Calling all ex-slayers to verify my claims.


1.0 The Black Pill & Giving the Devil his Dues.

You're ugly? a manlet? awkward as ****? No six figure salary? No chad skull? Negative canthal tilt? Gimme more to add. You're not gonna get laid.

"Statistically, you're not gonna make it cuz."
"It takes X amount of more effort to make up for your short comings compared to Y"
"80-90% of the chicks go for 20-10% of the dudes"
"Tinder made it so only the top 1% of dudes can get laid"
"A woman who's been with Chads, will think she deserves Chads moving forward"
"She'll go around in her 20s and settle for a beta when she's ready"

There are chicks on social media and real life EXPLICITLY saying they don't like X in a dude and are looking for Y.

I think this is all TRUE but Is the tour over?
That statistics might be true but I promise they dont matter.


2.1 The White Pill & Assumed Standards

Men and women have gone down a dark path lately. Before the internet and all these statistics, people had a general idea of their ideal partners. Now with all the tech we have people who are able to craft the perfect person in their mind and actually find them. This sounds like a dream come true for women and the top % of dudes but its actually a nightmare for them and the rest of us.

How many of you have hooked up with an HBB and realized you guys had 0 connection. On paper, they may have had everything you thought you wanted but there's nothing there. They could be a great person, interesting, etc but you just can't seem to love or care about them.

I've been super attracted to girls who don't fit the 10/10 HBB mold and I've talked to HBBs that I just didn't have a connection with.

Just LOL at the standards both men and women set for themselves.

Life's a beautiful song, play, expression and who knows who will catch our attention.



2.2 - White Pill and Love at First Sight
When's the last time you've had that love at first sight feeling? I don't think it's a once in a lifetime feeling. If you live in a city you probably experience it on the daily walking around. With so many people you're bound to experience it often.

Carl Jung had this cool idea about love at first sight. It's the best feeling that you can sustain in the long term of the relationship as long as the both of you (especially the dude) are able to reflect on yourselves and put in the effort to grow as an individual and a couple. I'm paraphrasing but that's the general idea.

How much better are conversations, sex and time together with someone who you're sharing this feeling with? Compare them to someone who you have selected to talk to based on appearance alone.

What makes people think they know who their partner should be?

Without getting too out there its almost as if our whole bodies are reacting to the people we meet. Our places in life, the other's appearance, smell, voice, fate, etc. all become a factor verses to flat experience you have by swiping someone you think you are attracted to based on preconceived standards. This goes for both men and women.



2.3 - White Pill and Casual Sex.

I should probably break down why casual sex is bad but for now lets face that there is an assumption that sleeping around is good. We are told we have to meet the mold of a Chad in order to get laid consistently. ..and I think the statistics are somewhat true. If you fit the mold your chances of getting laid are higher. but what's the point of consistently getting laid? Without going into the propaganda that is sex at dawn, or other casual sex promoting books, I think there is no meaningful reason.

Every time you hook up with someone new its the start of a new relationship. In the case of men, a new women will only give you the same 3 things any other woman would. Sex, Domestic comfort and children. I've felt this for years but I've recently been forwarded this Eliot Hulse video where he breaks it down better than me:


That being said, if we want long-term depth and happiness, why not choose one woman and see how deep you can get the relationship? Instead of getting in the loop of the restarting a relationship over and over again.

I get there's sloots with crazy pasts and beliefs and your low self-estime might make it hard to find someone, but you only need one



2.4 - White Pill and Women's SJW, Radical Beliefs

Women are people too. They can be convinced otherwise in the same way you can. Actually, I'd argue they are more open to having their minds changed than men are. Our women have been told ****ty stories, beliefs, and lies. If you sharpen your tongue up a bit, you will be able to cut through their old beliefs. Everyone cant go back once they see the truth. Propaganda always dies. Just cuz she believes in something doesn't mean she's a lost cause. Women are judges of culture, and us men are culture. Show her the truely better culture and she will switch governments lol.



2.5 - White Pill and the Five Pillars

The 5 Pillars is a light idea in psychology and misc psychologists can probably expand on the idea for you. If you have all these on point, you should be able to cure a lot of your anxiety and restore some happiness in your lives. Work on them in no particular order.

