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post 1647787983 09-25-2021, 11:25 PM
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Is love even real?

Alert: dear diary post lol

Back when I was in love, I read somewhere it’s just a chemical reaction in the body and didnt quite get it. Well fast forward many years, im with the same chick and we care for each other - she says she loves me but I’m not able to say it back to her due to many reasons - one being the misc (all the education - thanks boys and girls!!)

I see through all the manipulations, on demand neediness and a day later aloofness, wierd behavior and some other events. Fuk man, disturbing.

Not sure if it’s the women of these days or they’ve always been that way. Don’t think most of them are capable of loving. I keep my guard up and don’t fall for it even when she’s acting all lovey dovey. Some days do feel bad, but then remember the days when we’re having a rough day and say fuk it
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post 1647788343 09-25-2021, 11:37 PM
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Love is merely the recognition of your true self in other people and things. One day you will remember who you truly are, and that is love itself srs.
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post 1647788443 09-25-2021, 11:40 PM
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Love is real if your providing her with everything and she’s really comfortable,but as soon as the well dries up, your tours over
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post 1647788493 09-25-2021, 11:42 PM
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You're probably overthinking it
post 1647788513 09-25-2021, 11:43 PM
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No

We barely evolved from say 20,000 years ago. Cavewomen only needed a man around when they were pregant and weak, susceptible to be attacked by a tiger. And then for the man to stick around another year or two until the child can walk on its own. Then she is ready to go out and breed again for genetic diversity. Short term lust is inherit in humans but life long partnerships is something society has created. Now when men ran everything and women were dependent on them, they had no way to leave. Now that we have a female led society, we see the compete degeneracy, humans in their natural form, the relatives of the bonobos who have literal gangbangs. female bonobos fuk everything in sight, they are complete whores and that is the closest animal relative of human females. of your wife, your mother, your sister. Thats why they are all whores.
post 1647788953 09-26-2021, 12:05 AM
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Yes and No

No: it’s not some magical thing where you meat a soul mate.

Yes: is a very very strong bond you have or create with someone. It serves a purpose. It’s still a great thing to experience.

There is science behind it. Just google it. They’ve done studies with dogs and they experience similar emotions towards their family at a much more baseline level.
post 1647788983 09-26-2021, 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Sophus
You're probably overthinking it
As in? Overthinking the instant snappiness at mundane chit?

Overthinking that she tries to blame me for all her problems including if contractor didn’t show up to his work (“i told you to call him last month look now he’s not showing up”)

Lol

I ain’t perfect and im a bich too and do wrong but man this chit is getting old real fast. Used to brush it away and play with her make her laugh or some chit but now it’s like I don’t care if it ends.
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post 1647788993 09-26-2021, 12:07 AM
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I don't think I've been in love with anyone
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post 1647789003 09-26-2021, 12:08 AM
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its super like
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post 1647789023 09-26-2021, 12:09 AM
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not sure i care, i think it's dumb to reject out of insecurity of losing it eventually or something

roll with the punches
post 1647789153 09-26-2021, 12:16 AM
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Love yourself bro
post 1647789173 09-26-2021, 12:17 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
Love is merely the recognition of your true self in other people and things. One day you will remember who you truly are, and that is love itself srs.
Agreed for once.

The other person just reminds you of who you are both visually and energetically.

Karma keeps people from being able to experience it though.

This same karma is the stuff we attach our egos to and are proud of.

Figure that one out huh.
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post 1647789233 09-26-2021, 12:20 AM
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love is mental illness
post 1647789283 09-26-2021, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
Love is merely the recognition of your true self in other people and things. One day you will remember who you truly are, and that is love itself srs.
Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Agreed for once.

The other person just reminds you of who you are both visually and energetically.

Karma keeps people from being able to experience it though.

This same karma is the stuff we attach our egos to and are proud of.

Figure that one out huh.
These. 100% srs.
post 1647789563 09-26-2021, 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Strawng
These. 100% srs.
the moment i realised this was when i felt super energetic and horny and my penis went 110% out of no where, i had a fap and orgasmed for a minute or two straight and at one point i just noticed my ears started ringing and my vision was less apparent and i felt the most blissful feeling ever like i was not on earth nay more.
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post 1647790773 09-26-2021, 01:34 AM
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only if you pop her

srs
post 1647791033 09-26-2021, 01:51 AM
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What is love?
post 1647791113 09-26-2021, 01:55 AM
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Called Oxytocin.
post 1647791163 09-26-2021, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By tk217
Called Oxytocin.
The chemicals a physical manifestation from the spiritual realm.

Everything that exists in the physical exists as an idea in the non-physical planes.

Forget the chicken and the egg, they best became real as soon as consciousness created them.
"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.

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"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.
post 1647792173 09-26-2021, 03:23 AM
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Any of you have kids? You will know what true love is when you have them. Everything up to that point is just fluff.

If you have kids and don't agree or feel this way you are a monster.
post 1647792753 09-26-2021, 04:07 AM
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Of children, yes.

Responsibility more or less defines the meaning of life.

It is not a static object to find.
post 1647792903 09-26-2021, 04:17 AM
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No I don't think love between partners is a real thing srs. Never had kids yet so maybe that one will be real
post 1647793103 09-26-2021, 04:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Kiop
What is love?
Don't hurt me, no more, Kiop.



I have never experienced love, in terms of "falling" in love. I don't even believe it is possible for me.
Cook the man some eggs!
post 1647793113 09-26-2021, 04:32 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
Love is merely the recognition of your true self in other people and things..
Thanks Owen Wilson!
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 1647793553 09-26-2021, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
The chemicals a physical manifestation from the spiritual realm.

Everything that exists in the physical exists as an idea in the non-physical planes.

Forget the chicken and the egg, they best became real as soon as consciousness created them.
explain for a subhuman like me
post 1647793693 09-26-2021, 05:16 AM
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post 1647793823 09-26-2021, 05:23 AM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz
explain for a subhuman like me
Ever heard about how the anticipation of a high is better than the high itself?

Perhaps you've even experienced this phenomenon.
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post 1647793993 09-26-2021, 05:28 AM
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Love is real for Chad

She would kill herself for Chad
post 1647794223 09-26-2021, 05:35 AM
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You have missed out on teenage love
you'll never be 15 and in love
lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting
not worrying about rent, bills, student loans
only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday
you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"
you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits
you're in your 20's now
gotta get a good job
gotta be a serious man now
all the good ones are taken
maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you
they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter
you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
you have missed out on teenage love
See you tomorrow
post 1647794883 09-26-2021, 05:53 AM
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OP you're probably feeling this way right now because you are a ****g0t and are attracted to men.
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