09-22-2020, 12:58 AM
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Need help with energy vampire “friend”
Should I ask one more time to chill sayin “bra why ignore lmao if u don’t wanna lift and chill just say it, I’m down to lift this week if u down”
And if he gives some bull chit response or doesn’t reply just ghost the dumbass for good
Also this guys an energy vampire he literally told me he was an energy vampire . I feel drained every time I ask him etc
He also does these wierd ass power games. Last time I asked him to chill like that he ain’t respond and then uploaded a pic of him at the gym by himself with some wierd ass smirk.. like wtf
I’m not sure if it’s the sloot he’s falling love with etc or what
Pics or convo:
https://ibb.co/4sSKTLr
https://ibb.co/sqrTbxS
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Chris fukin wit my head
And if he gives some bull chit response or doesn’t reply just ghost the dumbass for good
Also this guys an energy vampire he literally told me he was an energy vampire . I feel drained every time I ask him etc
He also does these wierd ass power games. Last time I asked him to chill like that he ain’t respond and then uploaded a pic of him at the gym by himself with some wierd ass smirk.. like wtf
I’m not sure if it’s the sloot he’s falling love with etc or what
Pics or convo:
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Chris fukin wit my head
09-22-2020, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Ye ik this was my original threadu posted this a month ago. get a new friend, who cares
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...71&pagenumber=
I live in a small ass town honestly it’s hard to make new friends/aquantaces
09-22-2020, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
better learn to than to dwell on a friend that clearly doesn't give a chit about u. ur obviously his last option if he treats u that way and he knows ur gagging to return any of his replies based on how overly responsive u are vs his msgs. get a new friend, if u find it difficult then keep trying.Ye ik this was my original thread
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...71&pagenumber=
I live in a small ass town honestly it’s hard to make new friends/aquantaces
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...71&pagenumber=
I live in a small ass town honestly it’s hard to make new friends/aquantaces
09-22-2020, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
or just be independent, relying on other people is a bad thing. Be good with people you know but be better on your own. srsbetter learn to than to dwell on a friend that clearly doesn't give a chit about u. ur obviously his last option if he treats u that way and he knows ur gagging to return any of his replies based on how overly responsive u are vs his msgs. get a new friend, if u find it difficult then keep trying.
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09-22-2020, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By SashaGab⏩
yea i told him last thread to learn to go to the gym alone, but it's clear that he just wants friendships more than wanting to learn to be solo.or just be independent, relying on other people is a bad thing. Be good with people you know but be better on your own. srs
09-22-2020, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
he literally showed he doesn't respect youHe also does these wierd ass power games. Last time I asked him to chill like that he ain’t respond and then uploaded a pic of him at the gym by himself with some wierd ass smirk.. like wtf
if you keep being his friend or talking to him after that, you're pathetic and have no self-respect
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09-22-2020, 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted By UknowWho11⏩
Feel like the dude took my energy some how like idk man my heads fuked from thathe literally showed he doesn't respect you
if you keep being his friend or talking to him after that, you're pathetic and have no self-respect
if you keep being his friend or talking to him after that, you're pathetic and have no self-respect
I think he’s tryin bring me down cause he seen I was making gains
How the fuk do I take my energy back from this ***got? I feel like the only reason he’s ignoring is cause I’m in his frame
09-22-2020, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
You're not in his frame. you're in his. The only way to take your energy back is to stop caring. Thats all.Feel like the dude took my energy some how like idk man my heads fuked from that
I think he’s tryin bring me down cause he seen I was making gains
How the fuk do I take my energy back from this ***got? I feel like the only reason he’s ignoring is cause I’m in his frame
I think he’s tryin bring me down cause he seen I was making gains
How the fuk do I take my energy back from this ***got? I feel like the only reason he’s ignoring is cause I’m in his frame
09-22-2020, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
This dude is a crazy manipulatorYou're not in his frame. you're in his. The only way to take your energy back is to stop caring. Thats all.
Last year he was crying to me when his gf dumped his ass lmao
Feel like my ego took hit or some ****
09-22-2020, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
I think you're equally as phuked up as you're claiming your buddy to be. A normal person wouldnt feel the need to play into these kind of stupid power games. Just focus on other chit. Phuk him if he doesnt wanna be normal and reciprocate your gestures to hangout. You're gonna constantly run into these issues your entire life if you always feel the need to have the last word with ppl. He's the way he is, you can't change him. Let it go srsThis dude is a crazy manipulator
Last year he was crying to me when his gf dumped his ass lmao
I feel like I need to get his attention and then ghost his ass.. I feel like that would get my energy back
Last year he was crying to me when his gf dumped his ass lmao
I feel like I need to get his attention and then ghost his ass.. I feel like that would get my energy back
09-22-2020, 01:43 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Something I left out(could be an important detail) That made me felt like chit was:I think you're equally as phuked up as you're claiming your buddy to be. A normal person wouldnt feel the need to play into these kind of stupid power games. Just focus on other chit. Phuk him if he doesnt wanna be normal and reciprocate your gestures to hangout. You're gonna constantly run into these issues your entire life if you always feel the need to have the last word with ppl. He's the way he is, you can't change him. Let it go srs
Alright it’s me him and our other friend in a group chat. Our other friend decides to chit talk me saying “your small ***got” I then break frame and lash out on his bitch ass. Pretty much destroying whatever friendship I had with him lol. All while the guy who’s ignoring me now is watching this
So he saw I broke frame and decided now is a good time to ghost me cause I was down and my frame broke.
