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post 1619411031 10-15-2020, 03:28 AM
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What are red flags in women when it comes to dating?

Discuss some of the biggest, or perhaps smallest underrated red flags when it comes to women.


They're on their phones constantly, even for a female - virtually all females are somewhat glued to their phones, and it can get pretty damn annoying sometimes. However, if they can't even put that chit down for 20-30 minutes for a meal with their boyfriend/family, or are more worried about social media and chit than whatever they're doing when out with their families, they've got a real problem. It is indicative that they are exceptionally selfish and simple minded at their core, and expecting long-term serious commitment from them without any issues is a fool's game.
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Being unattractive
Having social media
Working in an office full of thirsty animals
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in no particular order

tattoos
piercings apart from the ear
coloured hair
smoking
drinking in excess
curses frequently
can't cook
lots of male friends
lies frequently (everyone lies)
manipulative
is secretive over their phone
can't drive
expects you to pay all the time
doesn't put out on demand
is a starfish in bed
poor nutrition
doesn't workout
poor hygiene
doesn't have the desire to improve herself every day
has no thirst for knowledge

i could list more but that's a start
i'd say most women in 2020 have at least half of that list
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Originally Posted By aleeboy⏩
Being unattractive
Having social media
Working in an office full of thirsty animals
The social media and most workplaces in general (doesn't have to be an office, they are surrounded by thirstcels in almost any working environment, whether it be fellow workers or clientele/customers) both cover nearly 100% of them.

Unfortunately, I think you're almost out of luck if either of those things are absolute deal breakers. These days, you'd be lucky to find a decent woman who could refrain from checking social media more than a few times a day. Most women are addicted to the constant dopamine rushes they can easily get from social media attention, whether it be from the thirstcel guys or from females doing on online circle session to stroke their egos.
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For me its how they treat other people;


If theyre rude about short/bald/unattractive men I know theyre shallow

If theyre rude/condescending to waitresses etc I know they are stuck up egotistical

If theyre bitching/arguing with people often, I know they are the problem

If they dont show any emotion to those struggling/suffering, I know they lack empathy


Get you a girl thats nice to everyone and thats easy to like and get on with, those are the genuine good ones.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
For me its how they treat other people;


If theyre rude about short/bald/unattractive men I know theyre shallow

If theyre rude/condescending to waitresses etc I know they are stuck up egotistical

If theyre bitching/arguing with people often, I know they are the problem

If they dont show any emotion to those struggling/suffering, I know they lack empathy


Get you a girl thats nice to everyone and thats easy to like and get on with, those are the genuine good ones.
bolded part, she can still be an absolute **** to you even if shes an angel with everyone else, bruva..
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If they seek attention from other guys. Seriously.

In 2016 I got into a relationship which turned into an abusive relationship because I was too stupid and desperate to accept the fact that the girl I was seeing was absolute trash.

It started with her saying that some guy on ******** had texted her and called her cute. I asked to see the text and she quickly deleted the conversation. I then told her I could just go on the guy's profile and see the texts there, at which point she grabbed the phone from my hand and got upset because "I didn't trust her".

Seriously, if I had just ended the relationship right there, everything would have been fine. But I was too much of a spineless and desperate cuck that I forgave her no matter how many times she did stuff like that. It ended up with her actually cheating multiple times and ruining my life.

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If your attention isn't enough for her, DUMP HER ASAP.
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Originally Posted By Anorexilla⏩
TIf they seek attention from other guys. Seriously.

In 2016 I got into a relationship which turned into an abusive relationship because I was too stupid and desperate to accept the fact that the girl I was seeing was absolute trash.

It started with her saying that some guy on ******** had texted her and called her cute. I asked to see the text and she quickly deleted the conversation. I then told her I could just go on the guy's profile and see the texts there, at which point she grabbed the phone from my hand and got upset because "I didn't trust her".

Seriously, if I had just ended the relationship right there, everything would have been fine. But I was too much of a spineless and desperate cuck that I forgave her no matter how many times she did stuff like that. It ended up in her actually cheating multiple times and ruining my life.

Cliffs:
If your attention isn't enough for her, DUMP HER ASAP.
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Originally Posted By Celsus⏩
bolded part, she can still be an absolute **** to you even if shes an angel with everyone else, bruva..
If thats the case, probably you are the problem tbh
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
If thats the case, probably you are the problem tbh
Not necessarily, mate, sadly
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
in no particular order

tattoos
piercings apart from the ear
coloured hair
smoking
drinking in excess
curses frequently
can't cook
lots of male friends
lies frequently (everyone lies)
manipulative
is secretive over their phone
can't drive
expects you to pay all the time
doesn't put out on demand
is a starfish in bed
poor nutrition
doesn't workout
poor hygiene
doesn't have the desire to improve herself every day
has no thirst for knowledge

i could list more but that's a start
i'd say most women in 2020 have at least half of that list
^^this. Except I don’t agree with tattoos and coloured hair. Those can be good. Also, add aggression(basic things like talking over the top of you), gossips and personality disorders.
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Emotionally unavailable
Not nurturing or caring
Lots of male friends
Needy and manipulating
Uses sex to get what she wants
Goes completely cold and drops you from her life over small arguments only to come back later like nothing ever happened

Exactly the kind of women I fall in love with because that's how my mom treated me growing up.
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
The social media and most workplaces in general (doesn't have to be an office, they are surrounded by thirstcels in almost any working environment, whether it be fellow workers or clientele/customers) both cover nearly 100% of them.

Unfortunately, I think you're almost out of luck if either of those things are absolute deal breakers. These days, you'd be lucky to find a decent woman who could refrain from checking social media more than a few times a day. Most women are addicted to the constant dopamine rushes they can easily get from social media attention, whether it be from the thirstcel guys or from females doing on online circle session to stroke their egos.
Quality post bro.

Lots of truths in it. I can certainly say that almost 100% of girls that work cheat. It’s that simple. Girls who travel for work are traveling with the person who determines their salary and bonus as well as gives the nod for any promotions.

Just lol at guys with heads in the sand. I’ve turned down many many thirsty office girls in my time. Srs
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Originally Posted By hoop84⏩
Overweight
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Ugly
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Absolutely warms my heart to see guys openly list looks. To my good looking brothers out there, always be picky and do not impregnate short girls. Your future kids will hate you for being so cruel and horny.
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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its crazy how some cucks just say the past is the past

I remember people telling me I would grow out of that - I never did even as an old man I would never wife an ex haram
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Originally Posted By savageoldman⏩
banged heaps of blokes

its crazy how some cucks just say the past is the past

I remember people telling me I would grow out of that - I never did even as an old man I would never wife an ex haram
This.

I absolutely hate spending energy on girls, so I’ve gotten thousands of blowjobs in my lifetime. I am confident there’s guys out there still tasting my semen as it would take decades to clear. All my girls have sucked my cawk as if it was their full time job + overtime.

lol
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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lol @ dating in a time when the nuclear family is all but extinct. road that leads to nowhere good.
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She's a woman
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Big one for me is how much they mention their exes. Thats not even something I really want to hear. When a girl mentions an ex multiple times on a first date thats an automatic pass. Clearly she aint over tyrone
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Ya know I'm not even sure. I'm attracted to crazy chit like jealousy. Thats how I know they like basboys because I'm guilty of low key liking their toxic bullchit.
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