My bro and his wife have issues.

I’m 100% not trolling here.

He has a beautiful sexy af wife and They argue a lot, the shouting, the cursing, and for years it’s gotten physical. But it’s one sided. And it’s all from her.

She goes off into a total rage and just wails on him, smacking him in the face, pounding him with hammer fists, and she gets vicious attacking him and today I saw him and one side of his his face was almost beet red, his ear lobe looked like it was clawed or grabbed and ripped some.

He never raises a hand toward her he just covers up and doesn’t fight back while she lashes out and yells at him everyone in the apartment complex has to hear it . ****. If it gets too hostile he tries to restrain her like “omg ffs just calm down!” Or “chill!!!!!”

He said she’s going through a lot, being on drugs and alcohol (him too) isn’t helping her any either. She tells him he’s stupid. Or he’s cheated on her. And he’s not even a real man. Ok for years???

I don’t feel for him. I know his wife I see her with him at family get togethers and she acts super bubbly and all sweet toward others. I think he’s being a cuck tbh... but anyone ever see Like female on male Spousal abuse?

It’s been going on for years I never say much because I don’t know what to. I don’t want to let it slip how I really feel because it’s that cringy in my mind.

I’m not going to get into a battle of the sexed discussion here but.... are there any men who take that kind of ****? Imagine putting up with that all day ffs. Many some here in misc would take that but I cannot imagine.

Islam was right about woman .

Western sloots should be sent to the Middle East for six months of training.
If they make it back is another thing

Is she a bodybuilder? Is he a pussy?

My ex-wife punched me a few times, it was infuriating, but she's a girl, it didn't hurt.

tell him to bob and weave, I started doing that, and she would break down in tears not being able to connect

Had an ex way back in the day that was like this

Finally had to end it when I literally stopped myself like an inch from smashing her face…bish reached out like 2 years later and asked if I ever thought about giving it a second chance. Said no and left her on read on her next reply

Don’t pity people in those relationships, you can easily walk away

yes I had a coworker who got beat by his wife.

How much more of a sign does he need that she wants him to hit back and put her in her place?

The "never hit a woman" brainwashing is way too pervasive at this point. It should be "never hit a woman with a closed fist".

does his wife have a number

Problem is if he hits back, she would probably call the cops and he would be arrested and his life ruined. He could call them and have her charged with spousal abuse if he's marked up and can get a hospital report, but 90% odds nobody will care including the cops.

He needs to just walk away. Like from the marriage. I wouldn't put up with that but if he retaliates even once his life could be over. Never stick your shvantz in crazy. If they don't have kids or serious assets he should GTFO as soon as he can.

She does exercise but not for hypertrophy lean mass gains. She’ll do yoga and I forget what else but yeah. No bodybuilder.

He wasn’t a pussy growing up but he never believed in laying a hand on women in an abusive manner. From a young age.

If it were my sister I’d want to break the abusers legs. But since it’s my bro its on him to handle it I just feel bad today because he looked like he was in a scuffle a fight but it’s her doing. Love him but he isn’t a real man now after seeing his face this morning. Smfh

Sock + oranges or soap

Sums up why some women shouldn't be taken seriously.


Though I don't think we should look down on men being abused by their wife or girlfriend because I feel like that just takes all responsibility out of the woman's hands. Some of these dudes genuinely feel trapped, especially considering the possibility of a false accusation.

Both are on drugs huh.......

And do time in lock-up and have the stigma of being a wife beater for the rest of your life when she runs to her friends “who know a good lawyer” the first chance she gets?

No thx Jeff


I feel bad for any person (man or woman) who’s in an abusive relationship. I’m not really sure what you can do other than report the abuse you’ve seen to the police.

I know it probably wouldn’t do anything, but at least it would start a record of the abuse that could be used later.

Personality disorder. Read up because I would bet good money that one or both of them is deeply damaged in some way.

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You say she is sweet in public and odds are he fell in love with that sweet girl and that is the enduring image he has of her in his mind- a sweet girl with a sickness instead of an abuser that is sweet sometimes.

You could try awaring him and/or the rest of the family, but no idea if it will help. Maybe push some self-love/self-respect on him.

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That might not make him defensive if it gets through.

"Bro you must really hate yourself to put up with that chit."

And, shouldn't need to be said, but ignore those suggesting that he hit her back. That is an area where the law is in no way fair to men, and I wouldn't expect it to change.Correct.

Best favor you could do the man- hook him up with a job and a place to stay in another state or country. Pack his stuff while she is gone and vanish.

I just don't understand, does he just stand there while she hits him repetitively? How is she able to beat him?

I never hit my ex-wife back, but I never walked around with welts on my face or anything.

I put my arms up to block her punches the first time, and she accused me of hitting her. Yeah, I hit her fists with my forearms... But seriously, bobbing and weaving was more effective. She would swing and miss, and swing and miss, and swing and miss, then go cry in frustration. I think this probably happened about 7 or 8 times in 10 years. Usually a quiet mild mannered woman, but she had a hell of a temper.

