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post 1626176593 12-21-2020, 06:05 AM
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No contact vs revenge

Say a sloot ended up getting close to you and did you dirty or cheated , ended up hurting you at at a deep level. You were never crazy about her but after getting blindsided, you are now pissed and feel cheated and deceived and sloot makes you realize you're a bad judge of character.

You recuperate and move on in a month.

Sloot comes crawling back after 4 months, you know sloot is no good for you

How do you handle it?

Option A: No Contact
You're a stoic and believe the opposite of hate is indifference. You believe that by not giving her any more of your time is how you win. Let some other sucker jestermaxx for her. She keeps riding cock carousel, finds a beta provider a few years later and lives happily after

Option B: VengeanceYou believe there is no justice in the world, unless we make it. You let her come back, make her believe you love her, then slap and degrade her, degenmaxx with her, ass to mouth, piss on her ,then after a week, you ghost her completely from your life and your mind. She now feels the pain you felt, of being deceived more than anything else. You live happily, satisfied that you were the bearer of the sword of justice.

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post 1626176703 12-21-2020, 06:08 AM
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didn't read this at all other than the title, but I was first redpilled, maybe even blackpilled at a young age (17), although it took me years to really stick with it.


When I was 17, my GF @ the time said she wanted to 'take a break' over the summer, as she was going to spend most of the summer in Pittsburgh @ an acting academy (she wanted to be an actress)



I agreed to the "break" like the bluepilled soycuck I was, and found out a week later she got fingered by this guy on the baseball team (probably more)



I went no contact, and proceeded to have get BJs and have sex with one of her closest friends all summer (took her virginity), and at the end of the summer, my original girlfriend was so whipped and in love with me for years, it was like a switch flipped.
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post 1626176793 12-21-2020, 06:10 AM
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post 1626176923 12-21-2020, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Rajc⏩
option C: just bang her to get a nut off and dont get attached then throw her away
but all that does is validate her and inflate her ego, since now she believes she can get away with deceit by using her looks/ sex, which is the ultimate validation for sloots
besides, you could get a nut off with any other girl
Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
didn't read this at all other than the title, but I was first redpilled, maybe even blackpilled at a young age (17), although it took me years to really stick with it.


When I was 17, my GF @ the time said she wanted to 'take a break' over the summer, as she was going to spend most of the summer in Pittsburgh @ an acting academy (she wanted to be an actress)



I agreed to the "break" like the bluepilled soycuck I was, and found out a week later she got fingered by this guy on the baseball team (probably more)



I went no contact, and proceeded to have get BJs and have sex with one of her closest friends all summer (took her virginity), and at the end of the summer, my original girlfriend was so whipped and in love with me for years, it was like a switch flipped.
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post 1626177073 12-21-2020, 06:15 AM
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I don’t believe in karma, fate, destiny, or any of that crap. If someone does me dirty it’s up to me to even the score or get one up on whoever did me wrong.

I’ve seen far too many people do bad things and go on living without paying for their actions. However in this hypothetical scenario of those two options I wouldn’t do either of them.
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post 1626177123 12-21-2020, 06:17 AM
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No contact just because you’re better off focusing on more important things. Getting revenge does nothing for you moving forward.
post 1626177403 12-21-2020, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Team NC

Revenge is not compatible with my moral values.

However I do NOT believe in karma sorting things out. That is revenge by proxy and I think it’s just a fantasy. Good things can happen to bad people and bad things can happen to good people. I don’t believe that the universe evens things out.

NC is not to wish punishment on the other person but it’s for yourself. To focus on yourself and the life that lies ahead of you.
Already focused, lets say you've moved on, then life gives you an opportunity to get back at them eventually, with negligible effort on your part. take it or leave it?
Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
I don’t believe in karma, fate, destiny, or any of that crap. If someone does me dirty it’s up to me to even the score or get one up on whoever did me wrong.

I’ve seen far too many people do bad things and go on living without paying for their actions. However in this hypothetical scenario of those two options I wouldn’t do either of them.
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No contact just because you’re better off focusing on more important things. Getting revenge does nothing for you moving forward.
But it should give you the satisfaction of not taking it in the ass like a chump but fukking back with people who fcked with you. Not like you have to invest any resources or time to screw her over.

What if another person screws you over? And another one? Just keep taking it and 'moving forward'?
post 1626177483 12-21-2020, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By BloodFireDeath⏩
But it should give you the satisfaction of not taking it in the ass like a chump but fukking back with people who fcked with you. Not like you have to invest any resources or time to screw her over.
Yeah I get it could give you satisfaction but how is getting satisfaction any sort of tangible benefit?

