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post 1623725891 11-26-2020, 12:48 AM
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Is everybody in your family an abusive piece of sh*t?

Everybody from mine is—and I was an abusive piece of chit too up until the age of 16—when I got myself under control and culled myself as what I saw a supreme weakness, vulnerability, and immaturity.


Just to say there may no be no hope misc

It can't be helped

And also, there can be hope misc
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post 1623725991 11-26-2020, 12:51 AM
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did they beat you
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post 1623726151 11-26-2020, 12:55 AM
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Disclosure: I believe in family values & bond



Having said that:

the family you're born into are often the ones that will hold you back first and most in life

if your sibling or parent is a toxic piece of chit then go your own way

it's extremely common for immediate relatives to bring you down, abuse you, all in an attempt to use you

parents often have it in the back of their mind that you owe them, you don't..




Focus on building your own family through procreation
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post 1623727281 11-26-2020, 01:36 AM
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Originally Posted By bfdehewdbyywhn
did they beat you
Yes, I was a brutally abused child. But I would take this over being a privileged child gone wrong.

Originally Posted By blissful88
Disclosure: I believe in family values & bond



Having said that:

the family you're born into are often the ones that will hold you back first and most in life
This is just a great and strong point. Hate to have to elaborate, based on your own instinct of morality, you can't stop helping them so this is unavoidable.
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post 1623727481 11-26-2020, 01:43 AM
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everyone in my family is a narcissist especially when it comes to social status. it's why i avoid them.
post 1623727791 11-26-2020, 01:56 AM
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Emotional blackmail. Verbal abuse. Marginal psychological and physical abuse. Negative reinforcement about every suggested career path.

Made me the psycho I am today....
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post 1623730381 11-26-2020, 03:44 AM
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Cut those garbage people out of your life.
post 1623730641 11-26-2020, 03:55 AM
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My dad was never that. My mom and both of my sisters were. Once I grew to way over them, that changed. I will never forget that. How my dad was.
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post 1623730671 11-26-2020, 03:58 AM
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Emotional manipulation is one of the worst kinds. I would rather have been anally raped or hit to be honest.
post 1623731161 11-26-2020, 04:16 AM
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emotional abusment what
i suffered from since my teenge
years, they used to abuse me
in regarding my low social circle, weight, grades
and even they tried to support a bully in our neighbor hood
post 1623731221 11-26-2020, 04:18 AM
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I'm going to need to see all the Misc police report here for confession.

I am living proof that there is hope.

Always better late than never, until too late.
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post 1623731361 11-26-2020, 04:24 AM
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no my family is nice for the most part.
post 1623731811 11-26-2020, 04:48 AM
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I can confirm, I am abusive
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post 1623731931 11-26-2020, 04:52 AM
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Originally Posted By 8pieces
everyone in my family is a narcissist especially when it comes to social status. it's why i avoid them.
Literally the worst type of people .
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post 1623732751 11-26-2020, 05:26 AM
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They stop beating me only after I was big enough to beat them harder...nough said.
post 1623734571 11-26-2020, 06:30 AM
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We're all going to make it misc!
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post 1623735031 11-26-2020, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted By notthis
Cut those garbage people out of your life.
this, be a lone wolf boyo.
post 1623735891 11-26-2020, 07:02 AM
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My family is great except for a few cousins that are scumbags. Everyone else is drama free.
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post 1623736041 11-26-2020, 07:06 AM
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I don't talk to anyone from my family. they're all toxic.
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post 1623736271 11-26-2020, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted By blissful88
Disclosure: I believe in family values & bond



Having said that:

the family you're born into are often the ones that will hold you back first and most in life

if your sibling or parent is a toxic piece of chit then go your own way

it's extremely common for immediate relatives to bring you down, abuse you, all in an attempt to use you

parents often have it in the back of their mind that you owe them, you don't..




Focus on building your own family through procreation
I like this.

Toxic for sure. SIMP, delusional, manipulative, blindly abusive, arrogant to the point of causing 99999999 problems themself while contributing nothing and dismissing anyone else who ever does anything they dislike.

They somehow think they're above me and talk down to me like you would a 2-year-old, except I outrank them in virtually every way - fitness, intelligence by a lot, elite career status, network, maturity, etc. I think idiots blindly "chit"ting on everyone they see with no global purchase on the world happens a lot.

They literally violently robbed me of everything within reach last time and tried to take the 'high road' versus me taking extra caution around them since.

I cannot babysit them when they're as combustible as they are. Any opening at all they will abuse endlessly, even with [serious] d.v. against my friends' children. They really need dealt with only in the safest social environments.

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I put up with them until they crossed into the serious felony territory. My career, future and network would not survive around it.
post 1623736621 11-26-2020, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By InfoSuperHwy
Emotional manipulation is one of the worst kinds. I would rather have been anally raped or hit to be honest .
I'm a former ward of the state. You would not want to have been raped as a kid.
post 1623743091 11-26-2020, 09:28 AM
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My immediate family is great. Raised in a loving two parent household. I almost feel guilty knowing how lucky I am to be born into the family that I am.

It’s really interesting to me how children model their parents behavior. If you’re parents were abusive, I’m sorry. But try to have a little simpathy for them that they were likely abused in the same way as you by their parents.

The best was to break the cycle:
1) don’t have kids before youre married
2) work on establishing your self
3) individual therapy


And hopefully you aren’t attracted to psychos, and can find a good girl
post 1623744241 11-26-2020, 09:49 AM
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Immediate family is absolutely amazing.
Mom is a nurse, stepdad is a foreman for a construction company (lol tradies)
Dad was a millwright.
All of them were incredibly supportive. Dad never missed a function (even my lame garage band shows).

For some reason it was my relationships I got into that were heavily abusive.
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post 1623744931 11-26-2020, 09:58 AM
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Nope no one is.
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