Have any miscers married a girl so that she would be their sugar momma?

I just got divorced and have started seeing this woman that makes around 500k/yr and is planning to retire next year. I do ok but make about a 1/3 of this. She’s cool but not someone I would normally go for.

I would plan to marry her and be a stay at home husband but I’ve heard those guys turn into poosies.

Any experience with this?

Go for it

I had an opportunity to do so but I refused.

It wouldn't be fair to me to fake love with someone for their money.

I have a couple good friends who did this. Basically one guy is semi autistic and is good socially but he can't hold down a decent job. He found a girl who is also weird and has personality issues and comes from a wealthy family, and they are married. But each person will travel for long periods without the other, and I don't get the feeling that they get along very well. She is a nightmare to deal with at times.

Another friend has always dated girls whose parents come from wealth. He is actually making good money now as a director of a tech fir,, but it took a big commitment from him to stop being such bum.

For me, I see it as largely a negative. It's not that I would disqualify a girl for having money or coming from money, but my family is wealthy and I also make very good money, so I just don't see the need to introduce that type of additional stress into my life.

If she makes enough to support you staying at home then go for it. You always hold the threat of divorce over her head and she has to pay you alimony. The courts wont hook you up the same way they do women but you can still milk it and they will throw you something.

the purpose of acquiring money is freedom. marrying someone, especially someone you don't love, is not freedom but slavery and a prison.

if the sugar mama thing doesnt work you can downgrade your expectations to Only fans. Then, after you hit the wall like everyone else you'll be back to wondering who you can pay to look at your dink. I ended up giving up on the idea of a sugar baby because of a string of terrible sex. why pay for garbage. so now it's dogs and dildos. Once you get to that point you will then become one of us.

terrible sex? it takes two to tango. maybe you're not as good as you think you are?

i should have done this when i was in my 20s. I used to be a broker, did a loan for this cute chubby chick. she came from money and had a high paying job. put like 200k down on this place, big beautiful home in Fort Lauderdale. She came after me, we hung out several times and hooked up. I really liked her and we had a lot in common but i didnt "feel" it at the time. there was some other dumb chick i knew from college i was talking to that never paned out. now that im old i realize that "feel" bs last for about a year and then its irrelevant. I make good money so its all good but if i had a partner who also made a chit load and had millions in inheritance well it would be pretty fooking nice. lol

nailed it

I can't imagine marrying somebody who i couldn't connect to on any level and don't even particularly like for any amount of money

You gotta marry for love, but it can be hard to discern people's intentions when you are super rich.

This is why rich people are more likely to divorce, because putting materialism over love is a self-destructive move.

If you really love each other, then go for it, but don't get married for money if you want to be happy.

Honestly I am going to work until I die even if I had all the money in the world because there is a lot of chit I want to accomplish in life beyond just money.

There is also a spot in DC called Shrimp Boat that you gotta check out, I used to live in the DC metro East of the Anacostia and this place is seriously slept on.