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post 1653466373 12-30-2021, 07:26 PM
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What steps can you take to prevent spouse from cheating (Srs)

With women's rights and infidelity at an all time high, it seems cheating has become the norm in relationships and marriage (see: Steph Curry, Will Smith, Kanye West). What are legitimate steps to prevent spousal cheating? Our friends in the middle east seem to have the right idea with the hijabs....
post 1653466503 12-30-2021, 07:28 PM
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Perfectly done prenup to not give her incentive to destroy the marriage.
post 1653467043 12-30-2021, 07:40 PM
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The only thing you can do is pick a good spouse. Even that is not foolproof.
The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
post 1653467083 12-30-2021, 07:41 PM
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Cheating is way more prevalent now than 50+ years ago because men do not place value on women having self respect and class. They worship the instagram whores and have no problem engaging in long term relationships with them, and even marrying them. Back in the day, as my mom said, there were girls who were marrying material and girls who were there to have fun with. The latter didn't get quality husbands and some got no husband.

Once women fall into sleeping around a lot, they want to keep doing it, even after marriage.
post 1653467103 12-30-2021, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
The only thing you can do is pick a good spouse. Even that is not foolproof.
Yep. Be with someone who you're friends with. Too many people base their relationships solely on looks.
post 1653467203 12-30-2021, 07:43 PM
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post 1653467403 12-30-2021, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Torrr⏩
Perfectly done prenup to not give her incentive to destroy the marriage.
Or even better have a wife that contributes at least as much to the marriage as you do
post 1653467553 12-30-2021, 07:51 PM
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Be the alpha in every group and watch cellphone use.

Doesn’t matter if you trust em or not, women have child like mentalities.
post 1653467783 12-30-2021, 07:58 PM
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Marry a woman with no kids and who has never been married before or don’t marry at all.
post 1653467873 12-30-2021, 08:00 PM
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step 1, don't get a spouse
post 1653468193 12-30-2021, 08:08 PM
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Lock that whore in chastity and hold the only key. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1653468393 12-30-2021, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By serve99⏩
With women's rights and infidelity at an all time high, it seems cheating has become the norm in relationships and marriage (see: Steph Curry, Will Smith, Kanye West). What are legitimate steps to prevent spousal cheating? Our friends in the middle east seem to have the right idea with the hijabs....
I read in this in a Ron Burgundy voice
post 1653468463 12-30-2021, 08:17 PM
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Put your finger in your butt and stick it in her mouth….



If she spits it’s out….

She’s cheating.
This body holding me, be my reminder here that I am not alone.
Makes me feel eternal, all this Pain is an Illusion.
post 1653468583 12-30-2021, 08:21 PM
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Marry the right woman for the right reasons and be her man every day.
post 1653468683 12-30-2021, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By redmelly⏩
Once women fall into sleeping around a lot, they want to keep doing it, even after marriage.
sad truth.
post 1653468763 12-30-2021, 08:24 PM
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It’s only your turn boyos
post 1653468943 12-30-2021, 08:30 PM
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Pre-selection - limited social media involvement. Family oriented. Parents still together. Siblings and/friends in the same life stage of getting ready for kids. Bodycount <5. Shared interests.

Education - weaponization of feminism, assault on the family, race realism, degenerate media.. you two should be on the same page in regards to these.

Lifestyle - SAHM in the same community as her friends/family (who also have kids). Her going to work irl is risky.. brb being on her best behavior around men who may earn more than you = sloot instincts kick up.
post 1653469463 12-30-2021, 08:42 PM
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Eat her ass
post 1653469743 12-30-2021, 08:49 PM
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Don’t marry a sloot.
post 1653469853 12-30-2021, 08:51 PM
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You can't. If she has access to the internet and can read you're chit outta luck unless you move to a remote village in the mountains.

Alternative is embrace it and "cheat" with her/open relationship.

SRS
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post 1653469883 12-30-2021, 08:52 PM
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Note the chain and black eye- may only apply to LTC...

post 1653470223 12-30-2021, 09:01 PM
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Have alternate accounts and follow ur misses without following with your personal account.

Check the comments and who "likes" the most.

If things get suspicious. Hire a P.I to track her movents
post 1653470233 12-30-2021, 09:02 PM
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dont date a girl who was brought up in jew-merica. if you do make sure she's Christian and of good character. otherwise you are just wasting your time with some roastie
also

post 1653470863 12-30-2021, 09:16 PM
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Lock her up in the house.
post 1653470903 12-30-2021, 09:16 PM
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There's nothing that you can do about it - i guess you can try and find an independent type women who don't actually need a man
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post 1653471023 12-30-2021, 09:19 PM
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Marry someone you actually respect and be involved in their lives so they don't become negatively influenced from outside forces

Oh wait that's just what everyone should do by default
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_decline
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Societal_collapse#By_absorption
post 1653471403 12-30-2021, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By DrumsNotDead⏩
step 1, don't get a spouse
this
Cope first, cope hard, no realtea
post 1653471473 12-30-2021, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Or even better have a wife that contributes at least as much to the marriage as you do
That’s like begging for her to cheat on you lol. Brb wife spending 50% of the day working for another man, hanging out with other men etc, then the time she’s with you she’s stressed af about the job anyway. If you are that scared about losing money on the divorce, then simply don’t get married man.

I know you think you are wise for saying that, but I see it as weakness. It’s not masculine to want your woman to be responsible for 50% of the family’s financial needs. That feminist mentality is why right now society is so fuked up to begin with.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1653471523 12-30-2021, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
That’s like begging for her to cheat on you lol. Brb wife spending 50% of the day working for another man, hanging out with other men etc, then the time she’s with you she’s stressed af about the job anyway. If you are that scared about losing money on the divorce, then simply don’t get married man.

I know you think you are wise for saying that, but I see it as weakness. It’s not masculine to want your woman to be responsible for 50% of the family’s financial needs. That feminist mentality is why right now society is so fuked up to begin with.
KEN-0's

Reason for cheating. Because "Looks"
post 1653471793 12-30-2021, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
That’s like begging for her to cheat on you lol. Brb wife spending 50% of the day working for another man, hanging out with other men etc, then the time she’s with you she’s stressed af about the job anyway. If you are that scared about losing money on the divorce, then simply don’t get married man.

I know you think you are wise for saying that, but I see it as weakness. It’s not masculine to want your woman to be responsible for 50% of the family’s financial needs. That feminist mentality is why right now society is so fuked up to begin with.
True. It's hard to cheat if you don't meet many men. If she's at home, her options are limited. Plumber? Lawn guy? Work is ideal for meeting people to cheat with. Women entering the workforce in the early 70's...

- Suddenly women realized they could support themselves financially. This made divorce a possibility.
- They stopped being full time mothers and handed the kids off to a babysitter and created what they called "latchkey" kids, coming home after school to an empty house for a few hours.
- They also lowered wages for men by working jobs for less money, reducing the pay of those jobs for men as well. This in turn made two incomes necessary in a lot of cases.
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