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post 1651536803 11-26-2021, 01:07 PM
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Help me out brothers

Just reaching out to misc bros. I'm going through a very ****ty time and need my fellow miscers to help cheer me up.

Basically getting divorced and just been isolated and keeping to myself. Stayed alone for Thanksgiving and will likely be doing the same for the rest of the holiday season.

Thanks for listening brothers,
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post 1651537003 11-26-2021, 01:11 PM
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Feels brah

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post 1651537083 11-26-2021, 01:12 PM
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Did you want to stay married, or was it time?
We all know when it is time....
There is an unspoken thing, we are iron brothers and sisters, we are to support each other and...It is our duty to support our brothers and sisters in the iron game!
post 1651537223 11-26-2021, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By x-trainer
Did you want to stay married, or was it time?
We all know when it is time....
its time. It's just painful because I have two little one. 3 and 5.shes going to have them the majority of the time so that's killing me.
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post 1651537233 11-26-2021, 01:14 PM
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**** sucks brother

Things will get better

I’m more at peace and happy during boring daily life just because of how bad things were at some points in my life. Clearing out built up damage just leaves room for having a wonderful life.
post 1651537253 11-26-2021, 01:15 PM
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Sorry to hear this fellow Miscer bruh . Your certainly not alone . My neighbours to the North of me , two families , both got separated .
And to the south of me another neighbour is recently separated

In front of my house this girl ousted her old man also . It’s like a Fuking plague man,these sloots just wanna sloot nowadays I swear .
Also , Islam was right about sloots.


To top it off , I’ve personally made two sloots Lesbos. I think it’s because of my micro though , not entirely sure
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post 1651537283 11-26-2021, 01:15 PM
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Sup boyo, I remember you and your alpha political posts.

Take whatever time you need to plan and handle that bullchit, then gymmaxx, dietmaxx, careermaxx and lifemaxx. Don't fuk up and become a fat, lazy, depressed kunt!
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post 1651537333 11-26-2021, 01:16 PM
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Hang in there brah.

As cliche as it might sound, I have been thinking about downturns differently. Not as "bad" per se, but different in a "one door closes, two more open" kind of way.

Looking back all major events however chitty at the time have greatly worked out for the better. Now I dont fear "bad" things happening, and haven't felt down or depressed over anything in years and years. Matter of fact, every so often I play over really awful scenarios in my head so hopefully nothing will surprise me.

Get after it brah, only up from here!
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post 1651537513 11-26-2021, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217⏩
its time. It's just painful because I have two little one. 3 and 5.shes going to have them the majority of the time so that's killing me.
Dad on weekends, they will be fine but just make it fun and exciting...
There is an unspoken thing, we are iron brothers and sisters, we are to support each other and...It is our duty to support our brothers and sisters in the iron game!
post 1651537533 11-26-2021, 01:19 PM
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Sorry bro, I went through it myself.

I didn't initiate it, and felt enormous guilt for a couple years about my kids not growing up in a 2 parent home.

I'm coming up on 10 years next July, everything worked out for the best. My ex-wife needed therapy and wasn't going to get it until something like this happened, and I am happier with her not in my life. My kids are well adjusted, and get close to straight A's with a B here and there. They have friends with divorced parents they can relate to and they are involved in sports and extracurriculars.

It's no fun to go through, but things will get better. Give it time.
post 1651537633 11-26-2021, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Sorry to hear this fellow Miscer bruh . Your certainly not alone . My neighbours to the North of me , two families , both got separated .
And to the south of me another neighbour is recently separated

In front of my house this girl ousted her old man also . It’s like a Fuking plague man,these sloots just wanna sloot nowadays I swear .
Also , Islam was right about sloots.


To top it off , I’ve personally made two sloots Lesbos. I think it’s because of my micro though , not entirely sure
its kind Of crazy, me and 3 other Co workers are going through the same thing. One guys been married 30 years and his wife is leaving for another guy.
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post 1651537763 11-26-2021, 01:22 PM
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Thanks men! I love you guys, no homo
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post 1651537873 11-26-2021, 01:24 PM
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Sucks not having anyone to talk to, I've been trying to reach out to people and that helps. Just don't have too many people that i can do that with
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post 1651537943 11-26-2021, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217⏩
its kind Of crazy, me and 3 other Co workers are going through the same thing. One guys been married 30 years and his wife is leaving for another guy.
The neighbours on both sides of me are in their 40’s , so probably married for over a decade .

