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post 1646423873 09-05-2021, 11:12 AM
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You run into your ex with her new guy, would you rather he….

Option 1: be a complete downgrade. Shorter, chubbier, no hairline, looks like a chump. You won the breakup but at some level but what does that say about you? Dude is a 5 at best and you got left for him


Option 2: she’s with Chad now. 6’+ jacked sharp dressed rich guy that beats you in every aspect. Con is you feel like **** as she upgraded. On the pro this puts you in more elite territory , and is a reflection of your own value. Yea you lost but played at the highest level




Embrace debate
post 1646423953 09-05-2021, 11:14 AM
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My ex is a downgrade to any guy, and I pity any man who's next
FL > PA
post 1646424583 09-05-2021, 11:22 AM
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Option number 2 for sure

This is very immature and a terrible mindset but the thought of me being in the same league or getting the same girls as a downgrade would piss me off
post 1646425383 09-05-2021, 11:36 AM
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My ex is now a proud baby mama so not sure where I fall…

I guess it was just my turn…
post 1646425513 09-05-2021, 11:38 AM
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Option 2.

Option 1 just means she's with Option 1 & 2.
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post 1646425593 09-05-2021, 11:39 AM
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But why do I care?
post 1646425643 09-05-2021, 11:41 AM
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IME, it’s always been option 1. I don’t care either way, but with my exes it’s always been 1. I don’t dwell on it though.

That said, you have ammo if she ever reaches out “brb, why would I entertain talking to you again, you have horrible decision making skills”
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post 1646425723 09-05-2021, 11:42 AM
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Idgaf about any of my ex's

When I got divorced I was worried my ex-wife would find someone and my kids would have 2 "dads", but that was a long time ago and they are older now. Beyond that I would say hi to any of my ex's whoever they were dating and forget about it a few hours later.
post 1646425983 09-05-2021, 11:48 AM
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Don’t care what they are doing or who they are doing it with. I’m sure as hell not basing my value or self esteem off of them
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post 1646426583 09-05-2021, 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted By MrQuint
Don’t care what they are doing or who they are doing it with. I’m sure as hell not basing my value or self esteem off of them
The ideal answer



But for the right person, I can be extremely petty
post 1646426683 09-05-2021, 12:01 PM
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Option 2, I want her to be happy no homo.






if we are talking about what would feel easier tho is option 1 for sure. it means you made her less shallow.
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post 1646427123 09-05-2021, 12:11 PM
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I take low dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy her for 20+ min no natty dinks can compete lol
post 1646427163 09-05-2021, 12:12 PM
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Option 2. I wish nothing but the best to all my exes. I want them to be happy.
post 1646427293 09-05-2021, 12:15 PM
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My ex came over a couple of times after she was dating her now husband and we banged. I am sure she never told him.

He is also foot shorter then me.

Would be very awkward for them.
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post 1646428153 09-05-2021, 12:31 PM
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Someone even more of a Chad than me so he will actually go through with cheating on her the way she accused me of doing.
Short, fat, and bald crew.

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post 1646428423 09-05-2021, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89
I take low dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy her for 20+ min no natty dinks can compete lol
3 things at once? Das cray mane!














tell me more
post 1646428513 09-05-2021, 12:38 PM
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Since all miscers are 10+ inches, we should all feel sorry for the next guy.

post 1646429043 09-05-2021, 12:49 PM
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I feel sorry for the next guy
post 1646432353 09-05-2021, 01:37 PM
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I take low dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy her for 20+ min no natty dinks can compete lol
post 1646432603 09-05-2021, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89
I take low dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy her for 20+ min no natty dinks can compete lol
I heard you the first time
post 1646432693 09-05-2021, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By donkeydonger
Someone even more of a Chad than me so he will actually go through with cheating on her the way she accused me of doing.
Lmao repped
post 1646432903 09-05-2021, 01:47 PM
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I take medium dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy her for 30+ min no natty dinks or 20minute men can compete lol
pls do not associate my personalities in misc and sports misc
post 1646436763 09-05-2021, 02:52 PM
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Holy siht. People actual have these kinds of thoughts? Never once has this crossed my mind....

OP tell me you'll always be a beta phahgot without telling me you'll always be a beta phahgot ...
post 1646437083 09-05-2021, 02:58 PM
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In order for my ex to be in a relationship it will have to be with a guy that is spineless and will let her walk all over him. She had so much masculine energy everything was a fight. So no matter what he outwardly looks like I know that will be his personality.
Live & Direct from rural Iowa- GBR
post 1646437723 09-05-2021, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By muscle
Holy siht. People actual have these kinds of thoughts? Never once has this crossed my mind....

OP tell me you'll always be a beta phahgot without telling me you'll always be a beta phahgot ...
I take medium dose SSRIS
Cialis / viagra and TRT

And absolutely destroy for 30+ min no natty dinks or 20minute men can compete lol
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post 1646437823 09-05-2021, 03:13 PM
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I know the guy my ex got back with, and I mog him in every way, always enjoy seeing them together when I’m out.
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Lurked in 2011,12,13 and can’t believe what happened to the misc



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post 1646438763 09-05-2021, 03:30 PM
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My ex is burried in backyard so idk about that
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post 1646443143 09-05-2021, 04:40 PM
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But I’m a chad, so she is by default in downgrade mode.
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post 1646443293 09-05-2021, 04:42 PM
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Out of spite I'd want Option 1 under normal circumstances.

But tbh, Option 2 reassures that she is worthy of a likeminded Chad.

The true ultimate answer is to not give a chit, maybe quietly judge and contemplate one way or the other, but realize this world is so spontaneous and random it's crazy what kinds of people run into each other, and what people are attracted towards.
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