Like for example I think the girl I'm currently fuking has been into having sex with couples in the past(and all types of other "kink" type of activities). I don't know this for sure, but I'm kinda piecing it together from some of the stories she tells. She generally has a high sex drive, and is definitely the type who is capable of having a lot of sex without actually being very into everyone involved.

She now seems like she's somewhat interested in entering into a monogamous relationship with me. I'm wondering, am I making a huge fuking mistake to go along with this? Like is there any way she actually could stay monogamous with me, or would it be 2-3 years and back to her old ways at the age of 35?

I wouldn't consider this a "turning a hoe into a housewife" kind of situation, because she seems to actually have very good self-control and isn't just getting passed around by groups of dudes just because they can. But she just has very different sexual tastes that she seems to be fully in control of.

Lol, I have never seen this movie.

You tell her if she fucs or tries to fuc anyone else then she can pack her bags. srs

On the other hand she needs to understand that you are an alpha male and on occasion you may feel the need to fuc other girls or have her fuc them as well and she needs to be cool with that.

Sometimes you may even require her to find new girls / her friends for you both to fuc, but only when you request it, and it is not up for debate.

2014 join date and you really need to ask this question?

Yeah, this was told to her directly and she's still interested. And she has said in the past that if I want to fuk other girls like a couple times a year it would be cool with her as long as it isn't done behind her back.

Really though, I just need to sit down and have a conversation with her and lay some rules and see how she reacts. I'll still hang with her either way in the future, but her answers will determine whether it's as a FWB or Girlfriend.

As long as you can get her to respect you then she will do what you say and you can do what you want, but she needs to know if she shows sexual interest in another guy she is gone, zero tolerance. And even if you love her then she needs to know you will put her on the street and will never take her back, no matter what.

This is what women want as long as you are not just a bum sitting drinking beer playing video games all day.

You don't need her to love you, just respect you.

this. OP is adding asterisks to all of her problems because he has feelings for her. Been there, done that. Never again.

Lol, that is some deep chit. I will take it to heart.

What is your definition of "kinky sex".

I find it hard to define.

I have a work colleague who must be 60, maybe a 7/10, works corporate, straight laced as they come, goes to church on a Sunday and is married to an old manlet, but now and again she wears what I would call kinky leather boots with her pencil skirt and blouse, completely out of character for how she acts, its like she has to have an outlet for the kinkiness, kinda like how they say closet gays always have an outlet for their gayness IE: dressing camp etc , and I think she is probably into 'kinky sex', although I doubt she gets any from her husband, but I was pondering this the other day...."What exactly is kinky sex?"

How would you define it?

Yeah, you're probably right about this and my guess is that we will drift apart eventually in a few months and probably remain distant friends. Once I stop driving the conversation and taking initiative to keep our relationship going, I don't think she's going to be the one doing it after a while. But she's genuinely a cool girl, so I'm going to milk this for as long as I possibly can.

word.
brb she hangs out with a bunch of guys, gets flirty with all of them, have overheard her "joking" about having sex with other women
brb oh well she isn't like that when she is with me, and I feel like her behavior around me is her true self because she seems genuine, so she's probably just succumbing to peer pressure or something. I'm sure it's all an act.
brbalright then full speed ahead, brah

Yeah, you're totally right about this and honestly I see this girl's emotions fluctuating day to day depending on how much attention I give her. One day I'll give her a ton of attention and she'll send me kissy emojis saying she loves me. The next, I'll be busy with things and will get treated more like a friend.

Like I said, although this girl was raised to be like a perfect wife and took all these etiquette classes and is very smart and proper, things went haywire somewhere along the way and it's probably past the point of being salvaged at this point. The only reason she's considering being monogamous is because she's 30 and seeing her looks begin to fade a bit and realizing she would probably benefit from settling down with a goodlooking rich guy. But I honestly think even during marriage she would eventually expect to have sex with other people and I don't think I could ever be totally ok with that.

I'll probably keep fuking this girl for as long as I can handle, and then keep her around as a friend, as she plans to move to a city I intend to visit a lot in the future and it would make for a nice vacation sex buddy situation. In all honesty, I'm not really built to have serious girlfriends, but I obviously do need some love and affection every once in a while.

Why would you even want to? She's spoiled.

a 7/10 60 year old.

There are some hot 60 yr old's out there.

I know a woman who is 61 with a better ass than JLO and it is real. srs

She is a model though with amazing genetics, so not the norm.

I'd rate her 9/10 not even taking the age category into it.

She has a better body than Salma Hayek or JLO and imo a better face. Hayek has better titties though.

Anyway the one I am talking about is a 7/10, but no more.

I've seen it. It's almost like any kind of behavior in life, it really depends on what age they stopped being "free for all"

At this point in society every girl is going to have relative sloot phase, but I'm not really crazy bothered by it until your past college age (anything past 23-24). After that, the sloot phase should be out of your system if you ever had one. If not.....good luck for anyone that deals with those girls.

My wife was a virgin and we have been married for 8 years.

Because she's a really fun person to be around, super high energy, meets all kinds of random people and suddenly we are at some crazy party with all these random people. And I have been rawdogging her and the sex is the best I've personally ever had.

I live in a really boring place, and she is kind of my opening to a lot more fun than I've had since before COVID.

Only low values males select low value cum dumpsters. Choose wisely.

Yeah, this girl is 30 and not completely over her sloot phase(although it could have just been her letting loose a bit after being stuck at home for COVID for 9 months?). Tbh, I'm 35 and still kind of a sloot myself, so we are actually very similar people. But I'd actually be in favor of starting to settle down a bit and I'm not totally sure she's capable of this yet.

I don't know if this girl has a super high count of guys, as she's bisexual. She said she has been with like 15 girls, but most of the guys she's been with have been boyfriends. And she also said that she's never cheated on a boyfriend. But this could all be bullchit that she was telling me. She also gives below average blowjobs, which I guess could mean she isn't as big of a slut as I think?

I've fuked something like 100+ girls at this point so I'm not some pristine guy, but at the same time I could definitely settle down with one girl and not feel the need to cheat.

I remember my first virgin girlfriend.

The first night we slept together I asked her what her favourite sexual position was and she said "froggy style". srs

I remember our first night together....


her: "Is that how you want me to do it?"

Me: "Das it.... gag on it... try and take some more.... fuark yeah!!"

her "Do you want me to scream when we have sex?"

me" Only if you want to, but if I fuc your pussy really hard and you like it I want you to scream "YOU OWN THIS PUSSY!!!!" over and over again....now and again ill want to turn off the lights and bang you on your hands and knees and I want you to tell me how much you love my "BIG BLACK COCK!!".

her: but your cock is not black?

Me: yeah but we are role playing...

her: Ok