Cliffs
- 23yo
- had a son at 17 (I know)
- broke up with the mother when he was 3 (2018)
- everything was fine and civil, 50/50 custody up until 2 months ago, I’m successful and run my own business to provide, super motivated up until now, while she doesn’t work
- 2 months ago she stopped me seeing him randomly, I did nothing wrong, besides perhaps getting serious with a gf
- despite me being officially the main parent due to time spent, official records etc cause I take him to his hospital appointments etc and actually act as a parent, I have to fork out at least 3k I cant afford in court fees to a lawyer who ignores me while she doesn’t have to pay a penny
- will most likely get fukt in the process and get some bs 1 weekend per month deal
like most cases in my country tho I’m clearly the more capable parent
- the level of betrayal is insane, she knows how much not having a dad who cares about me affected me when I was young and she has turned a lot of people in our town against me with total lies, but literally nothing I can do about it, her whole family is against me no matter what and I can’t see my
son I’m used to being a staple in my life and idk how they’re treating him.

Why do I bother at this point? Srs.

I’m between either saying fuk everyone no fuks given and getting a jail sentence, or just giving up altogether

Whatever

Stay safe brahs wear a condom. Love you all.

Cliffs of cliffs?

negged. hope this helps

she cant be annoying if shes dead.... just sayin...

How old is the kid

That's your male privilege, bruh.

get a better lawyer and realize the money you'll be paying them would've gone to your ex anyway

**** dude
Added motivation to never have kids
Good luck Dave man

the only thing you can do is move to a country that doesnt enforce child support payments back to the US. Most countries will so have to look at the list and see if any of them are bearable.

My doctor had an ex wife and he used to talk chit (idk why he tells his patients this chit but hes eccentric) and say that he was going to move to hungary with his new broad because they dont have an agreement with the US to enforce alimony payments so he could get out of it. He is still here though like 10 years later lol

You hired a *female* lawyer for this? What is wrong with you, man? Fire her immediately and hire dude.

Female lawyers can be fine. But I would never consider hiring a female attourney to represent/give me legal advice regarding divorce/child custody.

jail sentence? just go to court. you'll earn a judgement in your favour and harsher penalties for next time her family cheats. nothing more satisfying than slapping them with the judge ruling.

OP should have joined the misc earlierStrong math skillz, strong avi to post content ratiodon't see where OP mentioned he hired a female attorney
sentence read as though OP hired a lawyer that doesn't follow up with OP and OP is upset at that plus the fact that his baby mama doesn't have to pay a penny

My life isn't perfect but thank god I didn't have a kid at 17 with a physco woman

But yeah OP you gotta deal with the BS.. fight in court and get custody sure but also find a way to reason with your baby mama and co-parent. "giving up" is not an option. You have to do everything you can to make sure your son has a great life with his father present.