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Forum » Who do you prefer? Assertive, dominant girls or submissive, quiet girls?

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Thread: Who do you prefer? Assertive, dominant girls or submissive, quiet girls?

post 1650102043 11-02-2021, 08:07 PM
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Who do you prefer? Assertive, dominant girls or submissive, quiet girls?

Say you’re picking between a girl that:
-Is assertive
-Talkative
-Likes to lift heavy
-Plays videogames
-Likes to dominate and tease you
-Pulls you out of your comfort zone

Or a girl who:
-Is quiet
-Always listens for your command
-Submissive
-Rarely has anything interesting to say
-Reserved and polite
post 1650102303 11-02-2021, 08:11 PM
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I was very close to wanting to punch a woman in the face this weekend, who claimed she was an alpha woman and wouldn't STFU. She got mad that I wouldn't drive her somewhere when she was in my car, so she threw a temper tantrum. I then proceeded to leave her on the side of the road while staying calm the whole time.

I'll go with a calm, submissive woman every time. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1650102453 11-02-2021, 08:13 PM
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post 1650103003 11-02-2021, 08:22 PM
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reserved, quiet, submissive > quiet, submissive

cause the latter can be a ho right?

you can make her be a ho but not an actual ho right

i assume reserved means she doesn't slut around

my least favorite women are by far the "negging" type that want you to one up them/ make fun of you. and force you to put them down
post 1650103533 11-02-2021, 08:32 PM
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I don't mind respectful and intelligent assertiveness. I don't really like submissive people in general.
post 1650103613 11-02-2021, 08:33 PM
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Why would any dude want an 'alpha' assertive woman? There can't be 2 alphas under one household anyway

I don't need a woman pulling me out my comfort zone, lifts heavy, or plays videogames. I need a woman that can cook the finest dishes, keep the house squeeky clean, and make great suggestions for our life path
post 1650103693 11-02-2021, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Obv everyone wants quiet submissive.
Not for me.
post 1650103713 11-02-2021, 08:35 PM
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Assertive is way better, then she can actually be an equal. These women rarely exist though. A lot of them confuse assertiveness with just being a selfish bitch.

Quiet girls are cool for pump and dumps, but I can't imagine myself staying with someone who just agrees with everything I say or do. That's not a relationship.
post 1650103963 11-02-2021, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
Assertive is way better, then she can actually be an equal. These women rarely exist though. A lot of them confuse assertiveness with just being a selfish bitch.

Quiet girls are cool for pump and dumps, but I can't imagine myself staying with someone who just agrees with everything I say or do. That's not a relationship.
Yep, I agree.
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Originally Posted By wolfofmarkcity⏩
Assertive is way better, then she can actually be an equal. These women rarely exist though. A lot of them confuse assertiveness with just being a selfish bitch.

Quiet girls are cool for pump and dumps,but I can't imagine myself staying with someone who just agrees with everything I say or do.That's not a relationship.
I disagree. a majority of **** I had to deal with from previous relationships was bickering and arguing over **** that doesn't really fukcing matter or shouldn't have happened in the first place. Would rather a docile, reticent woman who doesn't cause problems.
post 1650104163 11-02-2021, 08:43 PM
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post 1650104433 11-02-2021, 08:47 PM
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post 1650104553 11-02-2021, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Nobody likes loud assertive dominant women. It’s not feminine.

Actually my best friend is like this and I don’t think she realizes how unattractive that is.
I never mentioned being loud. And there’s nothing wrong with being assertive and dominant.

Some guys like myself like a challenge and someone who has a backbone. This is not to be confused with a girl who just argues because she’s disrespectful.

And is that you in your profile pic?
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post 1650104903 11-02-2021, 08:54 PM
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A blend, obviously. Assertive at work, assertive with kids, submissive/assertive as appropriate in bed by choice, which is assertive in a way. The worst is somebody who isn't assertive outside of the home, while being overbearing within the home. Fukin yuck.
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro⏩
I never mentioned being loud. And there’s nothing wrong with being assertive and dominant.

Some guys like myself like a challenge and someone who has a backbone. This is not to be confused with a girl who just argues because she’s disrespectful.

And is that you in your profile pic?
how is she dominant? Is she dominating over her man?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes that is me.
Oh cool. When did you start training?
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
how is she dominant? Is she dominating over her man?
Yes, but only sexually dominant. I should have specified that.
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are you asking if i like masculine whores or obedient submissive traditional women? what a retarded question
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro⏩
I never mentioned being loud. And there’s nothing wrong with being assertive and dominant.

Some guys like myself like a challenge and someone who has a backbone. This is not to be confused with a girl who just argues because she’s disrespectful.

And is that you in your profile pic?
Why are you assuming quiet girls aren't a challenge and get stepped on in relationships?
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They all become the submissive one if you're doing it right anyway.
post 1650106313 11-02-2021, 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
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Oh cool
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro⏩
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro⏩
Oh cool
oh cool
I dont give a f*ck about a b*tch on the internet
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That is exactly why career is bad for women. Career-wise women need to be assertive to be successful. But that goes contrary to feminine nature so it makes women less attractive and less happy. At a primal level career is fundamentally incompatible with female happiness imo.
When I said “a blend”, I was referring to their ability to act differently in different circumstances, depending on the situation/person they are interacting with. People do this all the time. Behavior isn’t black and white. I don’t talk to my mother the way I talk to a bar buddy. None of this is rocket science.

To reiterate, a blend in behavior based on the context is ideal. If she can’t hold her own and be assertive out in the real world, that a big negative imo. Thats weakness, and weakness isn’t the same as femininity.
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