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post 1652686813 12-16-2021, 11:25 PM
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dating at 34 is depressing

i wish i had found somebody 7-8 years ago and at least had a kid even if marriage didn't work out.
Currently seeing some chick who i know isn't going to work out but stringing along just i don't feel lonely for a bit longer, all while suffering anxiety all the time due to said chick. Meanwhile facing so much passive pressure from parents/family to find someone and start a family. Biggest regret is not trying harder to find a decent chick at 25-28. I know misc says sloots gonna sloot, but i know people who are happy and raising a nice family. This sucks bros.
post 1652686923 12-16-2021, 11:30 PM
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You don’t know if those people are “happily” raising their families.

Nobody is happy in this life.

I had all that chit at one point, and I was miserable.

Stop being deluded.
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post 1652686963 12-16-2021, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
You don’t know if those people are “happily” raising their families.

Nobody is happy in this life.

I had all that chit at one point, and I was miserable.

Stop being deluded.
I don't know man. I would at least like to give it a chance. Going through life being lonely and miserable is no fun either.
post 1652687013 12-16-2021, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
You don’t know if those people are “happily” raising their families.

Nobody is happy in this life.

I had all that chit at one point, and I was miserable.

Stop being deluded.
This. Chit sucks all around man. Sucks with, sucks without women imo
post 1652687053 12-16-2021, 11:37 PM
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youre 34 , wtf you rambling about ???? go find a 24 or a 25 year old ... tons of fish in the sea ... youre not 55 you dumb fukcing retard
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trust my words when i tell.... having a wife/gf/kid vs not having any suck equally


you not missing on much as long as you getting your dink wet
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post 1652687083 12-16-2021, 11:37 PM
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Celltech max and get yourself a 24-27 year old yoga instructor, srs.
post 1652687093 12-16-2021, 11:38 PM
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Stop being a sad kunt
post 1652687113 12-16-2021, 11:39 PM
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Yea Iam happy being married and am glad I got all my whoring out of my system in my early 20s but man it does suck not being able to smash randoms anymore.


In the long run we all want what we can’t have, such is life.
post 1652687123 12-16-2021, 11:39 PM
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Got to be married by 27 or your life would be utter **** from then on.
post 1652687193 12-16-2021, 11:44 PM
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Don't worry op. I'm 34 and single. It's not as bad as you think.

I was in a 5 year LTR before, we met when I was 27, got engaged after 3 years, broke up before getting married. I dont consider it a failure. Much better than getting married back then and having kids and a messy divorce after.

I've been single for two years now and while dating during a pandemic can be hard, I've met plenty of girls and got a second chance at life. Got to learn about myself and take my life back. If you have a decent job, your own place, take care of yourself, you will be a catch to most women. Just have to find one you can see a long term future with.
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post 1652687263 12-16-2021, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123⏩
I don't know man. I would at least like to give it a chance. Going through life being lonely and miserable is no fun either.
You're lonely because you're just going through the motions. Find something you're passionate about. A woman will not make you unlonely if you're already lonely without one.
post 1652688193 12-17-2021, 12:30 AM
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Same bro. Im 29 now it’s over for me.

I wanted to be a young dad

Now i wont find someone till my 30’s and all the woman are used and damaged.

If you dont find someone at 23-26 you ****in failed
post 1652688253 12-17-2021, 12:32 AM
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tonight i made a 23 year old wear a remote control vibrator on a tinder date and smashed in my truck after

I'm 32 in a few weeks, prime girls want to **** you if you don't look like ****
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post 1652688543 12-17-2021, 12:43 AM
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Made a thread about this the other day but the misc never learns


https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...23&pagenumber=
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post 1652688753 12-17-2021, 12:53 AM
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Well how old do you look? If you look young there's no problem lol just don't tell ur real age an get young 20 somethings.


Also L M F A O if you think people who are married these days are all happy, this isn't the 50's anymore *******
post 1652688903 12-17-2021, 01:00 AM
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Instead of being sad make something good out of it. 30s is the best time for a man to be single.

All my friends are married and miserable. Some are divorced, losing more than half their paycheck to alimony and child support. They envy my life of being able to change out women every other month with no responsibilities. I get to enjoy all the banging, none of the nagging.

As a single guy, my value only goes up. Women on the other hand, their value only goes down as they age. I know guys in their 40s that are just now starting a family with females half their age. Yeah, it's great to be a young dad and keep up with their energy but I'd rather provide financial stability to my child, setting up a legacy for them and all my future generations to be successful. If I had kids young, I doubt I would be where I am today.
post 1652688913 12-17-2021, 01:00 AM
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post 1652688953 12-17-2021, 01:04 AM
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If your happiness depends on having a woman you've already failed at life no matter what age you are fukin SRS

They are meant to be a compliment to your life not the goal.

