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Thread: Why do girls say "we're not hooking up" when they come over from a dating app?

post 1647773493 09-25-2021, 05:44 PM
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Why do girls say "we're not hooking up" when they come over from a dating app?

Srs, just a hypothetical question
Everytime a girl comes over she says this, I've never had one girl not say that
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post 1647773813 09-25-2021, 05:49 PM
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theyve been in a similar situation so many times before where they went over to a random strangers house they met after a few brief lines of text and had men expecting sexual things


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post 1647773893 09-25-2021, 05:50 PM
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They know why they’re there and it’s not to play pattycake.
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post 1647773973 09-25-2021, 05:51 PM
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It's called plausible deniability. My stock answer is "of course, how easy do you think I am?" and then proceed to ignore it and escalate as usual.

If they are at your place, they want to fool around. Period. They know why they are there.
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so they can rationalize to themselfs "I said I wasn't gonna hookup"... but it just happened (female logic)
post 1647774003 09-25-2021, 05:51 PM
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They already assessed you're not a chad, so they're advertising that they won't fuk(you) on your first encounter.
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post 1647774023 09-25-2021, 05:51 PM
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post 1647774073 09-25-2021, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
"I'm not like most girls"

-most girls
“I don’t normally do this”
-girls who normally do just that
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post 1647774083 09-25-2021, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
Srs, just a hypothetical question
Everytime a girl comes over she says this, I've never had one girl not say that
And they all hook up, right?

The red pill logic is that they say this so if a hookup happens that the blame lies with the man and she is not a slut for having sex with you the first night. In fact, if they say they are not hooking up with you they have already decided to do so.
post 1647774203 09-25-2021, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
It's called plausible deniability. My stock answer is "of course, how easy do you think I am?" and then proceed to ignore it and escalate as usual.

If they are at your place, they want to fool around. Period. They know why they are there.
Mostly this. Also partially a sh*t test I think to see if you act all butt hurt or if you let it roll right off if you.
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post 1647774323 09-25-2021, 05:58 PM
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well they are putting out the disclaimer so they dont appear to be teases if nothing happens but most of them are also whores who say that as a false sense of self respect.

"we arent sleeping together'

then when she does butt stuff she can say 'well we didnt sleep'' and not feel like a sloot
post 1647774403 09-25-2021, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By HalfDragon⏩
And they all hook up, right?

The red pill logic is that they say this so if a hookup happens that the blame lies with the man and she is not a slut for having sex with you the first night. In fact, if they say they are not hooking up with you they have already decided to do so.
Yep. Although there was one time where we didn't but that was only because we were both super tired from a long day and she fell asleep
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post 1647774523 09-25-2021, 06:01 PM
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Conciously:
as replies above
anti slut defense
'I told him we're not hooking up, but he seduced me therefore i am immune to any social repercussions'

subconciously:
its a test. 'i'm gonna put up a resistance, only the most dominant male will be able to overcome my resistance'

be careful with knowledge of that second one, its a fine line my brahs
post 1647774683 09-25-2021, 06:05 PM
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plausible deniability you autist
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post 1647774713 09-25-2021, 06:05 PM
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They say it so they dont feel like whores
post 1647774753 09-25-2021, 06:06 PM
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Usually just fuk with them back and tell them that I don’t appreciate they assumed I was willing to put out on first date. Usually gets a laugh, then I dik them down, then I have a laugh.
post 1647774983 09-25-2021, 06:11 PM
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to cope with the fact they are someone's daughter
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