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Forum ยป I always thought my problem was my social skills
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post 1653970703 01-08-2022, 04:49 PM
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I always thought my problem was my social skills

I was wrong. The problem is my face. I have a twin brother that is good looking and girls always come up and just start talking to him. When he talks to a girl their eyes just light up. When I talk to a girl I can tell they are just trying to end the conversation.
post 1653970733 01-08-2022, 04:50 PM
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You just have to grow taller and be less ugly

With that attitude you certainly won't
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post 1653970763 01-08-2022, 04:51 PM
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Could be both, or it could be your personality/character and style


assuming SRS, ask your twin brother for honest tips
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post 1653970783 01-08-2022, 04:52 PM
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If you got the right attitude and personality it doesn't matter what you look like.

For real, just go with the Boomhauer technique:

post 1653970983 01-08-2022, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By plebmaximus⏩
Could be both, or it could be your personality/character and style


assuming SRS, ask your twin brother for honest tips
I got my tooth ****ed up when I was a kid playing kickball and as a result my jaw is now deformed. Wish I could go back in time and never play kickball
post 1653971073 01-08-2022, 04:57 PM
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It's a positive feedback loop. More attractive - people more receptive of you - have more positive social interactions - reinforced positive self image from others' acceptance - develop positive social skills -gain confidence - become more outgoing - have more positive social interactions....

The inverse is true for ugly people. The only way to break the cycle is to truly not give a single fuk
post 1653972473 01-08-2022, 05:16 PM
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The hard truth is that it certainly plays a factor, would you be happy to be talking to an ugly fat chick? Or would you be ecstatic to be interacting with Stacy? Looks will always matter but if you don't have them you have to make up for it in other areas like humor.
post 1653974073 01-08-2022, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By SevenFigures⏩
I got my tooth ****ed up when I was a kid playing kickball and as a result my jaw is now deformed. Wish I could go back in time and never play kickball
see a dentist/surgeon, sounds like a fixable problem to me
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