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post 1616386251 09-13-2020, 07:18 AM
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Single Miscers - how do you manage your roster of girls?

Firstly let's talk total size. I find optimal to have 3-4 that I am seeing regular (at least once per 2 weeks). Any more and its a too full on, any less and you risk a lack of availability when you want it, or seeing one too much.

Then my positions are as follows;

1) GF potentials - I like to only have one of these. This is the well rounded personality and an 8.5+. This is for prime time Saturdays nights etc and most frequently seen

2) Casual Friend with Benefits - I lke to keep 1 or 2 slots for these. Ones you can do daytime activities with, or chill watch some film or something.

3) Freaky/Crazy types - I usually keep one of these. The mentally unstable crazy sloot. This one can be a pain and cause issues, but is DTF for those 1am booty calls if needed and keeps things interesting


Generally I am always on the lookout for a replacement of the prime slot, and then the incumbent will either be moved to the 2nd or 3rd position depending on characteristics, or discarded if it might get messy


Let me know you manage your rosters
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post 1616386361 09-13-2020, 07:20 AM
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Saving face after you and Matthew were exchanging dik pics ?
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> Miscers
> Rota of chicks

Pick 1
post 1616386451 09-13-2020, 07:21 AM
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They manage themselves and they have sex with beta men, while i am free to do whatever i want. I am the p.i.m.p
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Originally Posted By OffwhiteBrah⏩
Saving face after you and Matthew were exchanging dik pics ?
Nothing wrong with being a jogger enthusiast
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post 1616386621 09-13-2020, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By EmmaW4tson⏩
> Miscers
> Rota of chicks

Pick 1
Maybe for no avis that name themselves after a feminazi
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post 1616387191 09-13-2020, 07:37 AM
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JFL if you don't purchase professional project administration software and 0.2FTE from Bombai to manage your sloot administration
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post 1616387761 09-13-2020, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
you guys are having sex?
This is a thread for the 20%, you know where the door is
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post 1616388011 09-13-2020, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
1) GF potentials - I like to only have one of these. This is the well rounded personality and an 8.5+. This is for prime time Saturdays nights etc and most frequently seen

2) Casual Friend with Benefits - I lke to keep 1 or 2 slots for these. Ones you can do daytime activities with, or chill watch some film or something.

3) Freaky/Crazy types - I usually keep one of these. The mentally unstable crazy sloot. This one can be a pain and cause issues, but is DTF for those 1am booty calls if needed and keeps things interesting
You described what me and bros describe as having a Michael Jordan, a Scottie Pippen, and Dennis Rodman

Jordan, as you said is your potential girlfriend for cuffing season. Your starter. This one you do datenights with on the weekend.

Pippen, is a Rodman who put time in. Started off as a tinder or club random but became so regular she may even surprise you showing up with baked goods. Comes over for netflix n chill on a tuesday or thursday happily.

Rodman, these are still attractive girl but they have the loosest morals. These are the full blown "booty calls" that you send that last minute "you up?" text to and they happily accept the bang with a 66% success rate.


I tried going 4 once when i was living in london and it became a part-time job on top of my full time job. no thanks.
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post 1616388231 09-13-2020, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
You described what me and bros describe as having a Michael Jordan, a Scottie Pippen, and Dennis Rodman

Jordan, as you said is your potential girlfriend for cuffing season. Your starter. This one you do datenights with on the weekend.

Pippen, is a Rodman who put time in. Started off as a tinder or club random but became so regular she may even surprise you showing up with baked goods. Comes over for netflix n chill on a tuesday or thursday happily.

Rodman, these are still attractive girl but they have the loosest morals. These are the full blown "booty calls" that you send that last minute "you up?" text to and they happily accept the bang with a 66% success rate.


I tried going 4 once when i was living in london and it became a part-time job on top of my full time job. no thanks.
This is a great way of describing it.

Then you have your Steve Kerr (one night stands). Not a star player but some of the best moments
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post 1616388541 09-13-2020, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
This is a great way of describing it.

Then you have your Steve Kerr (one night stands)
lmfao i gotta tell that to the boys.



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post 1616388771 09-13-2020, 08:05 AM
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By connection. If I feel more potential with a girl I’ll put in more effort. Long are my days of having a bunch though. Now I’ll keep 2/3 max and I keep my distance to not lead anyone on until I know how I feel about them.

I’m also 31 though so it’s just where I am at
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post 1616389141 09-13-2020, 08:12 AM
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^^^ I think he is trolling the misc because it’s mostly incels/FA. He’s not a chad by any length so I automatically read threads like these with skepticism

I’ve seen his other posts on how to “seduce” women and it was things like read books with the sappiest “get in her head” rhetoric imaginable. Not to mention his extremely blue pilled view on relationships lol

If not a troll then good for him I guess.
post 1616389431 09-13-2020, 08:17 AM
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Thats strange someone in London came up with the analogy of Jordan, pippen and Rodman.
post 1616389661 09-13-2020, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
By connection. If I feel more potential with a girl I’ll put in more effort. Long are my days of having a bunch though. Now I’ll keep 2/3 max and I keep my distance to not lead anyone on until I know how I feel about them.

