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post 1657079173 02-28-2022, 03:09 PM
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Learned I am too old to go to clubs now

I went to the club one night for my bachelor's party this weekend and went to a nice edm / hip hop club and had easily the bed body there, everyone was skinny twinks or overweight dudes, ive always gone out with success but havnt gone out since covid started(not because of covid just a timeframe) and before I ALWAYS had tons of attention and could dance with any girl and they would love it.

But 33 + bald = too old for clubs. No more cope, these young girls do not like it at clubs.

It was a good time to know I am too old now to be chasing women though and made the right choice settling down.


TLDR mid 30s is too old to be chasing women unless you look young af in the face.
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post 1657079293 02-28-2022, 03:11 PM
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Maybe you're just too bald
post 1657079343 02-28-2022, 03:12 PM
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post 1657079363 02-28-2022, 03:12 PM
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post 1657079493 02-28-2022, 03:14 PM
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perhaps your bf is too high - did you even think of that Jack?
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post 1657079633 02-28-2022, 03:17 PM
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post 1657079663 02-28-2022, 03:17 PM
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You’re getting married? Congrats

You’re right you’re too old if the chicks aren’t swarming. Then again every scene gets dull after you’ve been there done it.
post 1657079943 02-28-2022, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
now that we have grown up, we realize just how cringy and juvenile that crap is. nobody over the age of 25 cares that you have ripped muscles. all that matters is money/social status/career success.
The hell it does.

Women are attracted to dominance... financial dominance/mogging is a part of it as you get older, but looking like you're able to physically beat the chit out of someone never goes out of style. Francis Ngannou could be living on food stamps and he wouldn't be single.
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post 1657080013 02-28-2022, 03:22 PM
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You're bald?
post 1657080093 02-28-2022, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
it was always like this. it's just that we have gotten older and matured. i remember being 16 years old and watching those ****gy vids of Zyzz dancing at festivals thinking that was the peak of life, fantasizing about getting jacked and watching everybody "mirin".

now that we have grown up, we realize just how cringy and juvenile that crap is. nobody over the age of 25 cares that you have ripped muscles. all that matters is money/social status/career success.
Yeah i agree nobody over 25 cares. Once you get older it shifts to family and career. Idk anyone my age that lifts and i'm 33 too like OP
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post 1657080113 02-28-2022, 03:24 PM
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post 1657080183 02-28-2022, 03:25 PM
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clubs are trashy af anyway
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post 1657080413 02-28-2022, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
it was always like this. it's just that we have gotten older and matured. i remember being 16 years old and watching those ****gy vids of Zyzz dancing at festivals thinking that was the peak of life, fantasizing about getting jacked and watching everybody "mirin".

now that we have grown up, we realize just how cringy and juvenile that crap is. nobody over the age of 25 cares that you have ripped muscles. all that matters is money/social status/career success.
You are a fukking retard. You literally interpreted the opposite of what I said.

first off I am talking about clubs, not the normal world outside of clubs.

2nd , its the young girls who dont give as much of a **** about muscle, girls 25+ start to love it, and girls who take care of their body in the gym also love it. But hoes at clubs who are 21 and just drink alcohol and think its the coolest thing in the world, dont.
Originally Posted By AWillis
perhaps your bf is too high - did you even think of that Jack?
no my bf right now is single digit, I am actually quite lean right now.

Also misc doesnt realize I dont look stupid big in normal clothes/no pump etc... I just look very atheltic and jacked. I know guys who look like big lumps of beef and waddle when they walk, that isnt me. I just look like a big dude.
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post 1657080823 02-28-2022, 03:41 PM
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You're bald?

If I go "out" now it's a nice dinner, lounges, and speakeasies nowadays.

Check out Devil May Care. You may like it OP. Also Dumont's Downlow is a favorite spot of mine.
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post 1657081023 02-28-2022, 03:44 PM
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post 1657081043 02-28-2022, 03:44 PM
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TL;DR you're not too old, just too poor. Try being rich instead.
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post 1657081093 02-28-2022, 03:45 PM
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coping is hard.
post 1657081163 02-28-2022, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
you are clueless boyo. older women strongly prefer men who are wealthy and successful. younger women are more immature and place a higher value on chit like aesthetics.

