will get. I dare you kent.
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If it makes you feel any better, your gf makes me feel terrible too. Maybe we should break up with her.
04-16-2019, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
What should I do?Tell me how it isn't your fault that you put up with bull****?
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Tell her she is going to treat you better or you're out. Don't say "I don't like when...." or "when you xyz I feel like abc".What should I do?
Demand that she cut the **** with plain language. In fact, tell her she is going to do better from now on or you are out. And bounce if she doesn't do better.
Or try to reason with someone who is being an ******* and continue to put up with her ****.
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Originally Posted By MosesPower⏩
Had no clue srs, am clueless on girls shes like my first proper gf lol reppedlol. female logic 101. You have to say "ok, lets meet up at 7". If she says no to that, then you give your response, and she doesn't have anything to freak out about. They always send these ambiguous messages so when you give a response like you did, she can blow up. Basically, she wants you to step up and not be so passive and lovey. She can get that from anyone anywhere any time.
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
I love her tho so I put up with her chit, usually I'm very dominant but with her I try to be nice.Tell her she is going to treat you better or you're out. Don't say "I don't like when...." or "when you xyz I feel like abc".
Demand that she cut the **** with plain language. In fact, tell her she is going to do better from now on or you are out. And bounce if she doesn't do better.
Or try to reason with someone who is being an ******* and continue to put up with her ****.
Demand that she cut the **** with plain language. In fact, tell her she is going to do better from now on or you are out. And bounce if she doesn't do better.
Or try to reason with someone who is being an ******* and continue to put up with her ****.
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Honestly you sound like a passive aggressive little dweeb who takes it personal everytime somebody isnt available at your convenience.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Did you even read the OP? Shes the one who starting bching at me cuz I said "ok no problem maybe another time"Honestly you sound like a passive aggressive little dweeb who takes it personal everytime somebody isnt available at your convenience.
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
L o L age 22I love her tho so I put up with her chit, usually I'm very dominant but with her I try to be nice.
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
You don't have to bail yet like everyone is saying. Just be more direct. Talking to chicks is like sales, assume the sale. She said 6, that means she is free after 6. The other bull**** is just them being clueless. They don't know what they want until you tell them.Had no clue srs, am clueless on girls shes like my first proper gf lol repped
Take the next month to experiment. Give her less lovey **** unless she earns it. More direct responses that make HER be the one to not meet up. By the sound of it you're going to have the same problem with any chick you date. Kiss her more, be more physical. Less love talk, more dominant physical touch. If you can't do that no chick will ever stick with you this will keep happening.
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
You should dump her because she is cray, but for future women, never assume or expect, in which you did both. You assumed she was too busy and you expected her to suggest another time w/out you asking. Not that you did anything wrong, but it will save you a ton of drama if you ask instead of assume with women.It's a fuking rollercoaster with her,
She was sweet like an hour ago I got her a birthday card wrote sweet stuff ect, says that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done. Then 2 hours later I'm like we should meet tomorrow she says "idk I'm done work at 6pm" I took that as her saying it's not a good time, so I tell her "ok no problem maybe another time"
She took this as me rejecting her and then rips me apart on text for the past hour. Says I'm this I'm that, I dont kiss her enough dont love her; dont meet her blah blah.
And the cycle repeats the next day.
She was sweet like an hour ago I got her a birthday card wrote sweet stuff ect, says that is the sweetest thing anyone has ever done. Then 2 hours later I'm like we should meet tomorrow she says "idk I'm done work at 6pm" I took that as her saying it's not a good time, so I tell her "ok no problem maybe another time"
She took this as me rejecting her and then rips me apart on text for the past hour. Says I'm this I'm that, I dont kiss her enough dont love her; dont meet her blah blah.
And the cycle repeats the next day.
The correct response would have been, "Okay, what time would work for you then?"
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04-16-2019, 05:58 PM
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Those are borderline type behaviors.
You were baited into an argument, in order to create drama/chaos.
You were baited into an argument, in order to create drama/chaos.
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