He started ignoring right after he seen me break frame with our other friend.
Cause he knows I ain’t got no one else now that I broke the bond with our other friend
Like that’s the kind of manipulation I’m dealing with
All my messages get ignored in the chat the group chat been dead for like 3 months
I’m literally just thinking about sending a pic of me pissin in the toilet to show I don’t give a fuk about them and just to fuk with there heads lol
09-22-2020, 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
You sound like the problem tbh, not them. srs. sending a pic of u pissing in a toilet shows you're mentally unhinged and someone most wouldnt wanna hangout with, especially after falling out since 3 months ago. smh.Something I left out(could be an important detail) That made me felt like chit was:
Alright it’s me him and our other friend in a group chat. Our other friend decides to chit talk me saying “your small ***got” I then break frame and lash out on his bitch ass. Pretty much destroying whatever friendship I had with him lol. All while the guy who’s ignoring me now is watching this
So he saw I broke frame and decided now is a good time to ghost me cause I was down and my frame broke.
He started ignoring right after he seen me break frame with our other friend.
Cause he knows I ain’t got no one else now that I broke the bond with our other friend
Like that’s the kind of manipulation I’m dealing with
All my messages get ignored in the chat the group chat been dead for like 3 months
I’m literally just thinking about sending a pic of me pissin in the toilet to show I don’t give a fuk about them and just to fuk with there heads lol
Alright it’s me him and our other friend in a group chat. Our other friend decides to chit talk me saying “your small ***got” I then break frame and lash out on his bitch ass. Pretty much destroying whatever friendship I had with him lol. All while the guy who’s ignoring me now is watching this
So he saw I broke frame and decided now is a good time to ghost me cause I was down and my frame broke.
He started ignoring right after he seen me break frame with our other friend.
Cause he knows I ain’t got no one else now that I broke the bond with our other friend
Like that’s the kind of manipulation I’m dealing with
All my messages get ignored in the chat the group chat been dead for like 3 months
I’m literally just thinking about sending a pic of me pissin in the toilet to show I don’t give a fuk about them and just to fuk with there heads lol
09-22-2020, 01:49 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Wait u think I should send a pic of that fiancé cheating on her boyfriend for my dik in the group chat? I feel like that would get my energy back and fuk wit him lmfaoI think you're equally as phuked up as you're claiming your buddy to be. A normal person wouldnt feel the need to play into these kind of stupid power games. Just focus on other chit. Phuk him if he doesnt wanna be normal and reciprocate your gestures to hangout. You're gonna constantly run into these issues your entire life if you always feel the need to have the last word with ppl. He's the way he is, you can't change him. Let it go srs
Cause he’s engaged to some sloot he met 7 months ago
And I’d be flexin on both them
09-22-2020, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
How? The other friend kept talking mad chit. It wasn’t just one time and playful banter. The guy was always been negetive towards me so I just threw chit back at him. Maybe a little too hardYou sound like the problem tbh, not them. srs
09-22-2020, 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
I think you have some deep issues and that wouldn't help at all. Your ego seems very fragile and these stupid antics aren't going to win you any friends. They'll see it as a desperate attempt at gaining admiration after showing how insecure you are about being small.Wait u think I should send a pic of that fiancé cheating on her boyfriend for my dik in the group chat? I feel like that would get my energy back and fuk wit him lmfao
Cause he’s engaged to some sloot he met 7 months ago
And I’d be flexin on both them
Cause he’s engaged to some sloot he met 7 months ago
And I’d be flexin on both them
09-22-2020, 01:54 AM
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Aint trying to gain there admirationI think you have some deep issues and that wouldn't help at all. Your ego seems very fragile and these stupid antics aren't going to win you any friends. They'll see it as a desperate attempt at gaining admiration after showing how insecure you are about being small.
I’m tryin to flex on there bitch asses and show they ain’t affect me. There plan is to bring me down.