Is she American or is he foreignslootmaxxing OP?

my gfs mom would beat on her dad starting on their wedding night. they are no longer together. dad never retaliated it went on for years

i think the guys who come in and all macho and say “oh well she’s a girl hit her back” or whatever bullchit don’t care to consider this is the person you love more than you probably even love yourself, potentially the mother of your children, so it’s hard to stand for yourself and leave.

spousal violence is definitely a red flag and he should 360 out of there imo and she needs therapy there is no excuse to attack anyone much less a spouse.

near term they should at the very least attempt couples counseling and make it clear should this behavior continue he is gone no matter the $ cost ded fukkin srs

She yells, she goes off and then swings on him while continuing to yell mean things at him snd all he does he cover up using his arms until she’s gotten it all out.

He never fights back. He never hit her according to him and I believe him. He just covers up. The most hes don’t is try to grab her by the arms to restrain her in place while telling her “stop ffs!!!” Or “omg chill” and “get ahold of yourself!!!!!!” While she yells at things that she finds wrong with him, their relationship.

Yes both are using. He was actually only a drinker when he met her. Now on, drugs. I am going to suggest he tell her to go to aa/na meetings. Complete a program. Together even if he really loves her. She can talk there. Let things out. Right now, for years even, she seems to have just taken it out on him.

No children together. I don’t bring up the drugs or drinking especially his. It’s a very uncomfortable subject in our family. We know she uses hard. He assume he’s self medicating with it.

From South America. She still visits yearly. She’s been here since young so no obvious accept. That skin does..and hair. But watch the right hook

Yeah, it happens. My ex was like that. Very kind and loving and you'd never expect her to be that way. After we fell in love with each other she started hitting me. So I'd just leave and she'd follow me to my car and beat on my car cause she wasn't strong enough to stop me from leaving. So my car has dents all over it now, she even broke the **** out of my windshield with her bare hands once. One time she broke my nose while I was asleep, she went through my phone while I was asleep cause I let her have my password and she saw a text from a friend who sent me a naked picture of a girl, still have the scar. Once the punching and attempted choking didn't work on me, she resorted to biting until I started bleeding. Don't miss it but besides her getting drunk and crazy I miss her even after other relationships.

That pretty much explains the entire situation then srs.

He needs to understand that people outside of the west express themselves differently than we do. Next time she does that he needs to grab her by the throat, rip her clothes off, and phuck her 100% ded srs. If his western cuck training runs deep enough, it might even feel like grape. She's not afraid to hit him right? She's not going to let him do something to her she doesn't want.

She's trying to test his alpha and just letting her abuse him like that is going to make her lose respect for him over time. It's kind of phucked up, but that's just how sloots from that kind of culture operate. If he can't handle that, he needs to move on. It will not go away. She is a weak woman, even if he has scratches on him, the amount of damage she is doing is laughable compared to what one cold cut from him would do to her.

Why haven't you called the police? That is domestic abuse and it sounds serious and long term.

Violence against men is treated like a joke or a fact of life. It is not. Call the police and report it anonymously. There are also agencies now, that are newer than the traditional feminist ones that were ok with violence against males, that treat all domestic violence seriously.

If males are not allowed to rule their household with physical striking, if society has been so cuckolded by feminism that it is ok with males getting hit and mocks it or downplays it, something unheard of in most of the history of the world, then the very least people can do is take so-called domestic violence against males seriously and report it to the authorities.

lol'd hard.

Mom loves her. They got their nails done recently and she paid even though my mother fought her on that.

I used to hang out with my sibs regularly that’s how I found out about the fights between brother and she. And how physical it got. Then I’d mainly text to keep in contact with him but he was is bad about responding to my texts or our parents father and I agreed lol.

Even though this wasn’t an advice thread as much as it was intended to vent m, I think I needed to learn more about this complicated abusive relationship stuff and there’s some very helpful opinions... facts!, and advice itt.
Not being rude by not replying to all of them right away.
I’m at my favorite food truck kitchen right now about to have the best damn jerk chicken combo and collard greens the DS has ever taste.

I should like to rep itt. I seriously never pay attention to rep counts snd ignore the rep system in general. They used to determine my success in life and impress the ladies.

My mother isn’t aware of how bad it is. Just I guess thinks “she has issues she is working through them though,” due to how he plays it off when she asks about them.


I know exactly what I’m going to do. I am going to do right now.

I seriously didn’t know it was more common snd isn’t an isolated case

Women do this chit all the time because they know men generally will not hit them back. I’ve been in similar situations. I learned you have to establish yourself as an alpha at the beginning of the relationship otherwise she will walk all over you trying to take control, pushing the limits to see what she can get away with. I feel sorry for your buddy, but he has to stand up for himself.