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post 1611196541 07-20-2020, 08:24 PM
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How to ask out a girl at the gym

Is this a good idea cuz she keeps followin me around everywhere I go in the gym
post 1611196701 07-20-2020, 08:25 PM
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dont chit where you eat
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post 1611196831 07-20-2020, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon⏩
dont chit where you eat
I know but she keeps staring at me whenever I go in the gym it's ****in with me
post 1611197331 07-20-2020, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By steve447⏩
I know but she keeps staring at me whenever I go in the gym it's ****in with me
I'll give some advice to gym brahs on this because almost all seem like they are too awkward in the gym.

Easy way to do it besides straight up walking up to a girl after a set and asking her, is just saying hi. Build a rapport with them. I usually say hey to everyone that goes to the gym the same time as me, and sometimes a conversation with them. Then when you talk to her it is a smooth transition vs. never saying hi or speaking to someone and just trying to ask them out.

I mean I usually talk to everyone and the trainers if they seem open or are there all the time like me. Builds a good community. Then when you're crushing a workout you can grab anyone for a spot, bull**** with guys, or talk lifting. Women notice. Just don't be a gym bro douche and typically they'll chime in or you can bring them in a conversation.
post 1611197591 07-20-2020, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon⏩
dont chit where you eat
no but you can rub your dink in it
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post 1611198111 07-20-2020, 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
I'll give some advice to gym brahs on this because almost all seem like they are too awkward in the gym.

Easy way to do it besides straight up walking up to a girl after a set and asking her, is just saying hi. Build a rapport with them. I usually say hey to everyone that goes to the gym the same time as me, and sometimes a conversation with them. Then when you talk to her it is a smooth transition vs. never saying hi or speaking to someone and just trying to ask them out.

I mean I usually talk to everyone and the trainers if they seem open or are there all the time like me. Builds a good community. Then when you're crushing a workout you can grab anyone for a spot, bull**** with guys, or talk lifting. Women notice. Just don't be a gym bro douche and typically they'll chime in or you can bring them in a conversation.
All of this.
If she's following you around and staring at you, ask her to have a coffee after you leave the gym.
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post 1611198221 07-20-2020, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted By multiplemiggs⏩
All of this.
If she's following you around and staring at you, ask her to have a coffee after you leave the gym.
I don't drink coffee
post 1611198421 07-20-2020, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By steve447⏩
I don't drink coffee
then ask her if she wants to do some post workout cardio
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Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
I'll give some advice to gym brahs on this because almost all seem like they are too awkward in the gym.

Easy way to do it besides straight up walking up to a girl after a set and asking her, is just saying hi. Build a rapport with them. I usually say hey to everyone that goes to the gym the same time as me, and sometimes a conversation with them. Then when you talk to her it is a smooth transition vs. never saying hi or speaking to someone and just trying to ask them out.

I mean I usually talk to everyone and the trainers if they seem open or are there all the time like me. Builds a good community. Then when you're crushing a workout you can grab anyone for a spot, bull**** with guys, or talk lifting. Women notice. Just don't be a gym bro douche and typically they'll chime in or you can bring them in a conversation.
This. I know a lot of people there now and feel like a girl will notice i'm a cool dude and not some scary psychopath even though that may be the case lol.

I tried to talk to this girl the other day and came off like a dumbass. She was very attractive, doing lat pulldowns and training very hard, I came up to her and told her that it would help if she didn't pull it down so far and leaned back a bit. She just said yeah ok and left, lmao.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
then ask her if she wants to do some post workout cardio
lol
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Originally Posted By steve447⏩
I don't drink coffee
Find something you do drink then. Or find something you can do together to continue the conversation.
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Thinking about sneakin a pic of her at the gym and posting the pic on the misc but I feel like that would be creepy af
post 1611199161 07-20-2020, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By steve447⏩
Thinking about sneakin a pic of her at the gym and posting the pic on the misc but I feel like that would be creepy af
Why waste time. She wants the D.
Fuk the beta creeper pics. Post pics after you plow.
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post 1611199821 07-20-2020, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By cannonballdooky⏩
This. I know a lot of people there now and feel like a girl will notice i'm a cool dude and not some scary psychopath even though that may be the case lol.

I tried to talk to this girl the other day and came off like a dumbass. She was very attractive, doing lat pulldowns and training very hard, I came up to her and told her that it would help if she didn't pull it down so far and leaned back a bit. She just said yeah ok and left, lmao.
Yea just don't do that. Never critique unless they ask lol.

A while ago I used to go at a time this one girl did and she had this whole setup she would do and just go 100mph crushing her workout. Would almost run into her every workout with her flying around. So one day when she finally took a rest and I was walking by I just said something like "Finally you're giving those weights a rest" with a little chuckle. She laughed and we said something, and then from then one we'd always say hey and hows it going and joke around.

The thing was I wasn't trying to smash or anything, but it just builds a little gym rapport with people you see every day.
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walk up and say hi
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If you gotta ask, don't. You're gonna come off unconfident, nervous and you will "make her feel uncomfortable."

Only do it if you're gonna be a boss about it.
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