This girl said she loved me and could see herself marrying me the day before she got orders (we're military). But then I hear she's over there talking about "hot guy" this and "hot guy" that. And hung out with a married dude who put his arm around her (she told me this).

I told her I thought she was playing me and ignored her for like a month. But then I caved and started talking to her again. I really liked her. One of the few girls I genuinely liked. We talked on the phone and she said I could come and visit her. But it's like a $800 plane ticket and I'm afraid of being played and treated like a fool.

How far would you go to see someone you really liked. I dont mind spending the money. I'm just afraid of getting treated like a sucker.

I’d definitely go of it were a deep relationship, but based on what you’ve said, I’d tread with caution. Especially being military etc you never know. I do think your best chance is to see her. The longer you are apart, the easier it becomes for her to stray.

I don’t mean that in a smothering sense, but there is a reason long distance relationships are hard, and you’re already getting orange flags. I don’t know her, so I don’t have a read on her so I can’t confirm. Prepare for the worst, but go in with an open mind if you do go.

If you really like her, I’d say go. Take your shot. You have to ask yourself if you’re willing to lose 800$ over increasing your connection. Nothing in life is guaranteed, so take your shot imo

she was riding the cock carousel that whole month

We met at work and lived together for about a year since we both were allowed to move off base around the same time. I really liked her but being military she gets a lot of attention which I think she loves. She told me she never got much attention from guys growing up so this is a new experience for her.

But she was always really touchy only with me. She would always be feeling me up and sitting on my lap during work. However a relationship doesnt seem possible. It's too soon to get married and we'll never see each other. I like her a lot but I feel like I'm wasting my time.

Why is a relationship not possible? I don't get the issue. So she's far now but who says she or you can't find a job closer to one another

Possibly. Go with gut instinct on this. Is it butterfly feelings or do you two have a genuine connection?

Also do you have pics?

It's military so I won't get orders on the same base she's at unless we're married which I don't want to do.