All the girls I knew who were very sexy and sexual and foxy and fun to be around when they were in their 20's all turned into these plastic surgery, thick makeup, tacky clothes and jewelry things with stupid little rat dogs that they carry around and take pictures of.

They are all on medications to control their mood and anxiety. Just a shell of themselves when they were young and sexy and youthful glow and it makes me sad.

The changes were so gradual over the last 15-20 years that I didn't really notice until recently. A few have herpes or HPV or maybe Epstien-Barr syndrome along with chronic fatigue syndrome and/or fibromyalgia - usually self-diagnosed.

They are just so burnt out. I'm always good to them and listen to them complain about everything and offer emotional validation and agree about how they are so mistreated and ripped off about everything.

Their husbands always complain to me in private about a sexless marriage, too. These girls were all known to be all about freaky sex not too long ago, but I guess perimenopause or something changes them.