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post 1616050921 09-09-2020, 03:55 PM
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Why are women having less sex these days?

I don't get it.

I've been asking women if they want to hook up and they either shoot me down or ghost me.

I thought women liked sex? Feels so weird that women are turning down sex more and more these days.

I know I'm a Chad though, that's what's weird.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
I thought women liked sex?
they do. usually more than men cause they can cum over and over

but youre ugly so yah they dont like it WITH YOU
post 1616051241 09-09-2020, 03:58 PM
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Just get thawed out OP?

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Just with you op
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
They don't like tradies like you either...

would explain why ur a 40 yr old virgin
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post 1616053141 09-09-2020, 04:20 PM
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The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
Those two things in your signature, I’m a fan. No homo obviously.
post 1616054181 09-09-2020, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
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Highly doubt you'd be honest about your friends exploits on this forum. Personally I think women have always been this way and thanks to the likes of Rihanna and Cardi B, they think its empowering to openly have hoes the same way men do. Even if they know its wrong they can't give it up and have all the excuses as to why they shouldn't stop. At this point women are just doing it to fill a void that only self development can fix. But they don't know any better or find a way to justify not becoming a better person.

For women there's really no loss as they still get snatched up by simps after their done thotting around. Unfortunately though, the quality men will still ignore them. And by quality I don't mean the jacked+tatted bouncer who does MMA, or Brad from the popular frat.
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post 1616054511 09-09-2020, 04:37 PM
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women are fukking the top 10%. you are a bottom 90%
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post 1616055781 09-09-2020, 04:52 PM
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I used to cope with a similar excuse until I saw foids salivating over my Chad mate, they would act like men (approach first, cringe pick up lines, etc) and make it so easy he didn't even have to try.

Sorry but you're just not that attractive to ellicit a sexual response and hence will always be a foid's non-first choice.
post 1616056021 09-09-2020, 04:54 PM
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I strongly doubt that's the case but once upon a time i was able to shag 3+ randoms off tinder each and every week without even trying. it does appear to be different now. whether the thots have all got knocked up or found Jesus..who knows
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I think COVID lockdowns were a time of reflection for a lot of females. A lot of girls are in absolute shambles after, and realize that's how things are going to be if they don't get their act together.

At the same time, I don't think it's going to work. I would never wait a month to fuk a girl nowadays, just because most of these girls aren't worth it. It's not just waiting for sex that makes a guy like them, but also having a good personality which none of these girls do.
post 1616056341 09-09-2020, 04:58 PM
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People are having less sex in general

It's due to feminism, social media, capitalism, more competition etc

Plus girls can just excel in a career now and make a lot of money and wait for Chad to have sex with them. Times have changed.
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post 1616057251 09-09-2020, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted By OnlyHope⏩
I used to cope with a similar excuse until I saw foids salivating over my Chad mate, they would act like men (approach first, cringe pick up lines, etc) and make it so easy he didn't even have to try.

Sorry but you're just not that attractive to ellicit a sexual response and hence will always be a foid's non-first choice.
This is the only correct answer. No homo but if you don't know a legit Chad you don't know what women are actually doing and you're too ugly for them to put out like they would for Chad. As mentioned, with Chad you get random ******** texts, girls approaching him in public and using cringe pick up lines or just staring at him like idiots until he says hi etc. Even worse, female simps exist. My co-worker who is still in college and only works part-time has offers from one girl with rich parents to pay his way through college and has another girl that already lined a job up for him after college in order for him to move closer to her. This only because he ****ed them a few times. Female simps exist.
post 1616057511 09-09-2020, 05:09 PM
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Most girls dont settle even for ONS for anything less than a top 10% but a top 10% doesnt consider a bottom 70% even for a quick lay when he can do the same with a top 30%.

Then we have women over 35s that cant even get laid from an average guy unless he is desperate, many guys after a certain age unless settled start to avoid women..none says it unless they are comfortable with you.

