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post 1653343913 12-28-2021, 06:43 PM
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Do you consider a girl not banging on the first date a dealbreaker?

Cliffs:
-op goes on date w/ girl (cute 20 y/o)
-end up in my car near her place (she lives w/ parents)
-making out, says she’s using every ounce of willpower to not fk me right there and is trying to be a good girl
-get out of car and kiss her good night—op casually asks if she usually does that or not
-she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past

Probably gonna let her know this isn’t gonna work, that comment didn’t sit well with me at all brahs. What do you think?
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post 1653344033 12-28-2021, 06:45 PM
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post 1653344093 12-28-2021, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
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ok but title question still applies?
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post 1653344203 12-28-2021, 06:48 PM
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post 1653344253 12-28-2021, 06:49 PM
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post 1653344423 12-28-2021, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
ok but title question still applies?
Why would it be?

You’d be missing out on tons of women if you have that mentality
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post 1653344503 12-28-2021, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
Why would it be?

You’d be missing out on tons of women if you have that mentality
This, you would never get laid. You do know sex on the first date is a chad privilege?
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post 1653344513 12-28-2021, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
ok but title question still applies?
You fuked up. You could've easily banged her if you weren't such an incel.

Lemme give you one line you can use so you never fail again (although u were being a lil negging ****git in my other thread. I'm a generous man).

"We're not gonna fk tonight. Let me just taste that poosy."

-> Proceed to pull down her pants and eat that poosy, and she'll wanna fuk 100% of the time afterward.
post 1653344533 12-28-2021, 06:56 PM
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she's been pumped and dumped, give her till the 3rd date max if you really like her and if you're not banging by then

dump it
post 1653344673 12-28-2021, 06:59 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
Cliffs:
-op goes on date w/ girl (cute 20 y/o)
-end up in my car near her place (she lives w/ parents)
-making out, says she’s using every ounce of willpower to not fk me right there and is trying to be a good girl
-get out of car and kiss her good night—op casually asks if she usually does that or not
-she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past

Probably gonna let her know this isn’t gonna work, that comment didn’t sit well with me at all brahs. What do you think?
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post 1653344693 12-28-2021, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Gaedj⏩
You fuked up. You could've easily banged her if you weren't such an incel.

Lemme give you one line you can use so you never fail again (although u were being a lil negging ****git in my other thread. I'm a generous man).

"We're not gonna fk tonight. Let me just taste that poosy."

-> Proceed to pull down her pants and eat that poosy, and she'll wanna fuk 100% of the time afterward.
lmfao make sure this chit is 100% consensual don’t catch a rape charge op

i can imagine w very poor execution things go very bad very quickly
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post 1653344703 12-28-2021, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
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i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem
Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
Why would it be?

You’d be missing out on tons of women if you have that mentality
thats ok those aren’t the women I’m looking for boyo
Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
This, you would never get laid. You do know sex on the first date is a chad privilege?
this is the first time Ihaven’tbanged on a first date in like 8 years
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she's been pumped and dumped, give her till the 3rd date max if you really like her and if you're not banging by then

dump it
yeah I’m thinking tours over, not gonna waste both our time
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post 1653345023 12-28-2021, 07:10 PM
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No, but if she doesn't put out by the third, I'll sleep with other women on the side.
post 1653345853 12-28-2021, 07:29 PM
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If a girl tells me she doesn't have sex on the first date I ask her "Do you have sex on the last date?"

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post 1653345973 12-28-2021, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem
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post 1653346063 12-28-2021, 07:36 PM
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She's either a whore playing hard to get or wife material

Either way you seem interested in sex only so dump her and go buy a hooker
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post 1653346313 12-28-2021, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
you are wise brother
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She's either a whore playing hard to get or wife material

Either way you seem interested in sex only so dump her and go buy a hooker
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I was just interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.
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post 1653346433 12-28-2021, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
Cliffs:
-op goes on date w/ girl (cute 20 y/o)
-end up in my car near her place (she lives w/ parents)
-making out, says she’s using every ounce of willpower to not fk me right there and is trying to be a good girl
-get out of car and kiss her good night—op casually asks if she usually does that or not
-she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past

Probably gonna let her know this isn’t gonna work, that comment didn’t sit well with me at all brahs. What do you think?
I literally just did this same thing. I had her come over the 2nd date, fukked her. Then she messaged me a couple days later and asked what we were. I said nothing jfc it’s been 2 dates. She went nuts on me. But moral of the story that first time fingered her, didn’t let me bang, told me she had ONS(s) before totally ruined it for me
post 1653346553 12-28-2021, 07:48 PM
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If I'm interested I usually go in for a kiss after the first date and see where that goes.
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post 1653346723 12-28-2021, 07:51 PM
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she's trash OP

fuks chads on first dates in the past
but wont fuk you
lmao

bang her on the 2nd date but dont actually date her
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post 1653346873 12-28-2021, 07:54 PM
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i can tell if she's done it before though

if she's an actual decent girl then no.

but if she's fuked someone else on the first date or night or whatever i'd be pissed. that type of girl will be much more loose whereas the other will be reserved
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Should’ve told her that a good girl would’ve had your D in her mouth a long time ago
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LOL at all the mental gymnastics
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Originally Posted By Kay4Kool⏩
LOL at all the mental gymnastics
no mental gymnastics here brah. Either due to logistics or simply not enough attraction it didn’t happen. On the drive home I realized it was probably over srs.
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post 1653348833 12-28-2021, 08:47 PM
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Been awhile since I was single but from what I remember not a dealbreaker. Most women I smashed first night we met (not a date) but that isn't always even a possibility, so I'd say if cute, 2 dates. For a smokeshow you can wait 3 dates.

Regardless the real lesson here OP is not to ask a woman that question ever again.
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
no mental gymnastics here brah. Either due to logistics or simply not enough attraction it didn’t happen. On the drive home I realized it was probably over srs.
your words:
"i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem"

her words:
she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past

So she can't change her mind or her actions and learn from her past? If she gave it up once on the first date she's confined to doing that for the rest of her life?

Your words:
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I wasjust interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.

This is what I meant by your mental gymnastics. You want a whore and a good girl at the same time.
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only girls I banged on the first date were turbosloots
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Only on the misc:

Girl is a whore bc she has multiple partners

Girl doesn’t put out on first date, better dump her

I wonder why some of you are forever alone?
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with other guys she'll fuk on the first date but with you, no? fuk her OP. she saw a future in you and thought by holding out it'd look like she is a good in reality she is not.
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Are you want to date this girl or just fck?

A girl wanting to be fckd on the first date is more of a dealbreaker
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