OP you should find a club for older folks. just LOL @ going to a place filled with 20 year olds.
Nah uhhh. How would you know Donnycel
post 1657081243 02-28-2022, 03:48 PM
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So you had one bad night and decided it was because you are too old for clubs and not attractive to women anymore lol, so settling down=good idea.

Seems like you want to convince yourself of that one brah.
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post 1657081303 02-28-2022, 03:48 PM
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Maybe try ghey clubs? You could pickup a bunch of twinks.
post 1657081313 02-28-2022, 03:48 PM
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But I thought misc said brahs in their 30s should be swimming in prime poon?
post 1657081533 02-28-2022, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892
But I thought misc said brahs in their 30s should be swimming in prime poon?
Good looking, rich, fit brahs in their 30s should be swimming in prime poon, that i agree with. Average or just above average 30+ year old dudes? lol good luck
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post 1657081583 02-28-2022, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
I went to the club one night for my bachelor's party this weekend and went to a nice edm / hip hop club and had easily the bed body there, everyone was skinny twinks or overweight dudes, ive always gone out with success but havnt gone out since covid started(not because of covid just a timeframe) and before I ALWAYS had tons of attention and could dance with any girl and they would love it.

But 33 + bald = too old for clubs. No more cope, these young girls do not like it at clubs.

It was a good time to know I am too old now to be chasing women though and made the right choice settling down.


TLDR mid 30s is too old to be chasing women unless you look young af in the face.
It’s cos you’re bald op. If you’re fat or bald or have pooor skin, you’re gonna look old at 33.

If not, you will easily fit in. Reminder that Jon Snow was 32 when all the girls were gushing over him in GOT.

Last I went to the club was pre-covid at 34. Was chatting to a girl and I said I’m 34, she automatically hears 24.
post 1657081593 02-28-2022, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
bald
could have just lead with this

when you're bald or balding, being jacked just makes it worse srs
post 1657081683 02-28-2022, 03:53 PM
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mega YIKES.

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can't match with high class sloots for the life of me though. feelsbadman.
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post 1657081743 02-28-2022, 03:55 PM
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Chasing women =/= going to clubs



Clubs lose their appeal by late 20s assuming you aren't completely braindead. Surrounded by idiots, loud music, annoying setting, overpriced drinks, etc. Fun 18-25. After that it's embarassing to regularly go.


So yea you cant pick up chicks at clubs at 33. But you arent trying to pick up chicks at playgrounds either. Got to go after women closer to your demographic (25-30) and the things they do for maximum success
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You’re as old as your hairline. Bald is game over.
post 1657081913 02-28-2022, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
So you had one bad night and decided it was because you are too old for clubs and not attractive to women anymore lol, so settling down=good idea.

Seems like you want to convince yourself of that one brah.
This, lmao. 1 bad day = it's all over.

All that test running through your veins and you got such a defeatist mindset op. Girls can sense when a dude is uncomfortable and awkward in his own skin.

You would be mind blown how much girls I see here in the club dancing and having a great time with non lifting baldcels. I was just scrolling through socials and saw my 9.5/10 HBB acquaintance who went my gym. Thought she would end up with some tall zyzz looking Chad like TypeNirvash or something. I had good looking tall friends who lifted, and rich buddies with hairlines up to their eyebrows shoot their shot and all got turned down.

She ended up with a skinnyfat nerd looking baldcel with a big nose. He didn't even shave his head clean it was like a 1 but his hairline went back to his fuking crown. I was completely mind blown. And she's like 26 or something. Dude clearly seems confident in himself though I'll give him that.
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When you're early 20's, 30+ seems old af. I remember seeing guys and girls in their 30's at clubs and just cringing at how out of place they looked and how I never wanted to be that guy at that age.
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Originally Posted By sword_
You're bald?

If I go "out" now it's a nice dinner, lounges, and speakeasies nowadays.

Check out Devil May Care. You may like it OP. Also Dumont's Downlow is a favorite spot of mine.
This was Dallas. Lol I swear I have seen you before at Devil May Care. I saw a dude and I just had this feeling it was you. I was a mess that night though took a lil sumsum that made me very sick all night.
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