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post 1640242853 06-05-2021, 09:27 PM
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Anybody notice that the more success you achieve the less people like you?

Or is it just me?
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post 1640242973 06-05-2021, 09:29 PM
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post 1640242983 06-05-2021, 09:30 PM
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Most people are jealous
post 1640243133 06-05-2021, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MinisterOfLust⏩
Most people are jealous
Yeah dude for sure, i think it's just about learning to enjoy the process of the journey and not worry too much about the destination.
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post 1640243213 06-05-2021, 09:35 PM
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Talking friends or coworkers?
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If you have power over someone or if you do things on your own terms a lot of people get mad/passive aggressive srs
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post 1640244213 06-05-2021, 09:52 PM
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Everything balances out. Half will be mirin and half will be hating. Just how it is
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post 1640244233 06-05-2021, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted By stupid000⏩
Talking friends or coworkers?
just like people in general dude.
Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
If you have power over someone or if you do things on your own terms a lot of people get mad/passive aggressive srs
Yeah dude 100%..
Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
Everything balances out. Half will be mirin and half will be hating. Just how it is
Yeah dude i am mirin your shreddednesss for sure though
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post 1640244723 06-05-2021, 09:59 PM
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Yes some people will hate you just for being good looking or fit.

Usually just those that are personality disordered though
post 1640245093 06-05-2021, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
just like people in general dude.



Yeah dude 100%..



Yeah dude i am mirin your shreddednesss for sure though
Guess I disagree then. For the most part people have always treated me the same from when I wasn't successful to when I was, and even when I messed my life up. Some people were always jelly after becoming successful though. I don't think it's because YOU are successful, it's because they are bitter that they know they could have done better too but they didn't have the drive, and they see failure in themselves when they see you.

To the other bro, passive aggressive people are gonna be that way no matter what, even if you're under their thumb.
post 1640245223 06-05-2021, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Dale1988⏩
Yes some people will hate you just for being good looking or fit.

Usually just those that are personality disordered though
yeah dude i am fit and goodlooking
Originally Posted By stupid000⏩
Guess I disagree then. For the most part people have always treated me the same from when I wasn't successful to when I was, and even when I messed my life up. Some people were always jelly after becoming successful though. I don't think it's because YOU are successful, it's because they are bitter that they know they could have done better too but they didn't have the drive, and they see failure in themselves when they see you.

To the other bro, passive aggressive people are gonna be that way no matter what, even if you're under their thumb.
Yeah man i heard jordan peterson say something along the lines of people hate the underdog who becomes succesful because it reminds them of hteir own failure.
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post 1640245593 06-05-2021, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
yeah dude i am fit and goodlooking



Yeah man i heard jordan peterson say something along the lines of people hate the underdog who becomes succesful because it reminds them of hteir own failure.
That should just be a push rather than sour cream in a vagina. Love seeing people I care about succeed and try to learn from them rather than hate.
post 1640245803 06-05-2021, 10:17 PM
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but the less you should give a fuc.
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Really my struggle is finding people who share the same passion or intensity as me at a certain level.

Once you reach a certain level of success your ideologies change which can potentially make it hard for you to connect with certain personality types.

In your case it may appear some people may dislike you when really you may not share commonality with those individuals at your point in life
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post 1640246083 06-05-2021, 10:22 PM
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Asking Miscers about their experience of success jfl
post 1640246943 06-05-2021, 10:42 PM
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Women like you more when you become more successful.

For men it's generally the opposite. A few will be genuinely happy for you, while most will be jealous or passive aggressive
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Originally Posted By Kewbrah⏩
Asking Miscers about their experience of success jfl
You a real niggha? srs
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People will hate you for anything, success being one of them.

Some people will also like you for a lot of different reasons, just hang out with those types of people.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
If you have power over someone or if you do things on your own terms a lot of people get mad/passive aggressive srs
I've noticed this too and have been trying to understand it. You think they get jealous because unlike them the person has no need for validation or approval? I just do not understand why others care if someone goes their own way. I also have found some people get pissed when another person refuses to partake in drama.
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Stay humble and private about your success. You won’t regret it.

Also, change your relationship with peers to those who are like minded and successful.
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Originally Posted By char7⏩
I've noticed this too and have been trying to understand it. You think they get jealous because unlike them the person has no need for validation or approval? I just do not understand why others care if someone goes their own way. I also have found some people get pissed when another person refuses to partake in drama.
I don't understand it either but everything you said here is true. You can literally just stay to yourself and do everything perfect at a job but there will always be employees that try to start stuff with you either because you have seniority, are better than them at the job, do your own thing etc. I've had my lunches moved back several times because some lady in another room kept complaining that i was going later than everyone else. People coming up and starting stuff out of the blue because you're just doing your own thing is the weirdest thing though.
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No. I don't notice anything. It's their role to notice. Notice what I say. What I do. What I desire. What pleasures me. To dedicate themselves to my aspirations.

Every individual exists for a reason. A purpose. To provide a function. If it's merely to be jealous/envious of me, that is only because I've commanded it.
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Yes. Some want you to do well, but no one wants you to do better than them. They want you in their clique, on their level. Once you start achieving, they get jealous.
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Originally Posted By char7⏩
I've noticed this too and have been trying to understand it. You think they get jealous because unlike them the person has no need for validation or approval? I just do not understand why others care if someone goes their own way. I also have found some people get pissed when another person refuses to partake in drama.
Yeah that's because if you think something that another person thinks, you're no longer a lonely kunt, and by disagreeing with somebody's opinion you invalidate them and make them feel bad
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
yeah Yeah man i heard jordan peterson say something along the lines of people hate the underdog who becomes succesful because it reminds them of hteir own failure.
Lol’d reading this cause of the level of truth
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