I literally have no friends. I use to have tons of friends growing up but i dont know what happened.

Im just too socially awkward or something now at my age. I suspect when I was younger i was just a shy kid to people

I try. no one really likes me. its like im just thing. my co-worker who is on welfare asks me to buy him monsters everyday and take him home. I have bought him a monster here and there to be kind but tonight he asks me for a ride again and i said i have too much stuff in my car. Sure enough he stays an hour later waiting for me and then when we are leaving I told him to call an uber and he gets mad over $13 and starts bitching how now he has to stop at wawa because hes not cooking this late. I told him along time ago i wasnt taking him home and honestly the times I needed a ride I always offered some gas money up front. This is like the extent of my relationships. besides my managers giving me tasks. thats the only relationships i have right now. I am so lonely.

I just dont know what happened or how I can fix any of this. If I can just be a little better then i am in a year i would be happy. anyone have any ideas?

I have this dream that I wake up and I am the only human on this planet.

Same i used to hang with a lot of people until i hit about 26 but i just don't like being around other people anymore man. All my coworkers annoy me. I don't know how to interact with people my age anymore at all.

I would be happy. I am happy alone. its just honestly people are nice to me and thats really it. if I could I would be drinking beers with friends right now if I had any.

Stop being a pussy. What I did to get better at sales was to strike up random conversations at any store waiting to pay for my chit. Now I lead the worst fukkin store in the west division and I'm succeeding. My employees are so open I know everything about them. Don't give up and keep striding to improve and learn from every opportunity you have.

As I write this I am sitting by myself at an outdoor bar. Hoes mirin with dates but I enjoy my alone time.

Last night I was at a different bar. Made new friends. Keep practicing and get over you social awkward stage. It's totally doable just don't doubt yourself.

Edit : I am three hours from home. No friends but easy to make em

the lack of female companion destroys me. Dont give a **** about friends tho

what kind of job? What are jobs good for people like us? I currently work nights and i have plenty of departments that would take me during the day(I am really surprised I have so many offers!), but i am worried that is setting me up to fail. I was thinking of going to days to help with social skills but is it a lack of social skills or just the way i am. Today I worked with a friend/co-worker and he had me laughing the entire time. thats the extent of my happiness.

I agree nothin worse than sitting home alone on weekends wishing u had a cute girl to be there with u fukin sucks op

damn join date 2002 still hasnt made it? thought this was red troll post. idk how to help op

2002 join date wtf. I was 16 at that year. This is a you problem at this point. Force yourself to improve and be more social or fail.

most of my relationships were drunk girls from nightclubs. actually, 100% of every girl I ****ed was this.

Its funny because growing up when I had friends my best friends were GIRLS! Had I made it sexual I could of gotten girlfriends. I honestly never even wanted a sexual relationship. I cant explain it.

right now it doesnt kill me about having a GF it just kills me I have no social interaction and I cant get my head out of water. I am extremely friendly with co-workers. I say hi to everyone and everyone says Hi to me. we make small talk. But no one is asking me out for drinks or no one is asking for my number or even ********.

Get a shrink

I dont have money right now. Has anyone read any good books? It doesnt help that I had trauma growing up. eventually I would like to do some ayahuasca.

Change your attitude dude, and stop expecting people to interact with you and invite you places. YOU need to be active, not passive, in setting up social interactions. YOU invite them places