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post 1620760041 10-29-2020, 02:47 AM
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What's the minimum amount of sex you'd need to consider a relationship happy/healthy?

I'd say it would need be an average of 3+ times per week for me. It wouldn't necessarily have to be all out intercourse, or a drawn out session every time. Just needs to happen with decent regularity. Also, a woman who hated giving bj's/acted all grossed out by it would be an automatic no. I've been on both sides of the isle in relationships of women regarding their feelings about giving bj's, and in between. The sex with the one who would happily S my D multiple times per week was infinitely better than with one who is aversive to them.
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BJs are a requirement, no doubt. 3+ per week sounds reasonable if both schedules allow it.
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Everyday at least 3 days a week with multiple times a day
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2-3 x a week is good for me. I don't have that much free time, outside of work, gym and hobbies.

I think it is important that the woman initiates and is enthusiastic. Been with a few women, who will happily lie on their back or just bend over. Dull.
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Eye contact a few times a week is about as good as it gets for me.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
love is more important than sex
True but still sex is the defining factor of a non-platonic relationship.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
love is more important than sex
Not answering the question
Wouldn't expect you to be able to answer a direct question though
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@ OP 3+ times a week minimum and a bj every night
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
love is more important than sex
If you love each other, she will get wet and you will get hard. Not having sex in that moment is just a crime...

I'd be woried if there was a week with less than 3 sessions. It's 1-2 times a day for each day we are in each others company. Average of 6 days a week. There are always days when a girl is very stressed for work or other reasons and they won't be thinking about sex at all. If you feel like she's less into sex for longer than normal, try and get to know what's bothering her. It shouldn't have much to do with you and you might resolve at least the mental aspect of it for her. Just hugging it out on those days will just bring you closer together and will result in even better sex.

On the other hand, a girl should also recognise that you are very horny and at least suck you dry, put her ass up for you or tell you to bust on her face/boobs. It's not as good as when she's into it, but at least you had your bust. And I love it when they do things just to please you.
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3+ times per week. Basically any time I’m around a girl who’s my gf I want to have sex with them, but I’ve yet to find anybody I want to be around more than 3-4x a week. Ends up creating that thin line of me not committing enough and moving in, and sex gets withheld as a power tool and then there’s no compromise so the end of the relationship happens.
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Originally Posted By 8pieces⏩
Everyday at least 3 days a week with multiple times a day
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Once per week is good IMO. And this is only because I realized when you coom you drain your life essence. Much better only to drain your balls once per week max.

If you're young and stupid, I can see 3-5x/week. But nothing feels better than not cooming for 7+ days. I haven't coom since 2 Mondays ago and I feel like an absolute fkn monster right now.
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if around each other all day then daily multiple times
See user title srs
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I'd say between 2-4 is reasonable depending on your life stage. When you have kids and chit that number gets lower due to tiredness on both parties and stress, so 1-3x a week is realistic. If you're just in a relationship with no kids, you should be getting it at least 4x a week.

inb4 married miscers claim they are having sex 4 times a day.
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Twice a day minimum

My gf usually wakes me up with bj and sexors and we fukk before sleeping at night too

We do well to say we have kids too, I know some couples who don’t even have kids and still only fuk once a week lmao
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You'd better ask your ex-wife about that than here in misc.

BTW, how's your child custody case going?

Naturally as a parent myself, I'm more interested in the welfare of your child than yoursex lifeorex wife

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But thanks for the heads-up anyway.

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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Once per week is good IMO. And this is only because I realized when you coom you drain your life essence. Much better only to drain your balls once per week max.

If you're young and stupid, I can see 3-5x/week. But nothing feels better than not cooming for 7+ days. I haven't coom since 2 Mondays ago and I feel like an absolute fkn monster right now.
You can still edge inside her without coming if that's your concern. You can even shoot a full load without going over the edge. It's not the load that drains energy it's the loss of control.
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3 - 4 times per week

Every second day
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i guess it depends on your sex drive.

i bang my girl most mornings and then pretty much every night before going to bed.
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basically whenever you want sex you get it

that's what i consider healthy (srs)

so every day. if my sexual needs aren't being met i'll never be fully content
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3-4x/week seems good enough for me
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Bare minimum I need at least a BJ a day. Sex daily seems about right though.
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Depends how busy we are. But it should be at the very least once a week no matter what

Lol at miscers claiming multiple times a day. First of all, who even has that much free time. Second of all, I would get bored of that chit real quick
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Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
You can still edge inside her without coming if that's your concern. You can even shoot a full load without going over the edge. It's not the load that drains energy it's the loss of control.
can you show me?
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Originally Posted By wave_length⏩
BJs are a requirement, no doubt. 3+ per week sounds reasonable if both schedules allow it.
My jaw would be broken if I did bjs every day. With my partner we have sex every day we're together.
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Miscers having sex 900 times a year.

Also, period basically eliminates 7 days off a month. So what then?
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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
can you show me?
It's just practice.
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Originally Posted By ukr1410⏩
My jaw would be broken if I did bjs every day. With my partner we have sex every day we're together.
With the boost of masculinity you get from the misc, your boyfriend should be blowing you, not the other way round.
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