Whatever it is. Whatever it is that put you in a rut.

It could be financial devastation. It could be the loss of a loved one. It could be an excruciating breakup.

Just remember,

It could be worse.

You could be homeless. You could have a debilitating disability. You could have a terminal illness.

You could be dead.

But you're not. You're still alive. You're still relatively healthy.

So where do you go when you're at your low point? Most people would say "the only way to go is up!". That's simply not true. It can always get worse. Read above.

You need to come to terms with what happened. Mourn it. Accept it. Put it into perspective.

And then figure out your next move. Will you roll around in your own sorrow for the rest of your life? Will you whither away into nothing?

Or will you use that event as a catalyst for the next chapter of your life? A springboard to move up and get where you always wanted to be.

Your back is now against the wall. Just like your favorite heroic story. Or your favorite stock or crypto. It always has to drop first before it bounces to greener pastures.

Stay swell Comrades

I like your perspective. It can be hard to think that way when you're down but it's true.

good to see a post like this instead of posts about mentally ill brahs.

repped.

Definitely. I'm speaking from a bit of experience on both sides of the coin.

I was homeless at one point, I picked myself up rather than giving up. At least I had my car to sleep in. I get your irony but that's not a cool message to send out.

Me too brother, really like your message.

doesnt solve anything. obviously it could always be worse - stupid statement

Cheer up because no one gives a fuk

Thanks man. Just wanted to share something different on the Misc for once.It's not supposed to solve anything. The point is.. when tragedy happens. Go through the emotional process with it and then make a decision to get past it.

Ask people who have lived a sad life and most will trace it back to a singular event which they never got over.

Like I said, I like your message and am happy you shared it. I think though that people whom dwell on that event or events and don't analyze it, learn from it, and let it ruin their lives need some guidance. I let every mistake make me stronger, even if it takes time.

It will be worse as I age, so there's that to look forward to

Turning 33 in less than 5 hours literally. Hate it, but do my best to not let it get me down. I'm stupid, but I've learned a lot in these 33 years, so there is a bright side.

depressing crew checking in*

Thanks OP, definitely helps to put things in perspective.

Good vibes only, repped

good post man. i needed this today was rough.

What happened bro? You'll pull through.

This only applies so much. Some dynamics involve competition where you need to maintain a position against others.

while there is truth in your post this is not a good way to think brother. focus on yourself, focus on God. its not all doom, trust me. there is much joy to be had in this life.

Little bump for morning crew

Good stuff brah, I needed some positivity this morning. Raped.

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