1. Family - Get you family life in order if its not. What would a good family life look like if you could have one? What's the first, smallest thing you can do to inch towards that goal? As long as you have a plan to fix things in mind and are acting on it, the anxiety that comes with thinking about the subject should go away. This is gonna be a repeating idea for the other pillars.
2. Job - Find a job that you like that challenges you and that you get meaning out of. Make a goal, inch towards it.
3. Relationship - Make relationship goals, if you still single you can work on these later.
4. Hobbies - Get some hobbies and get good at them
5. Vices. - Stop watching porn, doing drugs, excessive video games etc. Make a plan to get these in check and follow them.


IF you have one of these pillars blown out from under you the others will hold you up. But just lol if you only have 1 or none. There's a reason you feel the way you do. Get your **** together.




2.6 White Pill and your Best Bet/Conclusion

Your best bet at finding love is to first get your **** together. Write out the 5 pillars, make goals for yourself. Make yourself someone you would actually like yourself. Dress nice, care about your appearance. I'm not saying for full blown homo over your looks but take pride in your appearance.

Go out and socialize, whether alone or with friends. Your friends will socialize you and you wont be as awkward.

Be open to finding love. Dont put standards on yourself. You don't know what kind of person you want and neither does she. Wait for love at first side and act on it. The statistics don't matter even if they true.

The statistical propaganda is used to make you give up and and turn you into a loser.

Im not saying you will find someone through this white pill but its your best bet. Women don't care about statistics when they in love.



Cliffs:
-Statistics don't matter when finding love.
-Men and women dont actually know what they want.
-Casual sex is not the goal.
-Get your shiet together and bet on love at first sight.




My credentials?:

-Was pretty much a statistics major, if you know anything about them is to not trust any that you haven't manipulated yourself. They aren't reality in the sense that they matter in this case.

-I'm an ex-chad. No humble brag, but I don't have any insecurities and never had issues with chicks. 6'2, chad skull, confident, strong shlong, talented, creative, pretty well read, etc. Went through a disgusting casual sex fad and once it ended I've been obsessed with figuring out the architecture of what sets up an environment to finding true love and making that love last<3

-Currently in a happy relationship. Some ups and downs here and there but the love we feel takes the focus off the little bumps in the road.


Older miscers and ex-chads/slayers please chime in. If I missed something, something sounds wrong, lemme know.

cliffs?

Cliffs:
-Statistics don't matter when finding love.
-Men and women dont actually know what they want.
-Casual sex is not the goal.
-Get your shiet together and bet on love at first sight.

sounds legit srs

Its like when people write for themselves but the misc gives that extra layer of attention to whatever is written. Besides if only one person confirms that it makes sense and another actually benefits from it.. that would be cool.

If everyone would share their experiences, from different walks of life, we'd be able to stack all those experiences on top of each other and extract that lessons and realities that would benefit everyone. Would make misc great again.

Funny, I made a WhitePill/GreyPill thread a while back.

No one gave a chit back then either.

Good effort though OP.

I'd change "Love at first sight" to "Attraction at first sight". It seems more realistic to think of it that way.

Shut up bitch

The reason I chose "love" is because is because I think there is a real potential for it to happen by acting on it. The feeling IS love.

What is a ****ing Chad to begin with?

It's dude who loves and accepts who he is wholeheartedly.

End of story.

didn't read a single word

I actually read the whole post OP. It's a good post, and I agree. You can't have all your eggs in the "chad slayer" basket. There are other important things in life

Who the phuck is gonna read all that, *******.

Can you imagine OP trying to run text game on a girl?

Brb 10 page novel to turn her off while she's just trying to have an excuse to break curfew
brb left on read
brb ghosted
brb posting theories on misc about black pill on a sunday

Cliff: just lmao.

[QUOTE=Tomohokk post_id=1607096741]What is a ****ing Chad to begin with?

It's dude who loves and accepts who he is wholeheartedly.

End of story.[/QUOTE]I agree that's what a true "chad" is.

I just used the word chad in the post because it symbolizes the guy who meets as those statistics that black pillers rave over. Height, looks, etc etc. You know what I mean.



