I'm 29 and by this age your family starts asking you "When you gonna get married?" "When you gonna find that special someone". I've had one girl I really loved when I was 24-25, but I couldn't commit so we had an open relationship. That ended badly, to say the least. Then for years I tried to get her back, I did, and I thought I was ready to commit but I wasn't. So now she hates me for good. I've met a few other girls I really liked but I also couldn't commit. One of my biggest fears is turning 40 and having a mid-life crisis because I didn't adventure enough when I was younger. Plus I haven't even figured out a career path yet.

At this age I'm really starting to understand woman better, and it took so much work to get to this point that I feel like if I were to commit it would be too soon. I feel like I don't have many years left to "play the field" but at the same time I wouldn't mind a relationship with a cool girl.

What are my fellow miscers thoughts on this topic?