If I could I would be nice af to people. It’s how I was as a kid but veered away from it because you have to adapt to your surroundings. But that’s still my true self and if I could have it my way that’s how I’d still be but then people just try to exploit you or see you as not “wild” or “fun” and the stupid games begin.

Women are hard wired in a weird way. Men too I guess.

I act like me always

I try to act authentically, which in my case means being nice to people. I like to see other people be successful, do well and be happy.

I get taken advantage of from time to time because of this, but I don't want these types of people in my life (i.e. manipulative, selfish a-holes).

I have found the older I get the more comfortable I am being myself, and when you are authentic you attract people who are on a similar wave_length to you. This is what I would recommend - don't be an a-hole just because you think it will make you cooler or more attractive to the opposite sex.

The most attractive trait is originality; imitation is suicide.

The only problem I have is when ppl take advantage of me. I’ve kind of reached a similar conclusion.

yea.. i dont think it's being "yourself" all the time though. i think some people could get complacent like that

the genuineness could come off well but you also need a little aggressiveness, confidence, boldness. maybe a lil bit of forcefulness if push back

i'd say genuineness + aggressiveness

Das it indeed, agree

Modern society has brought up decades of betas who get a rude awakening when it comes time to dating when all the girls go running for the douchebags, And that what they were taught were all lies. This doesn't mean you have to become a dildo, you have to evolve into a alpha mindset who can still present kindness, however in your new form.

I agree and that’s kinda how I’ve become and found dec success with it but sometimes even being genuinely too kind even with the alpha ness turns lots of women off because it’s not “fun.”

While what you say is true you also find those guys attractive because they’re celebrities jfl

im an alpha male and other men see me as their leader and have a natural desire to submit to me whenever i enter the room. I can tell you that nothing else has made sloots more wet than this. not my looks, my money or my fighting capabilities. when women see a man who is a leader, that is what really gets them wet

A high % of Women are mentally unstable. I say that as someone with a personality disorder anyway so I'm not even trying to point judgement but it's just how it is. The typical rule is birds of a feather flock together, I tend to attract mentally unstable Women, lol. But for example, I also see nerd chicks get with nerd guys, athletic girls liking athletic guys. It's not always the case but typically there are similarities. I knew a Girl who was hugely into RnB and rap and sure enough she liked Black dudes. There's usually at least some type of parallel. If you're looking for a particular type of Guy like Chris Hemsworth then you probably have at least a couple of characteristics in common with him.

So you're telling me that this is the type of Guy you want to date?