They think I’m down rite now which I am but
it will also show my “friend” that his fiancé is prob cheating on him and fuk with his head like he fuked with mine
I wouldn’t do any of this chit if they didn’t start these dumb power games
I’m just taking back what’s mine lmao. Aka my energy
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
You sound like a complete ******* (srs) why so needy?Wait u think I should send a pic of that fiancé cheating on her boyfriend for my dik in the group chat? I feel like that would get my energy back and fuk wit him lmfao
Cause he’s engaged to some sloot he met 7 months ago
And I’d be flexin on both them
Cause he’s engaged to some sloot he met 7 months ago
And I’d be flexin on both them
They’re both talking chit on you, in their own messages...
you’re acting weird/codependent OP.
Embrace your solitude and find yourself
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09-22-2020, 01:56 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Your buddy talking chit was the problem, but you overreacting shows you value too much what he says. The fact you value so much what he says to step out of frame shows you're not as strong as you let on. They saw a weakness in you. Idk everything about it but, lions dont care about what monkeys say about them. Would you care if a homeless man started laughing at you for the car you drove or the area you live at? No, because you don't value his opinion, who cares right? Same goes for this situation. You can choose to care or not.How? The other friend kept talking mad chit. It wasn’t just one time and playful banter. The guy was always been negetive towards me so I just threw chit back at him. Maybe a little too hard
09-22-2020, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
You're coming onto misc asking for advice and scheming on ideas to flex and mog on them. They completely affect you. They've affected you on such a deep level that you're stalking his instagram stories trying to figure out if he's giving you any cryptic messages with his smirk. You don't have to play into any of this.Aint trying to gain there admiration
I’m tryin to flex on there bitch asses and show they ain’t affect me. There plan is to bring me down.
They think I’m down rite now which I am but
it will also show my “friend” that his fiancé is prob cheating on him and fuk with his head like he fuked with mine
I wouldn’t do any of this chit if they didn’t start these dumb power games
I’m just taking back what’s mine lmao. Aka my energy
I’m tryin to flex on there bitch asses and show they ain’t affect me. There plan is to bring me down.
They think I’m down rite now which I am but
it will also show my “friend” that his fiancé is prob cheating on him and fuk with his head like he fuked with mine
I wouldn’t do any of this chit if they didn’t start these dumb power games
I’m just taking back what’s mine lmao. Aka my energy
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Ye exactly bro. I stepped out of frame which I shouldn’t have. But I did and now that feg is trying to keep me in that “depression frame”Your buddy talking chit was the problem, but you overreacting shows you value too much what he says. The fact you value so much what he says to step out of frame shows you're not as strong as you let on. They saw a weakness in you. Idk everything about it but, lions dont care about what monkeys say about them. Would you care if a homeless man started laughing at you for the car you drove or the area you live at? No, because you don't value his opinion, who cares right? Same goes for this situation. You can choose to care or not.
I feel like me sending the fiancé cheating for my dick in the group chat would bring me back in my frame. Cause
1. It would fuk with my friends head cause he got engaged(also I already kno his fiancé is cheatin lol. She got engaged after 7 months meeting this hoe)
2. I’d be flexing and showing there chit ain’t bother me
3. They don’t even have to respond lol. They can read it or not as long as I send it I’ll feel better
09-22-2020, 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Nope, looks pathetic and shows you value chit that doesn't even matter. I saw that screenshot you love flaunting around here and it didn't impress me or anyone on misc. Why would it impress your buddys? It's just cringe tbh. You're acting and thinking cringey af. It's beta thought process, I would know I've been there and done that.Ye exactly bro. I stepped out of frame which I shouldn’t have. But I did and now that feg is trying to keep me in that “depression frame”
I feel like me sending the fiancé cheating for my dick in the group chat would bring me back in my frame. Cause
1. It would fuk with my friends head cause he got engaged
2. I’d be flexing and showing there chit ain’t bother me
I feel like me sending the fiancé cheating for my dick in the group chat would bring me back in my frame. Cause
1. It would fuk with my friends head cause he got engaged
2. I’d be flexing and showing there chit ain’t bother me
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
The guy calling him small struck a deep chord with him. He probably is small but has managed to make some gains, but he’s still relatively small, so it cut him deep in his feels to be called small (triggered)Your buddy talking chit was the problem, but you overreacting shows you value too much what he says. The fact you value so much what he says to step out of frame shows you're not as strong as you let on. They saw a weakness in you. Idk everything about it but, lions dont care about what monkeys say about them. Would you care if a homeless man started laughing at you for the car you drove or the area you live at? No, because you don't value his opinion, who cares right? Same goes for this situation. You can choose to care or not.
His extreme reaction to this was noticed by both of these guys, who now think he’s some kind of a *******, they’re now avoiding him
Why do you allow words to dictate how you behave OP? A man is solid in his identity. This guy hit the bullseye on your insecurity, and you just expose yourself.
