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post 1661070313 05-10-2022, 04:18 PM
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ex sent me a "last message"

So... I'm at the airport. I was driving here when I got a notification. I checked it as soon as I parked and it was her.

It is in Portuguese, so I'm going to translate it:
Hey! By the time you are reading this, it is probably too late for me to tell you this face to face. In fact, it is probably better this way.

First of all, you made your own decision and have to accept it. I understand your motivations and I know that you wanted this to work out as much as I did.

I'm writing this because I would not forgive myself if everything ended just like that after the conversation we had yesterday. I need to give it a proper ending to be in peace with myself. In fact, I wanted to do it yesterday, when I went to your house to grab my stuff, but you were not there.

I want you to know that I am sorry for what happened yesterday, I didn't really mean to react like that. I think you know why I did, so, I will not explain it again. Just want you to know that I don't feel any of us are to blame for what happened, just the circumstances. I hope you feel this way too.

I would never ask you to keep in contact because I know it is more than your sense o proud will ever allow (I respect that), so, I'm just sending this last message to let you know that I really enjoyed the time we spent together and that I wish you all the best.


You do not need to answer back. Probably one day we can talk about what happened, when you come back.

I am sorry it had to be like this.
Wut du?






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post 1661070583 05-10-2022, 04:23 PM
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go NC
post 1661070633 05-10-2022, 04:24 PM
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Forgot how long you said you were together in the other thread but I would just respond with “perfect, let’s reschedule”.




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post 1661070753 05-10-2022, 04:26 PM
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North Carolina is pretty nice right about this time
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post 1661070843 05-10-2022, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By MrQuint
Forgot how long you said you were together in the other thread but I would just respond with “perfect, let’s reschedule”.




Not srs
8 months
post 1661070923 05-10-2022, 04:28 PM
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Did not read srs
Losers let it happen, winners make it happen.

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post 1661070983 05-10-2022, 04:29 PM
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Just say "alright, God bless"
post 1661071023 05-10-2022, 04:29 PM
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"New phone. Who dis?"
post 1661071093 05-10-2022, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Nonsense916
Did not read srs
Gonna send her that. LOL!































jk.

Originally Posted By tripod29
"New phone. Who dis?"
LOOL!


I thought about letting one of my female coworkers answer her tomorrow (voice message). They would definitely do it just to mess round.

But not a good idea.
post 1661071113 05-10-2022, 04:30 PM
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Don't respond at all. Nothing to gain.

Let her mind run wild.

She'll circle back again.

In the meantime, get as much poon as possible wherever you are going.

Oh, and even if she does circle back, don't get involved with her again, she's crazy....and it sounds like you are also.
post 1661071213 05-10-2022, 04:32 PM
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Don't reply and move with your life.

Also sort your issues out....lol at wanting to beat the **** out of a girl "until she stops or is passed out" because she's shouting at you.

You got some serious problems kid.
There is but one path....we kill them all.
post 1661071233 05-10-2022, 04:32 PM
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What is “OK” in portugeezer?

Send in 24 hours (not before)
post 1661071263 05-10-2022, 04:33 PM
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can we get a cliffs?

U been dating for 8 months, you're leaving for 6 months for work and she threw a fit the day before you were to leave and you guys broke up on the spot?
Great MAGA King status

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post 1661071313 05-10-2022, 04:34 PM
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Guarantee you she's been talking to another guy behind your back and probably banging him too

Women are only as loyal as their options
post 1661071323 05-10-2022, 04:34 PM
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That’s it, I’m done. **** this chat. It’s devolved into a mass of retarded copy pastes and face spam. The quality of these convos has been declining for a while, but this is the last straw. That’s it. I’m done. I’m uninstalling the internet, chopping off my dick and moving to ****ing Antarctica, at least the bacteria there will be ****ing smarter discourse
post 1661071363 05-10-2022, 04:35 PM
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post 1661071373 05-10-2022, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88
Don't reply and move with your life.

Also sort your issues out....lol at wanting to beat the **** out of a girl "until she stops or is passed out" because she's shouting at you.

You got some serious problems kid.
Not gonna explain again the difference between instincts and "wanting" or even insticts and "thoughts".
Originally Posted By Smithers115
can we get a cliffs?

U been dating for 8 months, you're leaving for 6 months for work and she threw a fit the day before you were to leave and you guys broke up on the spot?
Met her a year and a half ago, started dating her 8 months ago.

