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post 1618811211 10-08-2020, 02:45 PM
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What to do when your gf starts blaming you for..

Stuff that you used to always do and she never used to mind but now for some reason it is a big problem?

Is this indicative that your gf is either cheating or does not love you anymore? Is her goal to have you end the relationship because she would rather you do it?

Or is what she is complaining about legit? (but if you were doign it before and she never bitched why is she bitching now).

Why does it seem like a switch goes off in a girls head and all of a sudden your great relationship is not so great and all of a sudden everything you do is wrong? What causes this?
post 1618811331 10-08-2020, 02:46 PM
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post 1618811411 10-08-2020, 02:47 PM
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Most likely found another man and trying to make you end it and you look like that bad guy
post 1618811461 10-08-2020, 02:47 PM
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post 1618811541 10-08-2020, 02:48 PM
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Needs more explaining, like what stuff? How long was the relationship? New or very old?
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post 1618811571 10-08-2020, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Dale1988
Stuff that you used to always do and she never used to mind but now for some reason it is a big problem?

Is this indicative that your gf is either cheating or does not love you anymore? Is her goal to have you end the relationship because she would rather you do it?

Or is what she is complaining about legit? (but if you were doign it before and she never bitched why is she bitching now).

Why does it seem like a switch goes off in a girls head and all of a sudden your great relationship is not so great and all of a sudden everything you do is wrong? What causes this?
Shes not pissed off because of those things, she’s pissed in general and then let’s out by calling out random chit
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post 1618811621 10-08-2020, 02:49 PM
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if she lowers your happiness level below your single baseline, she needs to go, no matter what the reason is

thank me later
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post 1618811691 10-08-2020, 02:50 PM
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post 1618811731 10-08-2020, 02:50 PM
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PM Balconybrah for advice on how to deal with a whiney sloot...
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post 1618811981 10-08-2020, 02:53 PM
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Sounds like she isn't into you anymore. Things that were once charming and unique about you are now annoying and stupid.

Sorry bro.
post 1618812121 10-08-2020, 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted By RackaDo
Shes not pissed off because of those things, she’s pissed in general and then let’s out by calling out random chit
Hit the nail on the head here I think, She has been having money troubles and issues finding a place to live, and has been sitting around bored and unemployed for too long.

I guess shes just venting,
post 1618812951 10-08-2020, 03:01 PM
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She did something wrong so now she’s trying to make you hate her and leave her. Just because she doesn’t want to admit what she did
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post 1618813071 10-08-2020, 03:04 PM
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Her friends are trying to pull her back down into the bucket. Especially if you are above her in looks/status.
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post 1618813171 10-08-2020, 03:05 PM
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She might've also viewed you as a project with potential but you haven't changed the ways she wanted you to and is thus frustrated. Not saying you did anything wrong in this case just that nobody should date anyone else for anyone but exactly who they are.
post 1618813371 10-08-2020, 03:08 PM
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Need more context.
post 1618814021 10-08-2020, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Dale1988
Hit the nail on the head here I think, She has been having money troubles and issues finding a place to live, and has been sitting around bored and unemployed for too long.

I guess shes just venting,
Nope, this is you justifying her ****ty behavior because you like her.

Tell her "Be happy, treat me better, don't nag me about nonsense, or I'll replace you."
post 1618814551 10-08-2020, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Hartley110
Tell her "Be happy, treat me better, don't nag me about nonsense, or I'll replace you."
Lmao, plz film this OP.

in b4 OP's not so mysterious death
post 1618814641 10-08-2020, 03:20 PM
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U finish how u start. Communication is key, u should instantly call out any insolence from a bitch. If u wouldnt tolerate it from a broski then u damn well shouldnt from a female. Address things professionally with her and have some balls. Tell her the sweet gf u once had has turned into a real biatch and you want to know whats bothering her. If its over its over deuces no need to play these drama games.
post 1618815461 10-08-2020, 03:29 PM
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