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post 1640809573 06-13-2021, 04:13 PM
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Would you pay for a girls food? Beta chit...

Ive been texting a girl and she seems to think im gonna buy her lunch
We havent banged or even kissed, so shes out of her mind tbh

Would you pay for a girls food? Isn't that beta?
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post 1640809823 06-13-2021, 04:18 PM
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I don't give them money for chit or even talk to the unless the topic is about sex. I always trade asian prostitutes money for sex and they always let me fuark raw and cum in them.
post 1640810463 06-13-2021, 04:31 PM
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It's actually way more beta to be haggling over a bill with your date.

If you can't buy lunch for someone you're trying to fuk then your life must be a mess, and dating probably shouldn't be a priority.
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post 1640810773 06-13-2021, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Imaneya⏩
It's actually way more beta to be haggling over a bill with your date.

If you can't buy lunch for someone you're trying to fuk then your life must be a mess, and dating probably shouldn't be a priority.
Why shouldn't both pay their own bill? Why can't I apply that same logic to her, unless I think I am worthless.

I see this as more of a way to weed out girls just wanting free stuff.
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Originally Posted By Imaneya⏩
It's actually way more beta to be haggling over a bill with your date.

If you can't buy lunch for someone you're trying to fuk then your life must be a mess, and dating probably shouldn't be a priority.
What exactly am i paying for? Her to get a free meal and bang another dude? I get paying if you are dating or have atleast hooked up but otherwise theres no reason to. Its a matter of principle and thats some beta chit to give free meals
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post 1640810953 06-13-2021, 04:43 PM
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my girlfriends/wifes food, of course


a girl i'm just getting to know? if she doesnt offer to pay or split it with me i'll go nc
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post 1640810993 06-13-2021, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman⏩
Ive been texting a girl and she seems to think im gonna buy her lunch
We havent banged or even kissed, so shes out of her mind tbh

Would you pay for a girls food? Isn't that beta?
Have you asked her to get lunch? If so, pay for the meal.

The only beta in this situation is the guy who takes a girl out for a meal and splits the bill.
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It’s 2021. It’s beta to date.
post 1640811113 06-13-2021, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman⏩
What exactly am i paying for? Her to get a free meal and bang another dude? I get paying if you are dating or have atleast hooked up but otherwise theres no reason to. Its a matter of principle and thats some beta chit to give free meals
i get what you're saying and im cheap as fuk.... but honestly if you're the man paying for a stupid meal ain't **** anyway wtf if 50 bucks dude . take a hot bish out and just pay for everything, wtf its only money who cares
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post 1640811133 06-13-2021, 04:46 PM
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Don't ever spend money on Women

Even your Daughter. If she can't find her own fruit, she has been disowned by Gaia and Mother Nature, and the only option is to let her starve to death.
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post 1640811413 06-13-2021, 04:51 PM
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In this thread, OP is broke as fuark and is willing to blow his chances to save $15.

Don't ever let the bill make things awkward.

Nothing dries up a woman's vagana faster than a cheap dude.

And unless you're taking her to a $100+ lunch, there's no woman of value that is going to waste her time on a "free lunch" date and not have intentions of moving things forward.
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post 1640811473 06-13-2021, 04:54 PM
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I pay for other peoples food all of the time... Im not paying for the food, Im paying for the company.

I'm not single, but if I were - buying a Chicken Caesar Salad to spend some time with a sloot to figure out if she's worth my effort is a great return on investment.
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post 1640811743 06-13-2021, 04:58 PM
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whoever asks who on a date pays

unfortunately the custom right now is the man asking, but its getting better, so unless she somehow offers to take you out first then if you want to get laid , you have to ask her on a date, and thus since you asked you should have to pay unless she offers otherwise.
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You're probably in your 30s or 40s so it's easy to make money

OP is more than likely a zoomer incel with no ability to make money
if that is the case then OP should not ask girls out for lunch and instead should ask them for the movies, movie at his place, pool/river/ocean/lake, smoke and talk about life, etc..
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post 1640811753 06-13-2021, 04:58 PM
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Depends whether you’re traditional I suppose

