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post 1618355971 10-03-2020, 08:41 PM
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Why do girls NEED to post arousing areas of their bodies on social media?

Like I know they'll say it's empowering, but why can't they post their muscles (quads, biceps, etc) to be empowering. They always have to pose with their a$$ or their boobiez. I follow this particular girl (
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Or when girls do a bikini pic they'll always pull down the strap to show more skin closer to the area of interest. Is it insecurity or just attention seeking? It can be attention seeking because they don't even reply to any of the comments anyway. And the most hypocritical move they'll pull is telling guys not to post shirtless selfies and calling guys that post those selfies 'egotistical' or 'self-centered', talkin' 'bout it's a turn off and what not.
post 1618356341 10-03-2020, 08:46 PM
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post 1618356441 10-03-2020, 08:47 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
hnnng. How do you put those crew things under your posts?
post 1618356791 10-03-2020, 08:51 PM
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Attention seeking, hunting for validation, aka the backup plan when a miscer's girl breaks up with them.
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post 1618357111 10-03-2020, 08:55 PM
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Majority of girls/instasloots will never admit it, but they like all the attention garnered on their posts. They know sexually suggestive pics will rake in tons of thirsty guys that'll bombard her with comments. I've been guilty of it myself, we all have. But see that's the thing, it was never about the destination. It was always about the journey, they thought they were looking for buried treasure. When in reality the real treasure was the friends that they made along the way.
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post 1618357431 10-03-2020, 08:58 PM
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While I don't agree with taking these types of pictures and making them public myself, what exactly do you expect women to do when taking pictures anyway? Crop out our bobz or azz, maybe cover up with a blankie or garbage bag so it doesn't dare arouse anyone? Obviously our bodies are only meant for pleasing the men folk.
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Originally Posted By DM28
While I don't agree with taking these types of pictures and making them public myself, what exactly do you expect women to do when taking pictures anyway? Crop out our bobz or azz, maybe cover up with a blankie or garbage bag so it doesn't dare arouse anyone? Obviously our bodies are only meant for pleasing the men folk.
Wear less sexually suggestive clothing? Can still be HNNNGH without bobs and vegeta hanging out.
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post 1618358491 10-03-2020, 09:12 PM
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MK Ultra / Sex Kitten programming is a cultural staple now. Acting like a whore is embedded into culture, framed as "empowered," and if you call it out as the degenerate, narcissistic shlock it truly is, they frame YOU as a "sexist." The term 'clown world' comes to mind, although I'm not a big fan of regurgitating other people's memes.
Originally Posted By DM28
While I don't agree with taking these types of pictures and making them public myself, what exactly do you expect women to do when taking pictures anyway? Crop out our bobz or azz, maybe cover up with a blankie or garbage bag so it doesn't dare arouse anyone? Obviously our bodies are only meant for pleasing the men folk.
Don't be disingenuous. It's all but a given a large segment of the female population constantly post softcore porn on their social media. Which would be totally fine if people were still allowed to call it slutty, which it most certainly is. A guy can't even post a shirtless pic to show off his gains without getting completely obliterated in the comments or posted on some secret ******** group where people talk sh!t about people they see on Tinder. Meanwhile women are selling butthole and feet pictures to strangers and constantly BEGGING for attention and money with venmo or Amazon wishlists or subscription services, and everyone applauds like slack-jawed retards, pretending it ISN'T socially, spiritually, and mentally damaging for women to CONSTANTLY objectify themselves with hourly racy, narcissistic selfies.
post 1618358551 10-03-2020, 09:13 PM
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Because in the same way sloot gon sloot
attention whores gon whore m8
Sloots Gon Sloot.
post 1618358771 10-03-2020, 09:16 PM
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It’s 2020 and people are still asking these obvious questions
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post 1618359171 10-03-2020, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By SilEightySX
a$$ and boobs = bulk likes = ego boost, dopamine rush and the validation they need.
this
post 1618359241 10-03-2020, 09:25 PM
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Originally Posted By DM28
While I don't agree with taking these types of pictures and making them public myself, what exactly do you expect women to do when taking pictures anyway? Crop out our bobz or azz, maybe cover up with a blankie or garbage bag so it doesn't dare arouse anyone? Obviously our bodies are only meant for pleasing the men folk.
Nothing wrong with having their bodies in it. I’m talking about when they go out of their way to show more cleavage and more a$$. Like they’ll literally bend over infront of the camera and be like, “don’t objectify women!”
post 1618359351 10-03-2020, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By SilEightySX
a$$ and boobs = bulk likes = ego boost, dopamine rush and the validation they need.
Really, it's pretty much the same as porn addiction is for men. Fapping all day long is just as pathetic as posting hourly softcore porn selfies. Much like an incel is the same level as pathetic as a sloot that just gives it up for a cheeseburger and menthol ciggie.

