I used to be really fat. When you're fat women will still date you but they're looking for something entirely different than what they're looking for in an attractive guy. They basically expect you to be a beta provider, will only sleep with you after you're committed, and have high expectations for your character/earning capability. They also won't hesitate to criticize your behavior. I remember one time while paying for both our dinners the girl I was with commented on me leaving a 10% tip (service was crappy). I was so used to this treatment I didn't even think anything of it at the time

Now I've lost close to 50lbs, getting some definition back. Went out with a girl yesterday and our waitress literally forgot about our table it was unreal. So when it came to pay the bill (each paying for our own food) I told her I was leaving a zero dollar tip and she was like oh my god you can't, no don't do it. I wrote -$18 in the tip line cancelling out the bill so $0 in total and showed it to her, told her I never leave tips anyways so it's no big deal. She was giving me tons of **** (she used to be a server) but also smiling and left like 40% on hers putting "sorry my date's an *******". She was like ok lets run before he sees your tip and I messed with her for a bit like nah we're gonna wait for a bit I wanna see her reaction to my tip

Later I thought back to my past experience and it made me feel good about how far I've come

Dear diary

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Anyone who knew anything about girls back in high school knew this.

I didn't. Was fat in high school

tip your servers even if they are ****.

You sound like a rural clown.

Tattoos= wet panties

Deniers are in cope mode

I'm so torn on this and keep erring on the side of caution by not getting any. Lately I've been leaning towards tattoos being cope though cause every low value beta male has like 50 and they do make you objectively less attractive. I'm in the PNW so honestly it's almost more controversial not to have any tattoos at all at this point

Tattoos used to be alpha af. Now everyone and their grandma has them.

Please teach me the way

I think they like toughness, strength, and a guy who will give them at least a bit of a hard time. I wouldn't call any of that bad behavior. Really bad actions (i.e., beating her) will only turn on the real sick, damaged chicks.

no chit, chitlock

Pics of girl. Did u smash?

this is one of the coolest stories I’ve ever read

Tried to translate that **** in google but it said it doesn't translate retard.

I never understood tipping

i think it's more about being daring and bold

maybe alittlebit of insubordination

Knew this all along

https://www.psypost.org/2019/10/new-...to-women-54676

really dickhead?

well thats nothing Ive ever noticed

Amazing info everybody. Now, I must use this to get a girlfriend okay thnx very much