How is the feminizing of men happening?

I don't watch or listen to anything mainstream so maybe someone else can explain it

But how exactly is the femininizing of men happening?

It seems like most dudes these days don't lift or play sports, are obese, or spend most of their time perming their hair, watching Tik tok, listening to post malones, playing video games or watching anime and spending money on only fans

None of this is exactly masculine, so what happened to masculinity?
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