But primary point being, both of these "hobbies" (fapping / edging to porn for guys, CONSTANT validation seeking for girls) severely fuk up the brains ability to process feel-good chemicals when actual accomplishments are...uh...accomplished.
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro
Nothing wrong with having their bodies in it. I’m talking about when they go out of their way to show more cleavage and more a$$. Like they’ll literally bend over infront of the camera and be like, “don’t objectify women!”
No need to respond to the others this should answer all, I agree as I said I don't do any of this myself but as long as men act like that is what is hot (500 pounds of makeup cake face and dat azz, fake plastic wannabe kardashian, without taking into account what they look like the next morning btw) then it will continue. Some claim to want a more natural traditional less sloot woman but in reality not true.
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post 1618371161 10-04-2020, 01:55 AM
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The real question is, why do women need constant attention so badly?
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post 1618373001 10-04-2020, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted By socalivin
It’s 2020 and people are still asking these obvious questions
This. FOH OP, you either take the redpill and keep it moving or you take the redpill and play the game. Whats it going to be
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Social media has become a form of social engineering. People that use it are having their behaviours altered by the reward system they have engineered. People want views and likes and easiest way for a an attractive girl to do that is show off their body. They see others do it, so it's become a normalised behaviour.

It's a vicious cycle that just leads people to go further and further for the dopamine rush when something you posts gets a lot of likes. It started with ******** and twitter, moved to Instagram and now it's evolved into Onlyfans.
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post 1618373511 10-04-2020, 03:26 AM
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Funny thing is the attention seeking sloots are the same ones who say the want girls only gyms
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Many good points raised in this thread.

Maybe the young females who post sexualised, revealing images, believe that alot of their self worth rests on their attractiveness and value to the opposite sex.
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It’s for attention so they can get all these bobs and vegene comments/DMs and feel like strong independent women if they turn the fanboys down
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its not empowering... lmao
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You'd rather just see an ankle or a wrist rather then double d titties?

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Sorry to hear you are having trouble regulating your emotions. Try not looking at salacious pictures. No one is forcing you to consume such content. At some point you will have to come to terms with the fact that you can shape your own online experience to a large degree. Telling someone else that she has to be responsible for shaping your emotional landscape isn't going to work because you are not the center of the world. I'm sorry to be the one to inform you of that.
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I think a MORE interesting question is,' Why would a beautiful and sexy woman purposely AVOID posting provocative pics of herself when she knows she would receive even MORE validation besides what she already gets in real life?!'

^ Do you think the lack of interest in social media (all platforms) means she gets enough validation/admiration in her every day life, or does she feel she's missing/lacking attention and therefore, needs/wants to seek it out on a much broader landscape- popular platforms being the perfect "solution"?

Some women have the goods but choose to refrain from attracting the wrong attention, IMHO, for different reasons.



Edit: ^ Obviously, I'm NOT referring to well-known celebrities.
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Women have a very small time frame of value. Essentially 18-32 when they still have glow and are fertile.

Their market value is entirely based on their looks. They are just trying to maximise the amount of Chad's they can attract during that time

Men on the other hand are valued for more then just looks, and have an entire lifetime to prove their worth and attract hbbs
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I have a client who has a million IG followers (bodybuilder fetish type girl, not even super hot but her ass is ridiculous). She showed me once what happens after she posts a picture when her notifications go off. It was like a cascade of notifications that literally didn't stop for the three minutes we were watching her phone. And she gets minimum 30k likes on a photo, so you can imagine how long that goes on.

She admits herself that she loves the attention, it just needs to be from virtual people because she's really shy in her real life. Super chill girl who loves anime and just happens to love lifting. If you saw her on the street you wouldn't even blink twice, but on her feed she's a bombshell.
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