Being single is fukin awesome srs.

brb do whatever the fuk you want
brb fuk whoever you want
brb talk to whoever you want
brb go wherever you want, whenever you want
brb no sloot mindgames and headaches driving you nuts
brb no fear of losing half your chit if she wakes up and suddenly hates you
brb all the money you earn goes to you or family
brb my friends have curfews and schedules determined by gf/wife
brb my friends' gfs/wives budget their money (just lol)
brb I'm an uncle so I get all the benefits of having a kid without any of the responsibility

Feelsgoodman. The only reason to be really depressed over not having a woman is if you really wanted kids. However, seeing the stories of dudes that get divorce raped, I'd rather not have kids at all than go through that chit
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post 1652689083 12-17-2021, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
Nobody is happy in this life.
Speak for yourself.

We get it, you're miserable. That doesn't mean we all have to be a sad kunt like you.
Originally Posted By Smithers115⏩
tonight i made a 23 year old wear a remote control vibrator on a tinder date and smashed in my truck after

I'm 32 in a few weeks, prime girls want to **** you if you don't look like ****
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post 1652689243 12-17-2021, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
Made a thread about this the other day but the misc never learns


https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...23&pagenumber=
But I love MILFs? I'm ok with this.

Also just lol when you live in America and can't legally whoremaxx if you can't pull girls anymore.

Also I take your image from that thread and raise you:

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post 1652689283 12-17-2021, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By FilsGoodMan⏩
But I love MILFs? I'm ok with this.

Also just lol when you live in America and can't legally whoremaxx if you can't pull girls anymore.

Also I take your image from that thread and raise you:

hahahahahahahahaahha
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post 1652689633 12-17-2021, 01:49 AM
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Married 17 yrs & I’m happy
Srs
Unless your woman has a heart for God, & you as well..it’s going to be very difficult
post 1652689693 12-17-2021, 01:58 AM
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Grass is always greener son
post 1652689773 12-17-2021, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Speak for yourself.

We get it, you're miserable. That doesn't mean we all have to be a sad kunt like you.
Says the coper incel.

Don't think because you ghosted then reappeared makes you different then before.

Every day from you was some cringe thread about being a autist trying to learn how to talk to people.
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post 1652689823 12-17-2021, 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
"6'4 Crew"
this chick is 5'10 so it kinda helps

my ex is dating a dude whos maybe 5'8, IIRC she was 5'6 and he's barely taller than her in their pics so its not like its over for normal dudes

If you're 5'3... Well I dunno what to say chief
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post 1652689843 12-17-2021, 02:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Smithers115⏩
this chick is 5'10 so it kinda helps

my ex is dating a dude whos maybe 5'8, IIRC she was 5'6 and he's barely taller than her in their pics so its not like its over for normal dudes

If you're 5'3... Well I dunno what to say chief
Friend of mine is dating a russian chick and he is 5"2
,shes 5"5.

Now he has a good job..not that fancy,but farely good his own apartment....and 3 years later...she is his fiance... she started working "something with make up" and is clocking around 7k$ a month..so yesh..theres definitley a chance for manlets
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post 1652689993 12-17-2021, 02:20 AM
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Fooking misc I swear. It doesn't matter if you're 34 and a manlet. You'll get someone srs. Just put yourself out there on tinder etc there's heaps of girls looking for someone to feel like taking care of them srs. Also, cheap rub n tugs in the meantime, gym sessions all the time helps lots. Place yourself in a predominantly female job like retail, bars, restaurants, medical etc easy peasy. I'm a manlet and 34, I've always got milfs trying to hook up and flirting and then trying to get me to phuk their daughters srs it's like a fetish for them to root me through their daughters srs also they love grabbing my arms, my gf is heaps taller than me, no phuks given at all. I just call her giraffe no hate. You guys can do it. You all have the potential srs just need to not even believe in yourself but realize the truth that girls always want someone to take care of em.
post 1652690083 12-17-2021, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩
Friend of mine is dating a russian chick and he is 5"2
,shes 5"5.

Now he has a good job..not that fancy,but farely good his own apartment....and 3 years later...she is his fiance... she started working "something with make up" and is clocking around 7k$ a month..so yesh..theres definitley a chance for manlets
there are some short slayers for sure

one of the most coveted dudes in my highschool was like 5'3 lol, apparently his dick was like a little grape too

Not sure why girls wanted him tbh, the power of arbitrary social status
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post 1652690293 12-17-2021, 02:37 AM
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I do not think many feel "happy" in marriage.

It is a battle because of how much worse the alternative looks, which only so many grasp when they subscribe to marriage. The marriages probably mostly stay together for external reasons like children.

Very few really internalize the alternatives and view marriage as a project in a sea of tragedy.
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