We've all got things we value, each of them differ for each of us. Think about some of your values.

Now, do you value your values more than you value a family member, a mother, a brother, etc?

For example, if a family member did something against your values, would you stick by them? I mean imagine knowing someone all your life, or knowing them all their life... and having great memories with them, and just loving them more than anything.

Do you have a person like that that you love so much, that even if they violated one of your highest held values, you'd still want to be there for them?

What is it for you personally -

Family above everything
Or
Do you hold your values above all else?

Exchange the word 'values' for moral code or whatever word might be more fitting.

They usually go hand in hand, but family. I would kill innocent people to protect my family