I started thinking about this, and the neighbour behind me got divorced . Hard to comprehend when you really think about it . There was kids involved in all these marriages to unfortunately, as I really hate to see that .
Srs,it seems like sloots like to use a guy as a stepping block so they be self sufficient later on and just go back to slooting.
I don’t have to patience to take care of a child in an adult body , so never married.

I hope things work out for you . I’m sure it seems bad now, but in years to come you’ll look back and realize it was for the better
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post 1651538003 11-26-2021, 01:26 PM
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Time heals all OP. Hang in there and have a positive outlook
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post 1651538033 11-26-2021, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By tryn2change⏩
Time heals all OP. Hang in there and have a positive outlook
trying to, just want to take a permanent nap sometimes.
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post 1651538063 11-26-2021, 01:28 PM
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post 1651538253 11-26-2021, 01:32 PM
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Congrats brah


You're free

Srs.
It''ll take some time, but you're free to do whatever TF you want.
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post 1651538663 11-26-2021, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By multiplemiggs⏩
Congrats brah


You're free

Srs.
It''ll take some time, but you're free to do whatever TF you want.
thanks man, been having a mix of good and bad, I am looking forward to moving out and doing my own thing
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post 1651538713 11-26-2021, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217⏩
thanks man, been having a mix of good and bad, I am looking forward to moving out and doing my own thing
You guys are still living together?
post 1651538843 11-26-2021, 01:41 PM
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Don't wallow in self pity brah. It's gonna be tough and suck for a while, but things will get easier

Use the extra free time on becoming a strong better version of yourself and be optimistic for the future, misc is always here for you don't ever think you're alone (dedsrs)
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post 1651539193 11-26-2021, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
You guys are still living together?
yup, divorce will be final in early January. I'm closing on my new house on the 13th of December, so I'll be out soon.
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post 1651539363 11-26-2021, 01:49 PM
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Honestly still do love her but we both changed over time. Atleast she's a great mom for my kids.

Will definitely miss the sex.
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217⏩
its time. It's just painful because I have two little one. 3 and 5.shes going to have them the majority of the time so that's killing me.
Praying for you bro, really sorry to hear that.

With all things like this that feel really bad, if you stay the path and do your best, one day in the future you will look back on them as a blessing. You just have to have faith. I know that doesn't help a ton right now, but it's the truth.

For more immediate help, when I'm feeling really sad or bad or whatever, it's really helpful for me to observe those feelings in myself, observe the physical manifestations of them. When I do that and shine the light on them, they seem to just disappear.

Stay away from the drugs and alcohol, it will only make everything way worse.
post 1651540123 11-26-2021, 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted By John$Galt⏩
Praying for you bro, really sorry to hear that.

With all things like this that feel really bad, if you stay the path and do your best, one day in the future you will look back on them as a blessing. You just have to have faith. I know that doesn't help a ton right now, but it's the truth.

For more immediate help, when I'm feeling really sad or bad or whatever, it's really helpful for me to observe those feelings in myself, observe the physical manifestations of them. When I do that and shine the light on them, they seem to just disappear.

Stay away from the drugs and alcohol, it will only make everything way worse.
thanks for the kind words. This whole thing has driven me to drink way too much and spend way too much time alone. I need to straighten out.
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post 1651543663 11-26-2021, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217⏩
thanks for the kind words. This whole thing has driven me to drink way too much and spend way too much time alone. I need to straighten out.
Take it easy bro, one day at a time
Damn
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Normally I would call you a fat, bald, Manlet but I won’t. I hope things get better for you boyo. Srs

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That's tough, op. It might not feel like it right now but life will return to normal. A new normal, yes, but you can be happy again.

The stress, anxiety, and depression is real, though. Even if it just on the misc reaching out and unloading is a good thing to do.

You're gonna make it brah.
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