Is actually dating the only way to get hot girls?

Hookup culture makes it seem like if your a Chad you can just go to a bar and take home stacies but i can only hookup with 5s and 6s maybe a 7 on a good night and even that takes a ton of jester maxing. And buying them drinks and making sure everything goes perfect. The only times I’ve been able to bang real hot women like 9s or 10s is by dating them it’s starting to see like that is the better option