Met this 30 y/o korean chick (I'm 21 y/o white) on tinder a couple weeks ago. We are very similar, same hobbies, both optimistic about life, both gym (she squats 120kgs srs). She has a great personality, seems very intelligent and I seriously can't get over her, I really like her. I've had a 2 year relationship in the past and I've been with around 8 women in my life, but this girl just feels different and high quality.

Thing is, I know she's seeing other guys rn (I'm seeing 2 other girls rn) and I'm pretty confident that getting into a relationship with her will be a very bad idea since she's, for starters, 9 years older than me, promiscuous, and I'm probably going to move country in a couple years. I wanna stop catching feelings, but it's hard coz I like her too much and she messages me every day.

Should I just stop being a bitch, rip the bandaid off and ghost her? Feels scummy to do that.

Any advice/thoughts, cheers.

NC her you pussy. delete her number so you dont text her when your will is weak.

Yes to your question.

30 years old?

Simps gonna simp.

Ask her to marry you

Bring her to chipotle three times in one week and sit back and wait for her to clog your toilet. That’ll turn you off. Hopefully.

That's crazy, sounds just like my fwb...wtf

Seeing 2 other girls? Strong Chad. I mean the point of dating is if you catch feels you settle down with that person and hopefully become exclusive.

What happened to the MILF?

If you catch feels then you catch feels who gives a fuk

Don’t plan your life on if you might move in a few years just deal with it then if it’s an issue (99% you won’t be together that long for it to matter so enjoy the ride srs)

lolThe other 2 girls are like 6.5/10, nothing to be proud of.

She doesn't seem relationship material logically speaking. Also, I don't really want another relationship. I don't wanna go through all the breakup **** again and my life is pretty busy ngl.

That milf said school holidays are when she'll be kid-free next... which is a few months away rip XD

I'm just gonna ghost her, phuck it.

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School holidays? She's definitely married then.

I don't think you can avoid catching feels for someone. Emotions come with sex, unfortunately in cases where you don't want a relationship.

Condoms and regular tests. I am a little concerned tbh, but phuck it.

You have to avoid making human connections with her and just tell yourself she's a human masturbatory device. If you don't you're going to catch feelings.

Catching feelings is probably unavoidable regardless if you connect biologically.

She's hot, great pics

Or you could actually communicate with her instead of just ghosting.

OP- This woman I'm seeing is really cool and I like her more than I want to. So guess I'm going to be chitty and go NC without a word because I'm a coward.