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post 1611505351 07-23-2020, 09:33 PM
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Do you need to feel massive amount of love to marry a woman?

Or can you marry a woman you like that you know would make a great wife but you don't feel crazy in love with her?
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post 1611505691 07-23-2020, 09:38 PM
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Most dudes marry the first piece of ass who acknowledges their existence.
post 1611519321 07-24-2020, 04:59 AM
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Love isn't real.
post 1611519631 07-24-2020, 05:10 AM
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Love is created by the hormone Oxytocin causing the "honeymoon stage" which obviously doesn't last


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Marry the sloot that enjoys blowing you most
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post 1611519641 07-24-2020, 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted By redwine91⏩
Love isn't real.
This. Marry a woman for the right reasons, not some stupid chemical reaction.
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post 1611522631 07-24-2020, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By DarthRaizer09⏩
I knew the minute I met my wife she was the one

Sounds cliche butthere was something about her instantly that no other woman ever made me feel and I’ve never lost which is true love imo

It happened when I least expected it to also

You’ll find the one eventually brah she’s out there
Since you continue to experience this feel, I'm sure you can explain it after having lived with her.

Is it that she makes you feel important/validated? Or is she the hottest girl you've ever seen? Or does she brighten up your day?

What is it that you're feeling?
When Trump faces a reality she can't stand, she becomes highly emotional and illogical. Every crisis is met by histrionics, tantrums and an inability to deal with facts. "Its a HOAX! Its a FRAUD!"

The emotion then becomes the reality. Those of us with girlfriends are familiar with this phenomena. Donald Trump menstruating 24/7: "Blood coming out of his eyes, blood coming out of his WHEREVER."
post 1611529321 07-24-2020, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By DarthRaizer09⏩
She’s a dime, she’s funny, caring, a great mom, loves me for me, trusts me and supports me in whatever I chose to pursue, is easy to talk to and is my best friend and we have great and still. She’s the whole package for me
Thanks brah. That's a pretty good list.
When Trump faces a reality she can't stand, she becomes highly emotional and illogical. Every crisis is met by histrionics, tantrums and an inability to deal with facts. "Its a HOAX! Its a FRAUD!"

The emotion then becomes the reality. Those of us with girlfriends are familiar with this phenomena. Donald Trump menstruating 24/7: "Blood coming out of his eyes, blood coming out of his WHEREVER."
post 1611529461 07-24-2020, 08:01 AM
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Since you are spending a lot of time around her, she might as well be someone whose personality you prefer. Sense of humor is important as is the ability to feel comfortable around each other. It may sound cliche, but you probably should marry your best friend.
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post 1611529571 07-24-2020, 08:03 AM
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Marriage
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Pick one.
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post 1611529801 07-24-2020, 08:07 AM
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it all fades away eventually
post 1611529821 07-24-2020, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Most dudes marry the first piece of ass who acknowledges their existence.
This and it is incredibly problematic. But nope, we're not going to address this one bit. We're not going to address how we constantly shoot ourselves in the foot as men, but then try to find ways to blame it on everybody else but us.

We love to hate the way we've made things.


If man is, or was, the all powerful, then this society is exactly the way man has allowed it to become.
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You find a women who enhances your life, by that I mean when you are in a relationship with them you are happier than you were alone 99% of the time, their lifestyle meshes with yours, you are better off financially, they do something to your life that makes you able to do your career better/easier, they allow you to follow your personal passions/hobbies, you have sexual attraction and chemistry, you value them deeply as a person based on the way they treat you and others, your value systems are mostly aligned.
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post 1611529931 07-24-2020, 08:09 AM
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lol most "men" marry the first woman who have sex with them
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post 1611530801 07-24-2020, 08:20 AM
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Lol at marriage.
post 1611611261 07-25-2020, 03:09 AM
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Lust diminishes while love grows and
there is a right time for everything,
especially for marriage.



Uh-oh, another unfortunate male victim.....
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post 1611611511 07-25-2020, 03:21 AM
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post 1611611551 07-25-2020, 03:24 AM
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I can’t love anything.
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post 1611612211 07-25-2020, 04:01 AM
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No was not sure and took a punt basically. 20 years on and don't regret it, one thing is though, have shared values or you are fukked.
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post 1611614251 07-25-2020, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Lust diminishes while love grows and
there is a right time for everything,
especially for marriage.





Uh-oh, another unfortunate male victim.....
Hey Samuraiwise, why don't you make any more YouTube vids?
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post 1611614651 07-25-2020, 05:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Daz206⏩
Hey Samuraiwise, why don't you make any more YouTube vids?
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That said, no you dont have to be madly in love, it will diminish anyway. Marry someone hot and interesting and you think wont screw you over(hard to do).
post 1611614751 07-25-2020, 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic⏩
Mirin join date!

That said, no you dont have to be madly in love, it will diminish anyway. Marry someone hot and interesting and you think wont screw you over(hard to do).
Mostly importantly make sure she loves Christmas
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post 1611614891 07-25-2020, 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
Mostly importantly make sure she loves Christmas
True, otherwise, there is a high possibility she is miserable or a whore.
post 1611615021 07-25-2020, 05:46 AM
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I got super lucky with my wife because she’s really the sweetest most caring woman I’ve ever known. She’s always been loyal And trust is huge. I was so worried I was making a mistake getting married because I know how women are and some can just go cold and decide to sloot if you have any rocky point In The relationship. That was 18 years ago. She’s been amazing, great mother, she stays hot af.

One piece of advice I think is very important is to wait as long as possible to have kids. They do change after children so you want a solid relationship that you know for sure will last before bringing a child into the world only to divorce or leave their mother.

Had a older man I worked with that was going through a horrible divorce right when my wife and I were getting together. That man told me to wait 10 yrs before having kids if I wanted to be sure I’d have a solid loving wife. That’s exactly what I did and idk where he is now but I’d love to thank him for that advice. One of the few times I took some older guys advice to heart.
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There is the feeling of falling / being in love, which is kind of a gut feeling. Gut feelings can be right or wrong, good or bad. You decide the former with your brain and the latter with your heart. In the end, true love and commitment is a decision.
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I married the woman that matched my personality and was a good fit. I love her more now than then.

Five years and one kid later we are solid.
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Originally Posted By DarthRaizer09⏩
She’s a dime, she’s funny, caring, a great mom, loves me for me, trusts me and supports me in whatever I chose to pursue, is easy to talk to and is my best friend and we have great and still. She’s the whole package for me
The right woman will feel like 'home'
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
The right woman will feel like 'home'
Very good analogy. That‘s when you can let down all your guard and be 100% you.
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The reason you haven’t felt it is because it doesn’t exist. What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons. You’re born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I’m living like there’s no tomorrow, because there isn’t one.
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Originally Posted By DarthRaizer09⏩
I knew the minute I met my wife she was the one

Sounds cliche but there was something about her instantly that no other woman ever made me feel and I’ve never lost which is true love imo

It happened when I least expected it to also

You’ll find the one eventually brah she’s out there
It be like that sometimes for real.
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Originally Posted By DarthRaizer09⏩
She’s a dime, she’s funny, caring, a great mom, loves me for me, trusts me and supports me in whatever I chose to pursue, is easy to talk to and is my best friend and we have great and still. She’s the whole package for me
Is she a dime to you or something that would be considered universally hot
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