Was curious how they reached out, or how you reached out.. assuming you just lost contact and there wasn't any bad blood. You just send a nice text or what? Been wanting to reach out to a close friend from senior year of college, but am a bit puzzled as we haven't spoken in 6 years, seen each other in 9..

Nah. They reached out to me(elementary classmates) for a reunion. But they(the women) told me not to bring my 22 year old gf cuz it would seem weird especially since people will be bringing their kids and some are almost 20. (srs)... I didnt go anyway. Most of them were horrible to me back then cuz I was poor growing up.

Don't overthink it man.

People meet and fall out of touch all the time.

Do you hold a grudge against them for letting things fade away? Certainly not. So why would they do the same to you?

Life's too short, tell em how you feel. Tell em you miss em. Who wouldn't appreciate hearing that?

Only sloots when they're going through a breakup and still got it

Between men its easier to catch up where you left off. Chit happens in life which causes people to lose contact. (See response by Glutebrahhh above, for example). Once you get back in contact, you might find that you're not on the same page as before, in which case you end up drifting apart again. Only way to find out is to try, though.

Between women, its difficult, they are a lot more likely to find a reason to be mad at each other, or make up a retarded reason to resent being dropped 10 years ago. When you see women among themselves making something complicated out of something that should be simple, it makes you glad you don't have a vagina.