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post 1662439303 06-06-2022, 02:37 PM
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Think I fcuked up w/ my fwb

- been smashing broad for the past 3 months (like 15-20x)
- been going on dates here n there (maybe 3 total? we went to movies/got food and i paid every time)
- after a few dates and after smashing her i told her lets just be friends and sorry for not establishing this earlier before we went on dates
- i think she acted like she was cool with it but a few hours later she removed me from the dating app we orig. planned on
- would girls put on a front to preserve their pride/ego and say that in person?
- i want to continue to be fwb and she said she still is too but i feel bad for some reason (cause she is very sweet/angel and i would hate to imagine her crying), i guess i fcuked up by not talking about this earlier
- we haven't talked since then (this was saturday) maybe i should follow up on her and ck if she's ok?

- am new to all this chit and i am an autist
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post 1662439383 06-06-2022, 02:39 PM
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Just be honest with her. If all you want is FWB tell her that and let her make the choice. You never know, she may be fine with it.
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post 1662439423 06-06-2022, 02:40 PM
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i'm sure she's the only woman you can have sex with brah
post 1662439653 06-06-2022, 02:43 PM
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You focked up son, going on dates with smash piece? Girls throw mixed messages, not MEN.

The girl did what she was supposed to do. If you posted here about a girl who friend zones you after smashing and a few dates the collective advice would be to delete, NC and move on.


Also, think of your motives, you liked her enough to go on dates maybe you do like her. Do you just don't want a committed GF so you can keep smashing other sloots? It's a zest pool out there son.
post 1662439693 06-06-2022, 02:45 PM
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Your timing sucks. Never give bad women news after sex. They feel attached emotionally.

Do nothing, she said she wants to continue so business as usual. She wants more that's why she deleted you.
post 1662439723 06-06-2022, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Goat_187⏩
You focked up son, going on dates with smash piece? Girls throw mixed messages, not MEN.

The girl did what she was supposed to do. If you posted here about a girl who friend zones you after smashing and a few dates the collective advice would be to delete, NC and move on.


Also, think of your motives, you liked her enough to go on dates maybe you do like her. Do you just don't want a committed GF so you can keep smashing other sloots? It's a zest pool out there son.
Yes I want the benefits of smashing her and hanging out with her without the label. After 3 dates and after smashing her I finally told her my intentions. She seemed like she was ok with it so I'll just hit her up. If she doesn't respond well then I guess it's over. I just feel bad for playing her like that and for being selfish. Will not ever do again - not worth it.
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post 1662439853 06-06-2022, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
Yes I want the benefits of smashing her and hanging out with her without the label. After 3 dates and after smashing her I finally told her my intentions. She seemed like she was ok with it so I'll just hit her up. If she doesn't respond well then I guess it's over. I just feel bad for playing her like that and for being selfish. Will not ever do again - not worth it.
lol at a girl being fine with just smashing. guarantee she's not and prolonging it hoping something happens. don't word it smoothly and tell her you just want to use her.. see what happens

guaranteed

a ons can make sense. boom, fuk.. never see each other again. but if you see a girl multiple times..
post 1662439973 06-06-2022, 02:53 PM
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Doubt she really cares, she has a whole bumch of simps ready to show her attention
post 1662440003 06-06-2022, 02:54 PM
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The fact that you took her on dates and paid means you are either:

1. An incredibly lonely incel

OR

2. Want a relationship with her

Which one is it?

The most likely reason you aren't willing to commit to a relationship with her (even tho you have feelings) is that there is something wrong with her physically that you are ashamed of.

If you post some pics we can help you work through it.
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post 1662440273 06-06-2022, 02:59 PM
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Girls are usually not fine with the fwb thing unless they are turbosloots, you are very attractive, or you are very good at pretending you don't care about her. Sounds like 0/3 apply here, sorry OP.
post 1662440313 06-06-2022, 03:00 PM
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Similar boat here

Haven't seen my FWB in almost 2 weeks. Texted her today but no response. Hoping she's still interested and that she comes around again.

Feels bad mane :/
post 1662440403 06-06-2022, 03:02 PM
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Cliffs for cliffs?
post 1662440463 06-06-2022, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Cliffs for cliffs?
Only one of them knew they were fck buddies. Now they both do lol.
post 1662440553 06-06-2022, 03:06 PM
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Bruh just hit her up like nothing happened.

You've told her where you stand.

Continue to smash.
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post 1662474603 06-07-2022, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By LiftBigEatBig⏩
The fact that you took her on dates and paid means you are either:

1. An incredibly lonely incel

OR

2. Want a relationship with her

Which one is it?

