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post 1618031161 09-30-2020, 11:34 AM
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Was dating this girl for 2 months. Things were going great!! We talked all the time, hung out a lot, she was super into me, and vice versa. Then she has some stressful family chit going on, and decides to start flaking on me. Says she can't focus on dating, but meanwhile able to post on IG hanging out with her girlfriends and chit.

How the fuk is dating a strain on her? I'm not super needy, but yeah, not happy when she's flaky and unresponsive. When we'd hang out, everything was good, but she's forcing me away.

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post 1618031211 09-30-2020, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
Was dating this girl for 2 months. Things were going great!! We talked all the time, hung out a lot, she was super into me, and vice versa. Then she has some stressful family chit going on, and decides to start flaking on me. Says she can't focus on dating, but meanwhile able to post on IG hanging out with her girlfriends and chit.

How the fuk is dating a strain on her? I'm not super needy, but yeah, not happy when she's flaky and unresponsive. When we'd hang out, everything was good, but she's forcing me away.

Fuk women SRS. Hold me misc.
Reread your thread and you'll have the answer to your question about how dating is a strain on her.
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post 1618031241 09-30-2020, 11:35 AM
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post 1618031291 09-30-2020, 11:36 AM
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Theres a lot of people out there that dont have the sack to be honest and upfront. Sounds like she just lost interest and thinks that obfuscating chit will make her feel better about it.

Move on bro. You dont need that.
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post 1618031411 09-30-2020, 11:37 AM
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lol. You sound like me about 8-10 years ago. That's just the way it be my son. srs
post 1618031441 09-30-2020, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By ritualdecay
Theres a lot of people out there that dont have the sack to be honest and upfront. Sounds like she just lost interest and thinks that obfuscating chit will make her feel better about it.

Move on bro. You dont need that.
That's what I thought at first. And maybe she did, but she still acts super happy when we do talk and see each other. I'm so fuking confused.
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post 1618031461 09-30-2020, 11:38 AM
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Being in a relationship is much different from hanging out with friends. Dating can be emotionally draining because you constantly need to keep the other persons feelings/wants/needs in mind whereas with friends you can just unwind and be yourself without the added pressure. Not saying it's a legit response by her but some people are better at juggling their emotions and stressors than others.
post 1618031561 09-30-2020, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
That's what I thought at first. And maybe she did, but she still acts super happy when we do talk and see each other. I'm so fuking confused.
How old is she?
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post 1618031591 09-30-2020, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By frutistafreeze
Being in a relationship is much different from hanging out with friends. Dating can be emotionally draining because you constantly need to keep the other persons feelings/wants/needs in mind whereas with friends you can just unwind and be yourself without the added pressure. Not saying it's a legit response by her but some people are better at juggling their emotions and stressors than others.
yeah, I guess. Idk, maybe I just don't get stressed out over little things like that. Dating isn't difficult at all IMO. Super simple if you just let it be.
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post 1618031721 09-30-2020, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Rajc
Wise words my man. Will try to live in the moment.
Originally Posted By wave_length
How old is she?
26. I'm 30.
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post 1618031791 09-30-2020, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
lol. You sound like me about 8-10 years ago. That's just the way it be my son. srs
Sometimes it don't be like it is, but it do.
post 1618031941 09-30-2020, 11:43 AM
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post 1618031981 09-30-2020, 11:43 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
Wise words my man. Will try to live in the moment.

26. I'm 30.
She doesn't know what she wants. Her reality is 90% determined by her emotions. When her emotions change, so does her reality. If you want a LTR, that's probably not the right girl at the right time for you.
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post 1618032071 09-30-2020, 11:44 AM
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dopamine

every new relatilonship, she's on cloud 9.

eventually she simply GOT BORED. Nice = boring. Then she started analzing you to find reasons to dump you. Looks, money, whatever. Point is, she just wasn't "feeling" it emotinally and loves the partying more.

So you got an immature woman. Consider it a good thing and find a woman that's more into who you are.
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post 1618032101 09-30-2020, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By wave_length
She doesn't know what she wants. Her reality is 90% determined by her emotions. When her emotions change, so does her reality. If you want a LTR, that's not the right girl at the right time.
Probably. No fuking attractive, childless 28-30 year old women here tho, I swear. Need to move back to a big city where I can just swim in sloots again lol
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post 1618032471 09-30-2020, 11:47 AM
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She flakes on you because you don't deliver pics
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post 1618032601 09-30-2020, 11:48 AM
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Just backup totally, that's all, women are like cats, ignore them, they'll be back around eventually.
post 1618032711 09-30-2020, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Midi77
Just backup totally, that's all, women are like cats, ignore them, they'll be back around eventually.
That's kinda what I'm thinking at this point. I've tried to salvage chit, but not going well, so just tempted to dip. Also tempted to tell her to fuk off.. but probably immature (even tho I feel like she wasted my time)
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post 1618032761 09-30-2020, 11:52 AM
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Lol @ caring this much about a girl after only dating 2 months.

Next!
post 1618032901 09-30-2020, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted By NosyJossie
Lol @ caring this much about a girl after only dating 2 months.

Next!
lol not in love or anything, and not nearly as attached as my last gf, but FUK its frustrating when girls make dumbazz decisions that make 0 sense.
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post 1618033141 09-30-2020, 11:55 AM
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Why are you dating during covid? Dr. Fauci told you not to.
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post 1618033171 09-30-2020, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
lol not in love or anything, and not nearly as attached as my last gf, but FUK its frustrating when girls make dumbazz decisions that make 0 sense.
...so don't put up with it and go on to the next one?

Sounds like by being stuck on this one, you're also making a decision that makes zero sense.

Pot calls the kettle black!
post 1618033431 09-30-2020, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah
lol not in love or anything, and not nearly as attached as my last gf, but FUK its frustrating when girls make dumbazz decisions that make 0 sense.
Maybe you're getting too hung up on the reason. The reason for a breakup almost never matters and it's probably rarely the truth anyways. On to the next.
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post 1618033671 09-30-2020, 12:00 PM
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Ty misc. I knew you'd offer good advice.
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post 1618033761 09-30-2020, 12:01 PM
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-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

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post 1618034001 09-30-2020, 12:04 PM
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You're clearly pretty invested after only 2 months if you're posting about her on the internet.
Even if you don't think you're super needy or suffocating she can probably tell where you're at and it's overwhelming for her.

Take a step back and let her do the chasing if you wanna play the game. Otherwise bail if you're too frustrated to keep your cool.
post 1618034041 09-30-2020, 12:04 PM
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If the girl likes you she'll find a way to be with you. Truth of the matter is she's using other things as an excuse to drop you. It's a more elaborate version of "it's not you it's me".
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post 1618034151 09-30-2020, 12:06 PM
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honestly brah, shes taking another cok in her vag, that's why.
post 1618034191 09-30-2020, 12:07 PM
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Go NC and then straight on to the next one, no fuks given. Always remember boyos: you are the prize and she's the one losing out.
How dare you!

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post 1618034201 09-30-2020, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By JoshSP1985
If the girl likes you she'll find a way to be with you. Truth of the matter is she's using other things as an excuse to drop you. It's a more elaborate version of "it's not you it's me".
Yeah that’s my take. Time to go NC
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