Best advice is to not further escalate the situation and simply find other friends. I think these two have lost respect for you. You can’t get roasted and dish it back? Too sensitive
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
On the money, reps on spreadThe guy calling him small struck a deep chord with him. He probably is small but has managed to make some gains, but he’s still relatively small, so it cut him deep in his feels to be called small (triggered)
His extreme reaction to this was noticed by both of these guys, who now think he’s some kind of a *******, they’re now avoiding him
Why do you allow words to dictate how you behave OP? A man is solid in his identity. This guy hit the bullseye on your insecurity, and you just expose yourself.
Best advice is to not further escalate the situation and simply find other friends. I think these two have lost respect for you. You can’t get roasted and dish it back? Too sensitive
His extreme reaction to this was noticed by both of these guys, who now think he’s some kind of a *******, they’re now avoiding him
Why do you allow words to dictate how you behave OP? A man is solid in his identity. This guy hit the bullseye on your insecurity, and you just expose yourself.
Best advice is to not further escalate the situation and simply find other friends. I think these two have lost respect for you. You can’t get roasted and dish it back? Too sensitive
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
Bruh what don’t u get about I’m not trying to impress them at all lmao..Nope, looks pathetic and shows you value chit that doesn't even matter. I saw that screenshot you love flaunting around here and it didn't impress me or anyone on misc. Why would it impress your buddys? It's just cringe tbh. You're acting and thinking cringey af. It's beta thought process, I would know I've been there and done that.
I’m tryin to fuk wit there heads and leave them on a good note. Display that the energy I give off is mine and not there’s
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Originally Posted By FuarkedUp⏩
I agree with this guy op. From that detail, either they find you very annoying or you need better friends. However reading your posts indicate to me you might be part of the problem. You seem to a bit needy and wanting to get back at people and one up them when they piss you off. Maybe even a little too insecure. It’s perfectly normal to feel that way but that kind of negative energy won’t win you any friends or help. Best thing for you to do in my opinion is to find new friends and focus on yourself. Don’t get so invested when other people annoy you. Just ignore them and hang out with more positive people that want to hang out with you and appreciate your friendshipYou sound like the problem tbh, not them. srs. sending a pic of u pissing in a toilet shows you're mentally unhinged and someone most wouldnt wanna hangout with, especially after falling out since 3 months ago. smh.
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
I dished it back but apparently the other friend ain’t wanna play hard lmaoThe guy calling him small struck a deep chord with him. He probably is small but has managed to make some gains, but he’s still relatively small, so it cut him deep in his feels to be called small (triggered)
His extreme reaction to this was noticed by both of these guys, who now think he’s some kind of a *******, they’re now avoiding him
Why do you allow words to dictate how you behave OP? A man is solid in his identity. This guy hit the bullseye on your insecurity, and you just expose yourself.
Best advice is to not further escalate the situation and simply find other friends. I think these two have lost respect for you. You can’t get roasted and dish it back? Too sensitive
His extreme reaction to this was noticed by both of these guys, who now think he’s some kind of a *******, they’re now avoiding him
Why do you allow words to dictate how you behave OP? A man is solid in his identity. This guy hit the bullseye on your insecurity, and you just expose yourself.
Best advice is to not further escalate the situation and simply find other friends. I think these two have lost respect for you. You can’t get roasted and dish it back? Too sensitive
Also it wasn’t the fact he called me small that set me off. It was him just always talking chit about everything and literally just killing the vibe
I finally just said fuk it and said a buncha mean things to him lol
I was roastin pretty hard callin him a fat pig and chit lol. I was saying chit like “I can do this all day bruh” and he finally just ignored cause he saw he wasn’t bringing me down
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OP I've had to deal with energy vampires all my life. My Mother's WHOLE family are like that, they will literally put their own child down just to make themselves feel better so trust me when i say cutting these people off is the best thing you can do for yourself.
It's not only about how you feel but it's also about having self respect. It will help you grow as a person, without this guy in your life you will be forced to go out and make new friends .... which is always a good thing.
Just go NC on this guy and if comes back just be blunt in your responses so he hopefully gets the message that you are aware of his behavior.
It's not only about how you feel but it's also about having self respect. It will help you grow as a person, without this guy in your life you will be forced to go out and make new friends .... which is always a good thing.
Just go NC on this guy and if comes back just be blunt in your responses so he hopefully gets the message that you are aware of his behavior.
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Originally Posted By wabbajack⏩
The only reason why I feel to one up is cause that *** one ups everything I doI agree with this guy op. From that detail, either they find you very annoying or you need better friends. However reading your posts indicate to me you might be part of the problem. You seem to a bit needy and wanting to get back at people and one up them when they piss you off. It’s perfectly normal to feel that way but that kind of negative energy won’t win you any friends or help. Best thing for you to do in my opinion is to find new friends and focus on yourself. Don’t get so invested when other people annoy you. Just ignore them and hang out with more positive people that want to hang out with you and appreciate your friendship
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