You know if you’re one of these macho posturing I’m the provider and protector and a woman needs to take care of me, you’re damn right you need to woo and pay

Or are you a feminist?
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I usually pick the place and pay before we go on the date. It looks boss when you just eat and leave. My friend owns a restaurant aswell so when I go there I just call him beforehand and everything is taken care of
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post 1640811883 06-13-2021, 05:01 PM
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She should be fine with lunchables...I mean who isn't?
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If you are looking for a traditional woman, then you must use traditional values. Paying for it’s from you, as well as using other chivalrous acts, shows that you can provide, protect, and guide a woman. In return, she will have your children, and care for them for the first several years. This is a woman who will most likely be a stay at home mother until they’re old enough to start being independent. This family value system creates the most likely and best outcome for children. Not providing the later makes you a beta cuck. Srs men these days are weak and irresponsible and this shows them you are strong and responsible

This is also why there is a “gender pay gap”. Traditionally women do not start their careers until later, or they put them on hold to help raise the family.

If you are looking for a career woman and just a wife or a piece of meat to put your dink in to, then I don’t believe these values are as important, although, being chivalrous as a man and providing protection and security, I still believe is a necessity.
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that's called an escort, brah
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Originally Posted By miscberhard⏩
I usually pick the place and pay before we go on the date. It looks boss when you just eat and leave. My friend owns a restaurant aswell so when I go there I just call him beforehand and everything is taken care of
I take it a step further and meet the staff the night before and pay everyone a lot of money to act scared of me and call me "Mr." and "Sir" and maybe even drop a "Your Lordship" or something in there.
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post 1640812643 06-13-2021, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Kraken⏩
In return, she will bury your children
I know what you meant but still lol
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Originally Posted By Antoine99⏩
I know what you meant but still lol
I use speak to text. Between that and auto correct, I end up with all kinds of ridiculous chit in my posts.
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post 1640813073 06-13-2021, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Antoine99⏩
Why shouldn't both pay their own bill? Why can't I apply that same logic to her, unless I think I am worthless.

I see this as more of a way to weed out girls just wanting free stuff.
Originally Posted By Poodleman⏩
What exactly am i paying for? Her to get a free meal and bang another dude? I get paying if you are dating or have atleast hooked up but otherwise theres no reason to. Its a matter of principle and thats some beta chit to give free meals
You motherfukers.

When I am on a date, it's usually because I asked the girl out. The least you can do as a man is show some level of maturity and control of your situation. What kind of buttpussy beta doesn't at least offer to cover a $40 food or drink bill? Half of the girls will offer to split anyway if it's high.

If a $40 date bill offends you, then it's not the girl's fault your life is a mess. You should be mad at yourself, not her. Judging by OP's writing, he's probably complaining about lunch in the $15 range jfc.

Obviously, not saying you should be willingly giving out free meals. No retard takes new girls out to expensive lunches or dinners unless he's actually rich.

It's not rocket science, pay the $15 if you think she might want to smash and enjoy the date. You shouldn't be going a date in the first place if you think she's only looking for a free meal, find better quality women.
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Originally Posted By Imaneya⏩
You motherfukers.

When I am on a date, it's usually because I asked the girl out. The least you can do as a man is show some level of maturity and control of your situation. What kind of buttpussy beta doesn't at least offer to cover a $40 food or drink bill? Half of the girls will offer to split anyway if it's high.

If a $40 date bill offends you, then it's not the girl's fault your life is a mess. You should be mad at yourself, not her. Judging by OP's writing, he's probably complaining about lunch in the $15 range jfc.

Obviously, not saying you should be willingly giving out free meals. No retard takes new girls out to expensive lunches or dinners unless he's actually rich.

It's not rocket science, pay the $15 if you think she might want to smash. You shouldn't be going a date in the first place if you think she's only looking for a free meal, find better quality women.
If you ask her out sure that's obvious, I think the grey area here is when you both go back and forth and land on dinner.

And it's not about money, it's more about not appearing to be a pushover. And if I WAS rich I certainly wouldn't want her to know about it because that really influences her feelings.
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Lol at ppl in this thread making baseless assumptions.
She aint hot, shes 5.5/10. If she was a hot girl ofc I would pay no questions asked
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