I’m also 31 though so it’s just where I am at
I'm in the same boat as far dialing back the game since i'm older. Can confirm, when you're 22 - 28 the door is open to any and every vag that's willing. But yeah i'm a little more conscious of my time now, researching stocks and investments rather chasing ass.

right now i only have my main girl (Jordan), and this venezuelan with an absolutely stupid waist/hip ratio, long black hair and dicey english. I only see her biweekly though. That's all the "chase" i have in me as a 30's-cel
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post 1616389891 09-13-2020, 08:25 AM
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The most I ever had going on was 4 at once. It becomes too expensive and hard to manage more.

I guess I wasn’t the best at it because I had to constantly be finding new girls because after a few weeks one would drop, sometimes all of them drop off around the same time.

It was always feast or famine with me. There would be weeks/months where it was like fishing with dynamite, then I’d go around 3 weeks with nothing. Repeat cycle.

Oddly enough, now that I’m in a relationship, I seem to get quite a few girls that obviously interested in me and I’m not even trying to game them. It’s kind of ironic since now that I can’t get with these girls, they are the ones doing the hunting. I’m in a relationship, so I don’t cheat, but it’s nice to know that I’m wanted.
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Originally Posted By Retardedaf⏩
You hit the nail on the head

A slightly above average dude fishing for compliments and respect on an incel forum because they are an easily impressed crowd. In real life no one would take a 2nd look at him.
well mr. noavi-newjoindate-multi account. you might be surprised to know this forum was once a "locker room" vibe. full of dudes that lifted, and shot the chit about girls. "bodybuilding" dot com.

how it became the breeding ground for a bunch of dudes that don't lift, dont self-improve, and complain about how they can't get women and how easy women have it is beyond me. women are supposed to have life on easy mode.
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post 1616390121 09-13-2020, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By MuscleXtreme⏩
The most I ever had going on was 4 at once. It becomes too expensive and hard to manage more.

I guess I wasn’t the best at it because I had to constantly be finding new girls because after a few weeks one would drop, sometimes all of them drop off around the same time.

It was always feast or famine with me. There would be weeks/months where it was like fishing with dynamite, then I’d go around 3 weeks with nothing. Repeat cycle.

Oddly enough, now that I’m in a relationship, I seem to get quite a few girls that obviously interested in me and I’m not even trying to game them. It’s kind of ironic since now that I can’t get with these girls, they are the ones doing the hunting. I’m in a relationship, so I don’t cheat, but it’s nice to know that I’m wanted.
This is the most accurate reality for most guys.
Originally Posted By Retardedaf⏩
So because I'm an alt you assume i dont lift and all these other pejorative things. I know what this place was like ******* so dont try patronize me, and i know what OP is like. I remember you're a snob so no surprise you're coming to his rescue like a submissive manlet cuck.
calling names! neat. you're still angry for some reason though. I wonder why... a bit parched? one might call it involuntary celibacy???


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post 1616390391 09-13-2020, 08:35 AM
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It really helps to have one 'main' chick. And two side chicks. Bonus points when the two side chicks know that's their status and accept that. Or you can do one main chick, one side chick and keep the third slot open for sl00ts you just bang once or twice and move on. That way you constantly have something fresh.


IMO anything more then three is too time consuming. Hell, depending on the girls just two can be really time consuming.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
It really helps to have one 'main' chick.
you already get the engagement ring bro?
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where the FOOK are the FOOKING pics OP? you're lucky i'm in good mood...
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impossible to have a stable this year. in normal times, sure
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Originally Posted By freuddcoco⏩
where the FOOK are the FOOKING pics OP? you're lucky i'm in good mood...
Says a guy that won't even post a pic of himself LMAO

This is a discussion about general strategy, not particular people
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3-4 is the sweet spot. Usually three for me. Like you described:

One main, the one you enjoy spending the most time with.
One on the periphery (this usually cycles, great spot for FWBs) - someone busier is ideal for this because they don't expect frequency.
One you're still developing and maybe even haven't had sex with yet but are looking forward to it.

I've done up to 5-6 but it gets hard to juggle, typically one night stands and some FWBs are sprinkled in there maybe once a month or a couple of weeks just for sex.
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Originally Posted By ChaseClout⏩
you already get the engagement ring bro?
Nah bro. If they love you they'll stick around, ring or not.


You put a ring on them and sign paper-work and they gain control of the relationship.
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Too busy manifesting my dream instead of worrying about pu**y.

I only hang out with one potential GF on Saturdays for about 3 hours tops. For weekdays, I will hit up the booty calls late at night if I'm feeling frisky.

Sex is cool and all, but have you ever gotten hard over your purpose in life?
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its easy you just never make plans with them on the same days. also, keep your phone on silent so there not asking who's that? and NEVER be texting other girls while your with one. at least not in front of her or in a way it was obviouls you went into the other room to go on your phone. also keep phone face down
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When I’m tired of them I ghost them. Also I keep their numbers saved on my phone.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Maybe for no avis that name themselves after a feminazi
Manlets are mad at the truth!

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