Got a new job (other country) about 6 months ago (she said she was fine with it). Moved to Thessaloniki, Greece and worked for 3 months. Got back a couple weeks ago (vacations).

Everything went perfect till she got mad. It all happened Sunday and Yesterday.

Got out, worked out...lurked around a little big... thought about life and agreed to talk to her about what happened at a local bar.

Conversation lasted around 3-5 minutes and we ended up.
post 1661071383 05-10-2022, 04:35 PM
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post 1661071393 05-10-2022, 04:36 PM
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Aren't you a pilot? Ask ATC Jawdawg for landing clearance at CLT, runway 18L

post 1661071583 05-10-2022, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By EasyPassive
That’s it, I’m done. **** this chat. It’s devolved into a mass of retarded copy pastes and face spam. The quality of these convos has been declining for a while, but this is the last straw. That’s it. I’m done. I’m uninstalling the internet, chopping off my dick and moving to ****ing Antarctica, at least the bacteria there will be ****ing smarter discourse
Please do it and post it here.
Originally Posted By BrianDaMan
Aren't you a pilot? Ask ATC Jawdawg for landing clearance at CLT, runway 18L

lul!
post 1661071803 05-10-2022, 04:45 PM
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Plane is about to take off...

Think I'm gonna sleep till Athens... gonna check the thread once I get there.
post 1661071913 05-10-2022, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted By GODself
8 months
I’d respond then, just tell her you wish her the best or something along those lines. Obviously you cared about her enough to move in together even if it was ill advised.
Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women.
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post 1661072063 05-10-2022, 04:49 PM
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She already has another dude's dong in her mouth
Courtney Ryan is my oneitis
post 1661072133 05-10-2022, 04:50 PM
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When you get to Greece, bang a sloot, take a pic of you banging sloot,text your ex gf that, then block her
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post 1661072423 05-10-2022, 04:56 PM
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She expects you to respond. DONT.
post 1661072803 05-10-2022, 05:07 PM
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I read your ****

you have to completely understand from her perspective shes just being defensive and facing a lot of emotions because her life is changing and she had 0 control in it. Shes confused, lost, hurt, and feels very alone right now.

The fact that you couldnt understand that when she was yelling at you and felt the desire to strike her physically is something you SERIOUSLY need to work on and do some soul searching because it sounds like you are only taking your perspective into account when making decisions. Nothing wrong with making decision selfishly but you need to be AWARE of what you are doing and it didnt sound like you were if you got that upset for something YOU were causing.
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post 1661073113 05-10-2022, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88
Don't reply and move with your life.

Also sort your issues out....lol at wanting to beat the **** out of a girl "until she stops or is passed out" because she's shouting at you.

You got some serious problems kid.
This, OP you're not a bad person, you're a weak person. Also, if you can't understand why your significant other may be mad about you suddenly running off for 6 months you may also be retarded.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1661073123 05-10-2022, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Broady78
She expects you to respond. DONT.
This

Also when reading this it sounds the typical manipulative sloot shyt.

What she is doing OP is doing her best to make you feel like a total sad fgfpgaggot so that you don't end up falling out of love with her. This is why she puts so much Disney drama in her ''farewell'' message. Sloot tactic to keep you awake at night while gets plowed by McDingus. This way she has a backup plan if she gets bored with her Cumgivers or at the least a permanent ''fan''.

She expects you to respond so that she can be sure you are still there for now and not because she cares.
post 1661073183 05-10-2022, 05:13 PM
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I like you op but I think I sympathize more with her on this one. I'm not sure she really wanted you to choose between her or the job. I think she would have accepted if you chose both. Imo she'd have accepted the 6 month thing if you had put some effort into showing her it will all be good and you'll be faithful and keep in contact. I think she just wanted more effort.

Based on your thread, how you were speaking about the relationship, how you were ignoring all her texts begging you to come to a resolution and be good with each other... It was pretty clear she was far more invested than you and deep down you wanted it to end. This was again shown by your final confrontation and how quickly you dropped her like a sack o chit and moved on lol.

Don't really see what the point of this thread is. Maybe just send her a last text telling her you appreciate her maturity and take care of herself. Give her the closure she needed to move on. 8 months, you at least owe her that.

Godspeed op.
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post 1661073243 05-10-2022, 05:15 PM
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Did op hit his gf or what
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