The most likely reason you aren't willing to commit to a relationship with her (even tho you have feelings) is that there is something wrong with her physically that you are ashamed of.

If you post some pics we can help you work through it.
Yes, she's black and I'm east asian so in the long run it would never work out. In the beg I didn't care and wanted a relationship but I knew it would never work out.
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post 1662475013 06-07-2022, 08:21 AM
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This is literally the opposite of fwb

Sounds like OP was in a relationship for 3 months and is coping that it was fwb
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post 1662475313 06-07-2022, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
This is literally the opposite of fwb

Sounds like OP was in a relationship for 3 months and is coping that it was fwb
I would imagine thats how the girl looks at it srs
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post 1662475463 06-07-2022, 08:30 AM
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Yeah you threw mixed messages.

I had 2 young guys take me out to dinner several times so I caught feels, and then they said they just wanted casual. It was very confusing and upsetting. One said he learned from that and will never take out a woman again that he just wants for FWB as he could see how it hurt me.
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Give her some time to expand her D horizons now that she knows you're just FWBs brah, no biggie
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Yeah you threw mixed messages.

I had 2 young guys take me out to dinner several times so I caught feels, and then they said they just wanted casual. It was very confusing and upsetting. One said he learned from that and will never take out a woman again that he just wants for FWB as he could see how it hurt me.
Shut the fuk up you fat mentally ill fuking whale. Fuking LMFAO @ you constantly on here larping like you're fuking anything other than whatever blunt object you use to shove up that disgusting blow hole of yours. Tell me this, whens the last time you actually seen what your fanny looks like without the use of a mirror? No "young guys" want to fuk an old, burnt out post menopause mentally ill whale thats so overweight she can't even see her own fuking fanny. You're delusional and you have admitted as much previously.. and yet here you are still trying to larp. Sad. Didn't your psychologist tell you this was unhealthy for you? Take your meds and fuk off.
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Jake's on you OP, she's already DMing Chadimier and Jamal on the side.
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
Your timing sucks. Never give bad women news after sex. They feel attached emotionally.

Do nothing, she said she wants to continue so business as usual. She wants more that's why she deleted you.
happened with my ex, we banged after we broke up and somehow she thought that was her way back into my life

told her straight up that we are not getting back together and at first she took it hard but we banged again loool
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
Your timing sucks. Never give bad women news after sex. They feel attached emotionally.

Do nothing, she said she wants to continue so business as usual. She wants more that's why she deleted you.
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Is this the misc? Where the fuk are the pics? You have 5 minutes or negs .
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Just send her this

Some friends and I were having a conversation today about sexual chemistry between two people. I honestly couldn't focus on the convo because I had you on my mind. I just had this big grin on my face. I thought about how we click....when you touch me, kiss me....when I do the same to you. I love it. I want to try something if you're game. I want you to fukc my face. Straddle me and just grind on it. I wanna suck your pussy juice and get it all over my face. I'm not gonna touch you, I just wanna use all tongue and let you get as nasty as you want. Then, let me turn you over in doggy and suck your pussy from the back.....slowly. Nibble the clit, let you put a finger in there and feed it to me. Then, after I've eaten my fill, whatever happens next, does. I don't even care about the sex, I just need to taste you.
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
Yes, she's black and I'm east asian so in the long run it would never work out.In the beg I didn't care and wanted a relationship but I knew it would never work out.
What kind of cuck mentality is this? Why would you not date somebody because of their race if you are attracted to them?
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OP is putting in maximum effort to make her as dry as the Sahara desert.
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Tell her you 'fukd up' and you 'love her'. Then when she comes back, wait till she does something dumb/irritating (which won't be long cuzz she a female lol) say..'I'm srry, I gotta be honest with you' and then rattle things off she does that you dislike and tell her you are 'just being honest' whilst dumping her ass.
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
What kind of cuck mentality is this? Why would you not date somebody because of their race if you are attracted to them?
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Your problem is you're looking at this backwards. She was never your FWB to begin with because those terms were never established you autist degenerate.

What you actually had was a female who was willing to sleep with you as many times as it took to lock you down until you dropped this nuclear truth bomb on her.

You see, the problem is that neither men nor women are raised with any right perspective on relationships and sex. I mostly blame feminists, but degenerate fathers are to blame as well. So we end up with whoremaxxers like OP as a pitiful excuse of a man who thinks if he just keeps sticking his dikk in holes he'll eventually find a personality and we end up with dumb sloots like OP's fukk buddy who think if they just express their sexuality a guy will actually respect them for it and wife them up out of love for more than just their hole.

Both are delusions and a big part of what is wrong with our society.
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