Also by getting revenge you basically signal that this person impacted you that much, that as an adult, a grown man you’re going to go out of your way to enact revenge on some girl. Girls shouldn’t affect you that negatively. You basically put yourself on her level. By simply going no contact and moving on with your life you become above these petty issues. Better to take this anger and direct it towards positive changes in your own life, as cliche as that sounds.

You should have so much going on in your life that you simply don’t care tbh.

Always look forward and forget the past.
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No contact.

Don't want a false rape charge or to get her pregnant or both.
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post 1626177623 12-21-2020, 06:33 AM
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Not worth it bro.

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Revenge will poison your soul.

BTW you got it wrong it's "The opposite of Love isn't hate, it's indifference"

She'll get her karma without you bothering.
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post 1626177933 12-21-2020, 06:40 AM
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NC is the best way to go. Put all that anger and hurt into something positive for yourself.
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^^

I can get behind NC, never was a revenge guy until now, just have one gripe

What if another girl or person fcks you over in the future. Can let this one go but what about the next one, and then the next, definitely don't want to keep getting back stabbed and not dishing out some justice, just keep taking Ls and moving on, what for? i already hyperfocused and maxxed out in my career in a big way, now I am thinking- what was all that for if people you live amongst have no morals and can hurt you/ take advantage in countless ways.

sorry to sound like a broken record tbh but yeah
post 1626178293 12-21-2020, 06:45 AM
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post 1626178483 12-21-2020, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By BloodFireDeath⏩
^^

I can get behind NC, never was a revenge guy until now, just have one gripe

What if another girl or person fcks you over in the future. Can let this one go but what about the next one, and then the next, definitely don't want to keep getting back stabbed and not dishing out some justice, just keep taking Ls and being helpless.
If you keep getting fuked over it probably has something to do with you tbh. There is obviously a consistent pattern and there must be a reason for it.

If I kept getting fuked over I’d figure out the reason why and change my behaviour and become someone who people aren’t going to fuk over.

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That chick is ugly. Why would you care if you weren’t interested? Plus she’s ugly
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post 1626178773 12-21-2020, 06:54 AM
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The best revenge is living well. You needed a license. Their license. I’m going to pick my own mark. Hit when I want.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What should change is not revenge but learning. After one person screws you over you are supposed to learn from that. Understand the dynamic and red flags etc. You are supposed to improve your understanding and perception so you can stay away from those people and situations in the future.

If you keep getting screwed over by different people that means there is something wrong with you, something you need to learn or address in yourself.
Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
If you keep getting fuked over it probably has something to do with you tbh. There is obviously a consistent pattern and there must be a reason for it.

If I kept getting fuked over I’d figure out the reason why and change my behaviour and become someone who people aren’t going to fuk over.
Understand. Almost 30 and its the first time I've been betrayed at this level. Not a regular occurrence, but just the thought of how much it bothered me and how easy it is to get hurt when I thought I had a level head and couldn't let these petty things get to me, makes me wonder what else I got wrong nomsayin. Anyway this thread has helped, thanks.
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That chick is ugly. Why would you care if you weren’t interested? Plus she’s ugly
That's what sucks. I wasn't into her that much, but once I found out she'd been lying and cheating while making me feel guilty of not paying her attention, really did a number on my mind for some reason. Objectively I understand what happened and what I need to do, but sloot got to me somehow. Need to stop being a bitch damn.
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Is she Chineeee?
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Leave it, you're not wired for revenge it seems or you would have already taken that path. Most people think getting revenge will make them feel good, but in the end it leaves them feeling the same or worse. Simply because they aren't wired for it, If I were you I'd go NC.

To answer your question on how I'd handle it, I'd get revenge. To me it feels just as good as sex and it's how I've handled betrayals all my life. Even if I wanted to go NC, I probably couldn't. I don't lose my chit and spiral out of control when someone betrays me, nor does it take a toll on my health, I legit get excited. If I didn't I would try my best to go NC.
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
Is she Chineeee?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Agreed except for the karma part. Plenty of morally corrupt people go on to live successful lives. Plenty of morally pure people suffer great unhappiness.

Little innocent kids get raped or get cancer or die. That alone should prove there is no karma in this world.

So I don’t believe in karma but I do believe in morals. You should hold yourself to a high moral standard. And revenge is incompatible with that.
Thanks for the reply. Karma may not be a real thing but I've seen it happen to people that I love that regardless of their chitty behavior that have been awful people to me.

I admit I have laughed at their misfortune but God doth seems to have a sense of humor.

People that screw people over tend to get screwed over more often than naught.
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Option B doesnt hurt her thats just a lie you tell yourself.

NC has always hurt sloots more than anything. NC IS revenge.
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Revenge but not by beating her up or sum crazy chit, idk just revenge in the sense that you'll feel like you won
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NC forever. Anything else is BETA. SRS

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