[QUOTE=BigDeeps01 post_id=1607096901][img]https://i1.wp.com/media1.giphy.com/media/13MCWeJPQtkdVe/giphy.gif?zoom=2[img]

I actually read the whole post OP. It's a good post, and I agree. You can't have all your eggs in the "chad slayer" basket. There are other important things in life[/QUOTE]They try modeling themselves after the chad archetype when it doesn't have possession over them. They gotta start being themselves otherwise women will sniff out their fake personas.


[QUOTE=PowerPal post_id=1607096751]didn't read a single word
[img]https://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/profile-photo/22303903/e7d76705565e4ede996cff70f20f52d4.jpg[img][/QUOTE]What's up? Im handsome and aesthetic as fuk cuzz.

Show me your credentials *******!

People who are actually looking for answers or a different maybe deeper perspective.Lmaoo. My GF gets ear beatings from time to time but she usually asks me what I think beforehand.

IF you gonna write novels off the bat to a tinder sloot you're gonna have a bad time. Just lol at treating chicks you don't know like dudes by trying to discuss deeper ideas.

Love is a fleeting chemical reaction (oxytocin) combined with the right electrical activity in the brain centers controlling attachment

Personally don’t believe true love exists unless you believe in soulmates and are the 0.01% to find yours. Ldar/blackpill is just shunning the game similar to those who refuse to play the powerball due to the odds

I don’t disagree with you OP but I would still advise men not to get married

By all means fall in love, have LTR’s, devote your life to one girl and always be loyal, just don’t get the government involved.

It's fleeting if you don't maintain it. Get your head out of sticking to a chemical level of analysis. All levels of analysis are happening at the same time expressing the same reality. You can say someone is depressed because of a serotonin issue but at the same time that person might be a 30 year old still playing video games in their parents basement.

You gotta use other levels to guide you through life otherwise you'll develop a deterministic perspective that leads to a life of nihilism and no motivation to do anything.The government issue is another topic for another thread. As long as we agree LTRs are the meta and that people should align themselves with them.
Agreed. I quickly mentioned that women's mind (and men's) can be changed as long as the culture they are exposed to is proven(to them) to be better than their current one. Added hope to incels that it's not over yet, they can be the change they want to see in the world and actually collectively change the world with it.

I'm a rebel bro. I go against the grain. That's why I treat dudes I know like chicks I don't know and chicks that I don't know like my best friends. It's like muscle confusion, maxes out your pussy and friendship gains, give it a shot.This sounds like wishful thinking of a dying breed my brother. Not that I disagree that it's easier than ever to succeed, but calling the current social norms degeneracy and thinking there will be a strong counter-reaction is a form of escapism in my opinion. If you have the courage to face the truth the current changes in society are nothing like the past 1000 years where things had a tenancy to self-correct a bit, sort of like an ocean tide. The pace things are moving there is no turning back.

Since you disagreed so strongly I must be wrong then. jk, not sure what you're talking about. What is "be good" in this context? Morally speaking or be good at a skill? Not sure what you mean about Art either.

You’re making it too much of a one party problem. Hence your analogy to a depressed person bc of a chemical imbalance in his own brain only having his own lifestyle and lack of initiative to blame for the problem. In relationships it takes both parties to make it work long term and maintain those fleeting feelings of “love” that are simply chemical reactions in the brain that causes that “new car feeling” people constantly chase by getting new cars every x amount of years.

You can do everything right/feel like you did to maintain the early fleeting feelings but if the other person doesn’t feel the same you’re kinda SOL, and that’s all I’m getting out with my original post.

But I get you’re basically a redpill self improvement guru repackaged under a different alias (white pill) so do whatever u have to do to get those YouTube subs and likes bro

I really want to rep but cliffs ?

I'm all for being positive but we all know Chad is a general term for an attractive white guy.

OP chadsplaining the day away

Lol @ thinking just being generally “attractive” is enough to qualify

It all starts with a single party. But yeah the other person is another whole issue. I think there are things you can do to keep both people motivated but that's another whole thread.

My goal is to take the logic out of the red pill argument. If its all about logic and not your feelings you'll go down the path that all the black pillers go down.

I get a chad is white but in my post im using it as an umbrella term for people of all races that get laid.