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post 1621465311 11-04-2020, 02:37 PM
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5 Stages of Grief

This is pretty cool. I was reading to that apparently people who have lost something very important typically experience 5 stages of grief, but not necessary in order.

"Mainly, because people studying her model mistakenly believed this is the specific order in which people grieve and that all people go through all stages. Kübler-Ross now notes that these stages are not linear and some people may not experience any of them. Yet and still, others might only undergo two stages rather than all five, one stage, three stages, etc. It is now more readily known that these five stages of grief are the most commonly observed experienced by the grieving population."





You guys ever noticed these stages of grieving after a big loss? Did they happen at the same time? How long until you arrived at "Acceptance"?
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yes -- went through this once when fired from my dream job


denial: tried to convince myself it wasn't a big deal ("lol their loss, what a bunch of clowns, that wasn't such a great company anyway")


anger: reached out to two of my direct managers like a fkn psycho, harassing them and threatening them


bargaining: reached out to friends around me to tell my sob story, get their feedback, hopefully have them tell me that "i'm in the right", and that the company was wrong for firing me


depression: woke up every day for like ~6 months wanting to fkn off myself, even after i had found a new (crappier) job


acceptance: at a much much better job now, and have learned that life has ups and downs, and that the company i work at doesnt define me (srs)
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maybe biden will sniff your kid now op? reap what you sow
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lmao I harvested so many jimmies posting that
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
maybe biden will sniff your kid now op? reap what you sow
I'm not sure what trauma you are processing now big guy, but it sounds like you may be in an "Anger" stage. Hang in there bruh, I'm sure it will get better with time.
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post 1621466551 11-04-2020, 02:45 PM
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ah damn so this was just a political jab?!
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Op not sure what you're looking for. As a guy who does this (mental health treatment) for a living, the answer is: it depends.
It depends on how you think, feel and behave in relation to the loss.
The most succinct response I can give is:
- take care of yourself - sleep/eat/exercise healthy. Talk with your family.
Let yourself feel what you feel, don't fight it.
Do your best to combat overly negative thoughts (I'll never get through this) or behavior (drink to a stupor every night).
If needed, talk to a professional.

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Originally Posted By HYDRAE⏩
I'm not sure what trauma you are processing now big guy, but it sounds like you may be in an "Anger" stage. Hang in there bruh, I'm sure it will get better with time.
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
ah damn so this was just a political jab?!
Naw man, I'm just trying to help. Most guys don't process their emotions in a healthy way and that needs to change.
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Originally Posted By lnvictus⏩
On depression stage right now.
sucks bro. did you lose something important to you?
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Originally Posted By JerryAtrix⏩
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Huh? Thread doesn't violate any forum rules and is about important topic - mental health.
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recently since my concussion of 2019. i just hit the acceptance stage now

when my mom passed away when i was a kid. i don't think i went through these stages. i was just ****in traumatized 10/10 ****ed
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Originally Posted By 2RDEYE⏩
recently since my concussion of 2019. i just hit the acceptance stage now

when my mom passed away when i was a kid. i don't think i went through these stages. i was just ****in traumatized 10/10 ****ed
damn, sorry bro (srs)


dreading the day i lose my mom
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I go straight from anger to acceptance.
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Originally Posted By lolhey⏩
I go straight from anger to acceptance.
pretty based
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this should be helpful for some miscrs
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As the losses pile up, I just become emptier and emptier
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its okay bros - let it all out.
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LOL @ electing an old white dude and thinking you changed anything. Cope!
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Originally Posted By 2RDEYE⏩
recently since my concussion of 2019. i just hit the acceptance stage now

when my mom passed away when i was a kid. i don't think i went through these stages. i was just ****in traumatized 10/10 ****ed
glad to hear you've accepted reality brah but how are you feeling either way? you left my PM about it on read for ages now lol.
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I honestly don’t think I’ll ever get to “acceptance” with the passing of my niece. I envy anyone who can get to that point with their experience.
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Originally Posted By lolhey⏩
I go straight from anger to acceptance.
I skip anger and go to "move heaven and earth and exhaust all options to fix it/impose my will on the situation".

Then acceptance.


Haven't lost anyone really close to me tho, but using stoic ideologies am prepping for/ imagining it.

I constantly imagine and visualize the worst possible scenarios. I used to freak out about bad news, bad things happening at work, etc but those things hardly register any more when you are prep yourself for the worst
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The Kübler-Ross model is heavily disputed. There is no real evidence behind it.
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Originally Posted By HYDRAE⏩
TYou guys ever noticed these stages of grieving after a big loss? Did they happen at the same time? How long until you arrived at "Acceptance"?
See sig brah.
Originally Posted By THE-BEEF⏩
The Kübler-Ross model is heavily disputed. There is no real evidence behind it.
looks like you're in the denial stage...


Also, there's tons and tons of observational evidence to support a MODEL just fine lol.
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Y’all notice ‘cope’ doesn’t appear in the stages, but I think it would fit nicely with bargaining or denial.

Anything y’all coping with today?
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Originally Posted By HYDRAE⏩
Y’all notice ‘cope’ doesn’t appear in the stages, but I think it would fit nicely with bargaining or denial.

Anything y’all coping with today?
Really? Nothing comes to mind? It’s okay to be brave and open up...
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you going to sell off your child to p3do warlords op when the times get rough when your taxes go up buddy
or are you already tickling your sons penis while he sleeps?
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you going to sell off your child to p3do warlords op when the times get rough when your taxes go up buddy
or are you already tickling your sons penis while he sleeps?
But why are you imagining peedo situations.

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