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post 1624883191 12-08-2020, 12:29 PM
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Misc, your Bi-Annual Reminder to Just Say No

If a girl asks if her friend can come on a first date, just say no.

Over the years I’ve had roughly 6 women ask this. 5 times I said no, the girl never got offended and pretty sure I smashed 100% (exception being this weekend as it hasn’t happened yet).

The one time I let it go down I had a rugby game and they wanted to come watch, figured one of my buddies could jump on the other girl at the after party. The friend was the absolute worst, my buddy’s approached her and tried to peel her off for me, she’d give one word or no word answers, basically was the girl I was trying to smash’s shadow.

Didn’t even invite them to the after party post game, girl texted me later apologizing for her friend, I never responded.

Main point. If a girl asks this just say no, she’s not going to let that get in the way. Unless the girl has been hyper sexual and directly says her friend is tagging along because they’re bedroom friends and directly looking for a threesome, do not do it.

For whatever reason I’ve had two girls in the past month bring it up (maybe they feel bad their friend will be alone on the weekend with covid, idk). So just thought I’d remind everyone.

I think recently we had a miscer who got blindsided by a tag along friend and battled through it and it was as awful as anyone could imagine. Should have done a legit 180 and walked away the moment he realized the trap and I think he’d agree.
post 1624883301 12-08-2020, 12:30 PM
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Thanks bro. A+ reminder.
post 1624884181 12-08-2020, 12:39 PM
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post 1624884301 12-08-2020, 12:39 PM
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Never had a chick ask to bring a friend to a first date wtf u must give off a really rapey vibe
post 1624884501 12-08-2020, 12:41 PM
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avoid all women who try and get you to meet their parents the first time you hang out/ask if a friend can tag along crew
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post 1624885491 12-08-2020, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted By supup
Never had a chick ask to bring a friend to a first date wtf u must give off a really rapey vibe
This.. I've literally never asked to bring a friend a long to a first date? So confused. I've gone on double dates and brought a friend for his friend before but that's as far as that goes.
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post 1624886351 12-08-2020, 12:56 PM
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op good luck with your rape goals for 2021
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Originally Posted By supup
Never had a chick ask to bring a friend to a first date wtf u must give off a really rapey vibe
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post 1624887561 12-08-2020, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted By supup
Never had a chick ask to bring a friend to a first date wtf u must give off a really rapey vibe
lmfao ded. This was my first thought.
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post 1624888031 12-08-2020, 01:12 PM
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Never had this problem. Most of my IRL friends could pull vag in a nunnery though so the tag alongs weren't tagging along for long
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post 1624888181 12-08-2020, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done
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post 1624890401 12-08-2020, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
This.. I've literally never asked to bring a friend a long to a first date? So confused. I've gone on double dates and brought a friend for his friend before but that's as far as that goes.
I think either you’re the kind of girl who does this or doesn’t...

I can see a girl reasonably sharing their location with a friend, but I can’t understand this phenomenon. Maybe if things get sloshy with the girl this Friday I’ll “jokingly” ask what the bringing a friend thing was all about.
Originally Posted By supup
Never had a chick ask to bring a friend to a first date wtf u must give off a really rapey vibe
Maybe this explains my 100% slay rate, jk... maybe.

I’ve been on roughly 500+ “dates” over the past decade or so off of apps and dating sites so I’m probably running into more than average.

I live an hour+ away from the largest city so I do get girls occasionally to drive up, never had girls do the “bring a friend” thing when it’s been in the same city. Maybe that’s a factor? Either way not my issue.
post 1624894661 12-08-2020, 02:15 PM
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Had this happened to me. She bought her friend but her friend was cuter than the chick I went to go meet with lol. the +1 friend was cool though, talkative, played pool with both of them. We had a good time but Never heard from the chick i originally went to meet again after that night. That's the game tho.

Another buddy of mine almost had it happen to him, but he didn't respond to her text of her asking. She didn't tag her along.

OP's right tho. I'd just say no, and if she doesn't tell you but brings one anyway, just politely(or not) shut it down and leave.
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