Once your libido decrease and your desire for peace increases with age, day after day you put less and less effort into women.
post 1616057541 09-09-2020, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
People are having less sex in general

It's due to feminism, social media, capitalism, more competition etc

Plus girls can just excel in a career now and make a lot of money and wait for Chad to have sex with them. Times have changed.
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post 1616057911 09-09-2020, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Anomen⏩
Once your libido decrease and your desire for peace increases with age, day after day you put less and less effort into women.
This is true. I can understand dealing with women if you're a Chad because you're actually getting a return for your time in the deal but if you're an average guy batting a low % like most average guys are and dealing with all the hoop jumping and flaking and ghosting and tests and bullchit just to finally get laid or have a mediocre relationship....no thanks jeff.
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Originally Posted By bfdehewdbyywhn⏩
women are fukking the top 10%. you are a bottom 90%
To be honest not to defend the OP but hes right and They can go **** themselves
I only **** me cause I love me just like I love me
post 1616059151 09-09-2020, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
To be honest not to defend the OP but hes right and They can go **** themselves
I only **** me cause I love me just like I love me ������
If Chad doesn't want them, then why are they such prudes to the rest of us?

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When 80% of women target the top 20% of men then there's less sex being had. A 5/10 woman would rather be single with occasional sex from the top 20% than settle for a 5/10 man.
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
purposely not putting out for long periods of time is a dumb strategy.
even I just ghosted 2 girls because they refused to come over on the 2nd or 3rd date
months?
how do you even keep the guy thinking youre interested in him if you havent given him anything for months? poor guys
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
purposely not putting out for long periods of time is a dumb strategy.
even I just ghosted 2 girls because they refused to come over on the 2nd or 3rd date
months?
how do you even keep the guy thinking youre interested in him if you havent given him anything for months? poor guys
I don't think it's a strategy. I think it's actually not wanting to physically involve yourself with somebody you don't care about. Also like STDs. Do I trust a guy to be honest with me that I barely know? Nahhh

A while back some guy wanted me to sleep over after our 3rd date and kept pushing for it until it was actually making me mad. It was the only turn off he had shown but like if you really think I gotta follow some 3 date rule instead of feeling things out I'm just not going to be compatible with that.
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
I don't think it's a strategy. I think it's actually not wanting to physically involve yourself with somebody you don't care about. Also like STDs. Do I trust a guy to be honest with me that I barely know? Nahhh

A while back some guy wanted me to sleep over after our 3rd date and kept pushing for it until it was actually making me mad. It was the only turn off he had shown but like if you really think I gotta follow some 3 date rule instead of feeling things out I'm just not going to be compatible with that.
you made this poor bloke suffer through 3 dates and still wouldn't touch his penor? sis i am disappoint
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
I don't think it's a strategy. I think it's actually not wanting to physically involve yourself with somebody you don't care about. Also like STDs. Do I trust a guy to be honest with me that I barely know? Nahhh

A while back some guy wanted me to sleep over after our 3rd date and kept pushing for it until it was actually making me mad. It was the only turn off he had shown but like if you really think I gotta follow some 3 date rule instead of feeling things out I'm just not going to be compatible with that.
its a tough one cuz I like good girls but id have to have some kind of sign she was physically into me and not friendzoned if I was waiting that long.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
its a tough one cuz I like good girls but id have to have some kind of sign she was physically into me and not friendzoned if I was waiting that long.
Yeah I think if there's not at least some solid sexual tension then the attraction isn't there.
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Originally Posted By makadelic⏩
The pendulum is swinging back the other way. I think there was a lotta sexual liberation and then girls realized its not worth it. A lot of my friends more recently don't sleep around at all and don't put out in the first couple months.
nah they just hit the age where they have to "settle down"

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Originally Posted By OnlyHope⏩
I used to cope with a similar excuse until I saw foids salivating over my Chad mate, they would act like men (approach first, cringe pick up lines, etc) and make it so easy he didn't even have to try.

Sorry but you're just not that attractive to ellicit a sexual response and hence will always be a foid's non-first choice.
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