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post 1616375211 09-13-2020, 01:29 AM
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Anyone else dislike how forward women are now and how easy it is to get with girls?

don't get me wrong is nice that women are now approaching guys almost as much, and online dating makes it as easy as ordering a pizza

Its convenient, but I miss the times when it was a challenge. I feel like as men we have an innate desire to chase/hunt and this has been taken away

Is it fair to say the 5'11 norwood 3's have life better?
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post 1616375231 09-13-2020, 01:30 AM
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post 1616375331 09-13-2020, 01:32 AM
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cant relate
been getting left on read by a bunch of fat cows online all night
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They’ve always been easy, that isn’t something new. In 1991 when I was 20, women approached me a lot, I hardly had to do anything.
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Originally Posted By TheFitLord⏩
They’ve always been easy, that isn’t something new. In 1991 when I was 20, women approached me a lot, I hardly had to do anything.
1991 was a totally different time to the current era
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post 1616376431 09-13-2020, 02:02 AM
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Huh? Women approach as much as men? Lol

I have several mates who are 6'3+ and are objectively good looking.

When we go out to the bar or club, you almost never see women approaching them. Although the girls friend occasionally comes up to them and tell them that her friend thinks they are beautiful.
post 1616376741 09-13-2020, 02:13 AM
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Originally Posted By sapdori⏩
Although the girls friend occasionally comes up to them and tell them that her friend thinks they are beautiful.
That is approaching just in a softer way

Might be location specific, here they are more forward. The best looking, most confident girls are more than happy to make the moves where I'm from
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post 1616376781 09-13-2020, 02:15 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
That is approaching just in a softer way

Might be location specific, here they are more forward. The best looking, most confident girls are more than happy to make the moves where I'm from
Where do you live?
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Originally Posted By sapdori⏩
Where do you live?
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post 1616377201 09-13-2020, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
Posting Howiester quality stuff now, *******
Who are you srs?
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post 1616377221 09-13-2020, 02:36 AM
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I know, it’s just like, give me some space. You are hot and all but I want to play Zelda. Suffocating me.
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post 1616377271 09-13-2020, 02:39 AM
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Originally Posted By sapdori⏩
Where do you live?
UK but same theme throughout Europe

It depends on the context of course. If in an all male group in a pub/bar women will make a lot less completely cold approaches

At clubs, music events, festivals etc its a lot more open
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post 1616377341 09-13-2020, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I know, it’s just like, give me some space. You are hot and all but I want to play Zelda. Suffocating me.
Thats the other side of it too man agree. Turning them down in an appropriate way is not easy sometimes

You don't want to create any animosity, make it awkward, but also dont want them thinking you're just playing hard to get
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yeah i mean can't even step outside without getting sexually assaulted by hhbs. It's time to staph, amarite?
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
don't get me wrong is nice that women are now approaching guys almost as much, and online dating makes it as easy as ordering a pizza

Its convenient, but I miss the times when it was a challenge. I feel like as men we have an innate desire to chase/hunt and this has been taken away

Is it fair to say the 5'11 norwood 3's have life better?
You should never use the escalator or elevator bucko, just the stairs.
post 1616379041 09-13-2020, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Spazzzzy⏩
No girl is approaching you if you're over a 7/10 on a bell curve scale. You might get a drunk girl saying "my friend has been talking about you all night" but that's about it apart from the girl coming over and standing near you and then freaking out if you don't approach them and walking away and staring at you for the rest of the night.

Every girl is intimidated by a powerful high value male. It's natural evolutionary behaviour. The males take what they want, girls are too afraid of public rejection to approach a male target they aren't sure they can get.

You just admitted to everyone that you're trash srs. Would delete thread if you don't wanna lose street cred.
Well that post sure was Spazzzzy

Don't troll the thread please mate
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post 1616379651 09-13-2020, 04:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
cant relate
been getting left on read by a bunch of fat cows online all night
online is cancer brah, not sure why you bother.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
That's not how it works, everybody knows that guys who are 8/10 + get approached all of the time because they look sweet.
100% this. Not all girls approach but enough do.
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post 1616380391 09-13-2020, 04:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Females never directly approached in them there olden days

Where would the fun be in that
It did happen in my lifetime and I'm not exactly spring chicken.
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With OPs body it would be easy to slay on OLD
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The guilt of turning them down or telling them you don't want a LTR when they are that eager. Shooting bambi with a shotty would be easier, amiritefella's?
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Originally Posted By Uhyeahokay⏩
The guilt of turning them down or telling them you don't want a LTR when they are that eager. Shooting bambi with a shotty would be easier, amiritefella's?
Yeh but its also not wanting them to react badly/aggressively. Its a tough balance
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Direct approach like “hey baby can I buy you a drink, here come sit with me...” like LOL

Or indirect serious level of interest
Happened a few times, e.g. her starting to chat, sitting down and putting her hand on my thigh. Drinks were free, was at a birthday party in a club.
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Originally Posted By ScottTil⏩
With OPs body it would be easy to slay on OLD
wtf is OLD
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I guess OnLine Dating, but aint never seen nun o dat before
More plates, more dates
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
wtf is OLD
online dating, tinder ect
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Oh of course its easy on online dating

Its literally filled with girls craving hook ups, it's as easy as organising a booze up in a brewery
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Sorry to hear about your girl problems OP. Stop dressing and acting like a slut. Should help.
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